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by arrojulnic
Fri Dec 25, 2009 10:00 pm
Forum: Babies - Loved and Lost
Topic: Lost my daughter at 18 weeks.
Replies: 26
Views: 23119

Thanks!!!!

Thanks Baylorbear33 for your message. Its almost 2 months since I lost my daughter and it has been really hard, but it is getting easier. The holiday has been really tough, but hearing that you are gonna have your little boy soon makes me so HAPPY for you, I pray for him every day that he continues ...
by arrojulnic
Tue Dec 01, 2009 9:38 pm
Forum: Babies - Loved and Lost
Topic: Lost my daughter at 18 weeks.
Replies: 26
Views: 23119

we cant give up

Dear Souris Im so sorry to hear of your triplets. Our wounds are still too fresh to make any hard decisions. I know your'e afraid but so am I. Wait until your body and your heart heal, maybe then you will find the strength to try again. Im terrified of another m/c, so many women here have had 2 or 3...
by arrojulnic
Tue Dec 01, 2009 7:20 pm
Forum: Parents after treatment
Topic: Over 40s
Replies: 88
Views: 31813

thank you

Thank you Caroline, you really don't know how much I appreciate your reply. I have been in a panic since my m/c that I would run out of time and not be successful in my next attempts. I even thought of not trying again. According to my Dr. my ovaries have already returned to their regular business a...
by arrojulnic
Tue Dec 01, 2009 2:23 am
Forum: Parents after treatment
Topic: Over 40s
Replies: 88
Views: 31813

Dont quite belong here yet....

Hello Catharine, Yasmina, Elles and others; My name is Jules and I will be 41 this june. I dont quite belong in this forum since I dont have any living children, BUT I am so excited that this thread is here. It fills me with hope and expectation. I have been ttc for 3 years. In 7/09 we finally had a...
by arrojulnic
Mon Nov 30, 2009 10:41 pm
Forum: Babies - Loved and Lost
Topic: Lost my daughter at 18 weeks.
Replies: 26
Views: 23119

thank you

Dear Esperanza and Gi; Thank you for your reply's. Being able to speak to someone who has been there and has made it through is a big help. I went to the Dr today and he says Im healing very well. That is positive news and gives me lots of hope. I especially believe that as soon as my body feels bet...
by arrojulnic
Sun Nov 29, 2009 4:25 am
Forum: Babies - Loved and Lost
Topic: Lost my daughter at 18 weeks.
Replies: 26
Views: 23119

thanks fitz

The pain is just inconceivable. Its been about 2 weeks now and I still haven't left the house. Im just devastated. So you say you lost a third of your triplets? Does that mean you still have a set of twins inside of you? Im praying for them, hold them in tight. Good luck Sorry to hear of your little...
by arrojulnic
Fri Nov 27, 2009 9:38 pm
Forum: Babies - Loved and Lost
Topic: Lost my daughter at 18 weeks.
Replies: 26
Views: 23119

thanks Gi

Its so hard to find someone to talk to about this. Im glad we have this site. I feel like the people around me are expecting me to just "get over it and move on" they see it as 15 days gone by, for me the pain is as raw as if I lost her today, at this very moment. I cant just 'stop crying" I dont wa...
by arrojulnic
Thu Nov 26, 2009 10:42 pm
Forum: Pregnant after treatment
Topic: April 2010 Babies
Replies: 383
Views: 53860

I have to leave this forum

Im still so happy for all of you April 2010 mommies. I had a miscarriage on 11/11/09 at nearly 18 weeks, I am absolutely devastated and can't believe this has happened. I delivered a perfect little girl, we named her Ariana. Turns out I have an incompetent cervix (had no clue) Anyway, I guess I'll b...
by arrojulnic
Wed Nov 25, 2009 1:06 am
Forum: Babies - Loved and Lost
Topic: Lost my daughter at 18 weeks.
Replies: 26
Views: 23119

Lost my daughter at 18 weeks.

last wednesday 11/11/09 at 1:34 am i delivered my little girl at only 18 weeks. She was my little IVF miracle and I am devastated. The Dr. says I have an incompetent cervix.... My GOD how horrible to have a defective cervix of all things, I feel useless and Im afraid I failed my baby by not helping ...
by arrojulnic
Wed Nov 25, 2009 12:58 am
Forum: Babies - Loved and Lost
Topic: Preterm Labor at 21.5 wks
Replies: 8
Views: 9519

sorry

Dear Rosario, Im so sorry to hear of your loss, last wednesday 11/11/09 at 1:34 am i delivered my little girl at only 18 weeks. She was my little IVF miracle and I am devastated. The Dr. says I have an incompetent cervix.... My GOD how horrible to have a defective cervix of all things, I feel useles...
by arrojulnic
Fri Aug 21, 2009 1:03 am
Forum: Pregnant after treatment
Topic: April 2010 Babies
Replies: 383
Views: 53860

Hi! I'm new here and so excited to have found this forum. I've had 2 failed FET and 1 failed IUI. Had IVF 7/29 and finally got a BFP :D . We are due 4/22/10 and I still can't get over the excitement. Of course we are cautious but enjoying every minute of this wonderful news. Im so happy for all of y...
by arrojulnic
Fri Aug 21, 2009 12:37 am
Forum: Introductions
Topic: IVF Buddies Needed - Cycle #4 - Day 1 = August 14
Replies: 41
Views: 7171

Hi Lucky one

I'm new to this blog. Lucky one your message was the first one I read. I am 40 years old and have been TTC for 3 years. My 1st two attempts were FET and both were BFN :cry: . Last Nov I had my first IUI with fresh donor sperm and was sure it would work. But after 2ww got another BFN. I felt so disco...