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by Alette
Sat Nov 05, 2011 6:41 pm
Forum: Life after IVF
Topic: hard to accept
Replies: 31
Views: 38090

Re: hard to accept

now and then I pop in (cannot forget you girls!) yes, our son happened with the final ivf (nr. 5), I have had 24!! IUI treatments ,first 6, then 6 again and while I was on the waiting list for ivf, I was allowed for another 6 and the 18th attempt was bingo. But I miscarried with 10 weeks. Then, beca...
by Alette
Sun Jan 09, 2011 8:50 am
Forum: In Vitro Fertilization (IVF)
Topic: ivfpredict.com ?? have you seen this?
Replies: 16
Views: 2786

Re: ivfpredict.com ?? have you seen this?

I did the test too, based on the facts when I was undergoing ivf.

it said 4,91% :D
by Alette
Fri Jan 07, 2011 1:33 am
Forum: Life after IVF
Topic: my fault
Replies: 4
Views: 6292

Re: my fault

it is no ones fault, sometimes nature is cruel. do not feel guilty. you ARE DOING everything you can: IVF: the last thing you can do to have a child of your own, to receive naturally. (maybe adoption , if you are fortunate.. to have the chance to go through this procedure..) but please do not feel g...
by Alette
Tue Sep 28, 2010 9:43 pm
Forum: Life after IVF
Topic: hard to accept
Replies: 31
Views: 38090

Re: hard to accept

Heidi, I hope that you get your 4th attempt. My request was denied in # 5, only on 2nd thoughts they kindly agreed to give me ivf 5, not that they believed in it... no, they did not... (to be honest, neither did I) but to give me the feeling that I could finish ivf satisfactory(ly?). And I was sooo ...
by Alette
Sat Apr 24, 2010 10:19 pm
Forum: Life after IVF
Topic: Question about Loss-Miscarriage vs. IVF failures
Replies: 10
Views: 12790

Re: Question about Loss-Miscarriage vs. IVF failures

I just want to give you a big hug.

comparisation is misplaced.
every dream you dream and lost is just lost.

you meant right
just a big hug.

I feel the same
by Alette
Thu Mar 04, 2010 12:06 am
Forum: Life after IVF
Topic: Greetings
Replies: 1
Views: 5259

Re: Greetings

Marcus! I was never informed you changed the board!! (or did I miss?) doesn't matter... I do not know who you are (male, female??) , I do not even know whether you are an organization...or a private persoen.... I know nothing about Marcus and infertility and why you made this board but it helped me ...
by Alette
Wed Mar 03, 2010 11:58 pm
Forum: Life after IVF
Topic: hard to accept
Replies: 31
Views: 38090

Re: hard to accept

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by Alette
Sun Nov 16, 2008 10:13 pm
Forum: Life after IVF
Topic: a child after ivf and still feeling pain sometimes...
Replies: 8
Views: 7386

Thank you Kirsten for your reaction (for feeling the same :wink: ). strange ha? that we can feel this way... even though our deepest longing is fullfilled... I feel somehow sentimental today... as our little boy is turning 3 tomorrow... what a journey... Your words... " feel like I can't even say th...
by Alette
Tue Sep 16, 2008 7:13 am
Forum: Life after IVF
Topic: a child after ivf and still feeling pain sometimes...
Replies: 8
Views: 7386

Thank you for your reaction Children, it is so comforting to know that I am not the only one with feelings like this!
Yes, infertility is still a part of my life.

Congratulations with your pregnancy!

(I do pop in now and then)
by Alette
Sun Jul 27, 2008 9:55 pm
Forum: Life after IVF
Topic: Need advice !!!
Replies: 5
Views: 7771

Hi Nicole, I am sorry, I do not have advice, but I want to let you know that I think it is really UNFAIR that you may not be on the list. I slightly understand why: your condition could worsten. But this reason is so unfair and not right. Every time, this struggle, this struggle for 'treatment', thi...
by Alette
Sun Jul 27, 2008 9:25 am
Forum: Life after IVF
Topic: a child after ivf and still feeling pain sometimes...
Replies: 8
Views: 7386

Thank you for your reply Pauline. We cycled together ! And posted together on the 40+ subject! We were the lucky ones, weren't we! Koen is born on the 17th of November and Amelia Leah on the 30rd! I am sorry to hear that you are struggling so much for a second child and that you have these sorrows. ...
by Alette
Fri Jul 25, 2008 4:15 pm
Forum: Life after IVF
Topic: a child after ivf and still feeling pain sometimes...
Replies: 8
Views: 7386

Dear Vicky, how sweet of you to react! Our son is 2,5 :D so I do not think that I suffer from post natal depression :D . I searched for the symptoms of this depression but actually I never was crying (from joy and happiness yes) or fearfull or scared that I could not cope. After his birth, this peri...
by Alette
Thu Jun 26, 2008 10:28 pm
Forum: Life after IVF
Topic: a child after ivf and still feeling pain sometimes...
Replies: 8
Views: 7386

a child after ivf and still feeling pain sometimes...

pain of being childlessness... oh, I thank God for my Miracle, I enjoy my child every day, I cannot express my gratefulness, I am so aware of his existance, of his being, I am so aware too that I am very very lucky of having a child ! (I honestly did not expect it after such a struggle) I truely am ...
by Alette
Thu May 15, 2008 10:14 pm
Forum: Life after IVF
Topic: What should I do?
Replies: 4
Views: 8495

What a dilemma. I think you can only decide yourself. I had frozen embryo's too but I wanted them back myself. I never was in the position of choice. (yeah, I could have distroyed them... NO WAY.. if they were going to die, then inside me..) (besides, I would have loved to have 2, even 10 children)....