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by bethD
Mon Sep 02, 2019 1:02 am
Forum: Infertility
Topic: I might never become a mom...
Replies: 8
Views: 3785

Re: I might never become a mom...

I can totally relate to you. I'm going to visit a friend this weekend who's 20 something weeks pregnant. She got pg when only started trying! She's only just into a 2 year relationship (mine's coming on for 11 years). Although I'm happy for her, as soon as she (and any of my other friends who are pg...
by bethD
Sun Jan 27, 2019 9:57 pm
Forum: Infertility
Topic: how do you cope with others pregnancies?
Replies: 7
Views: 3360

Re: how do you cope with others pregnancies?

Your meltdown was not ridiculous!!! ALL of my girlfriends are baby-making machines! I thought I was totally "cool" with all of our infertility issues. We have "unexplained" infertility. My philosophy was whatever happens is what is meant to be... UNTIL, I was in my Dr. office having yet another bloo...
by bethD
Sun Jul 29, 2018 12:04 pm
Forum: General Forum
Topic: how do you keep positive?
Replies: 14
Views: 8418

Re: how do you keep positive?

Time to think is not your friend. These are the moments where you convince yourself you’re pregnant, start googling causes of infertility, or sob because you’re not pregnant yet. Avoid these things, and instead focus on being kind to yourself. Take some time for you and do something you love. Find a...
by bethD
Tue Dec 27, 2016 4:34 am
Forum: Infertility
Topic: anyone with surrogacy experience?
Replies: 16
Views: 6497

Re: anyone with surrogacy experience?

I should say vip package looks more 'comfortable'. I hate standing in lines! And also the fact that surrogate mother had already experienced surrogacy gives more confidence in success of procedure. It must be hard to be so far away from your baby even if it wasn't born yet… But you have the point he...
by bethD
Tue Dec 27, 2016 4:30 am
Forum: Infertility
Topic: anyone with surrogacy experience?
Replies: 16
Views: 6497

Re: anyone with surrogacy experience?

Such a relief! I thought this services cost a lot. But what is the difference? For example between standard and vip? I've looked through photos on their website. Honestly saying I was surprised! I didn't expect to see so cool design. And also the clinic looks very modern and 'european' on the pics. ...
by bethD
Tue Dec 27, 2016 4:14 am
Forum: Infertility
Topic: anyone with surrogacy experience?
Replies: 16
Views: 6497

Re: anyone with surrogacy experience?

Yes, I've read a lot about this clinic. Everything sounds pretty good. How much did you pay for surrogacy itself? And how much did all those services(I mean taxi, translator, accommodation and so on) cost to you? Did you like housing? Maybe it's better to stay in hotel? Usually they give you the wor...
by bethD
Tue Dec 27, 2016 4:00 am
Forum: Infertility
Topic: anyone with surrogacy experience?
Replies: 16
Views: 6497

Re: anyone with surrogacy experience?

I'm glad your story has a happy ending! You made me believe mine will have it too. I didn't know Russia has such a law! Thank you a lot for telling. It's weird some stranger can just grab your child. And the scariest thing is you can do nothing about it, because her actions are legal. We've also hea...
by bethD
Tue Dec 27, 2016 3:43 am
Forum: Infertility
Topic: anyone with surrogacy experience?
Replies: 16
Views: 6497

anyone with surrogacy experience?

Hello girls! I'm new to this community. I'm looking for advice and support. I'm 28 years old, married, have no children. My husband and I have been in TTC for almost 6 years already. We had 5 cycles of IVF and all unsuccessful. Each failure was unbearable. It was getting worse each other time... I f...