My update...I had an appt the 5th & all is well. I am currently 14 weeks. The baby's heartbeat was 157 & she said uterus is measuring how it should. I go back in a month & at that time they will schedule my 20 week ultrasound to hopefully see what we are having! Hope everyone is doing well.

I think you should definately look at couns. You married your wife I assume because you loved her not because you thought she could have your babies. Keep you marriage happy & stable...that would be number one for me. I'm thinking of you & your wife...

I guess I'm confused, you want to donate your sperm to a bank because your wife can't get pregnant & you don't want it to go to waste??

I too was told my clinic took donations of leftover meds, so I went that route with my few leftovers. I don't see how that's legal either though. They are taking my prescription & I assume giving it to someone else...

I don't know about a loan specifically for ivf but we refinanced our house because that's the only way we were going to get to do it.

Hello to everyone. Thought I'd update here. My first ob appt went well. Got to see the baby & hear the heartbeat. I am still measuring where I should be & the baby's heartbeat was strong. They didn't do much at the appt but I will be going every 4 weeks until I'm farther along. They don't do vbacs w...

well i had my first ob appt with my reg. dr yesterday & they did another ultrasound. The bleed had gotten smaller & she wasn't worried with it at all. The baby looked great so everything is good. I had a emergency csection with my first then my second was vaginal. Evidentally where I live now doesn'...

Well I'm still on low dose aspirin till the 12th so I don't know if that would help or not. My reg. ob wants to do any us on friday to check things out so I guess we'll see what she has to say then. The ivf dr said no worry at all & if anything was going to happen because of it it would have before ...

San926: Congrats!! There is actually a thread in pregnant after treatment for aug. 09 babies. Congrats again!

First of all congrats!! second, try not to worry too much. I've read on here that lots of women have spotting or bleeding a little or all through pregnancy & have perfectly healthy babies. Our bodies go through so much with IVF so your spotting could be for many reasons. I'd keep asking the dr if it...

I'll do a search & look it up. I did some internet searching last night on it & almost everything I found said for most cases, it's nothing to worry about so I'm going to go with that. I have had no cramping or spotting this whole time so according to the dr that is a great sign. She said most disso...

Not sure how to word it as I've already forgotten how the dr worded it. I think subchronic bleeding is what is wrote on my paper. It was a dark area between the placenta & the cervix. She said it was nothing to worry about & will either go away or I may have minor spotting at some point which would ...

Just checking in. How is everyone doing, feeling? My internet has been down since Chirstmas & I've been going crazy without it. haha Anyway, I go for my last visit to the ivf clinic today for an ultrasound. After today I'm released to my regular OB. They've already called & have me scheduled for blo...

My first u/s was the 16th. Got to hear & see the heartbeat which was really exciting. My next one is Jan. 6 & then I'll be released from the IVF clinic back to my regular OBGYN. I haven't had any bloodwork since my 2nd beta 3 weeks after transfer. My u/s showed a single, we transferred two but I swe...

Thanks for the reassurance. I just got so scared & feel so stupid now that I first stepped out in sock feet & 2nd didn't even think it might be ice. It has been raining & I just assumed it was wet. I'm not having any strange feelings, bleeding, etc so I hope my little bean is nice & cushioned in the...