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by JessicaJJ
Sun Sep 01, 2019 9:31 pm
Forum: Infertility
Topic: I might never become a mom...
Replies: 8
Views: 3746

I might never become a mom...

Hi ladies! I’m back and I need to vent a little… I know you can relate. Last year 7 of my friends announced their pregnancies. Obviously almost all of them have had their babies by now. I wanted to join them so badly but it didn’t happen. A couple of days ago I went out with my bff who is 5 mnths pr...
by JessicaJJ
Mon Mar 04, 2019 1:49 am
Forum: Infertility
Topic: I'm so jealous!!!
Replies: 11
Views: 3887

Re: I'm so jealous!!!

If you are a bit*h then I am queen bit*h. I wouldn't say I am jealous. And trust me I have thought about this a lot. Hearing someone else is pregnant just reminds me of this very uphill struggle I am in. It brings me back to the depression I have to fight every day to keep going to my dream. I am in...
by JessicaJJ
Sun Jan 27, 2019 9:07 pm
Forum: Infertility
Topic: how do you cope with others pregnancies?
Replies: 7
Views: 3330

Re: how do you cope with others pregnancies?

We all have those moments and they are completely justified. It's hard when it seems to affect us so much. And our DHs don't seem to get the whole picture of why we NEVER stop thinking about it. I'm sure you are happy for your friend and we all are for other people. But why the hell can't they see o...
by JessicaJJ
Wed Jun 27, 2018 9:50 pm
Forum: General Forum
Topic: need to vent! very bad day
Replies: 4
Views: 3262

Re: need to vent! very bad day

I can totally relate!! Not too long ago my little sister told me she was pregnant with baby #2. I also started trying prior to her first one. Surprise Surprise! She was not trying for either. This just sent me through the roof. As time went on it got a little better. But now she is starting to show ...
by JessicaJJ
Mon Jun 18, 2018 8:01 pm
Forum: General Forum
Topic: how do you keep positive?
Replies: 14
Views: 8365

Re: how do you keep positive?

Dh and I both want a baby. It helps a lot with how supportive he is. He's pretty much on the same page as me. We both want children so much. We know we are supposed to be parents. That’s the only thing which matters. In the meantime, I spend a lot of time here and have met so many terrific people. I...
by JessicaJJ
Sat Apr 21, 2018 7:30 pm
Forum: In Vitro Fertilization (IVF)
Topic: donor eggs, how to find donor?
Replies: 26
Views: 15745

Re: donor eggs, how to find donor?

Don't beat yourself up! It is a very hard decision to make. I'd recommend you go for counselling to discuss whether it's right for you before you go down this road, although I think most clinics stipulate you having to do counselling anyway. I can completely relate to the feeling of feeling it isn't...
by JessicaJJ
Sun Feb 25, 2018 3:36 pm
Forum: Egg and embryo donation
Topic: de ivf, share your experience
Replies: 21
Views: 14118

Re: de ivf, share your experience

I believe this information will definitely help many women here to mentally accept the idea of using eggs of a donor. I think that such communities really help to go through infertility struggles. No one can understand us batter then women who faced problems in trying to conceive. I'm glad that my ...
by JessicaJJ
Sun Feb 25, 2018 3:35 pm
Forum: Egg and embryo donation
Topic: de ivf, share your experience
Replies: 21
Views: 14118

Re: de ivf, share your experience

Hello Jess! I'm so sorry you faced such diagnosis in such a young age. You are right! The only thing, which stops women from using donor eggs, is understanding that their baby will be not related to them. I should say thinking about this was driving me crazy. When I read about women experience and ...
by JessicaJJ
Sun Feb 25, 2018 2:55 pm
Forum: In Vitro Fertilization (IVF)
Topic: What are the treatment options for infertility?
Replies: 20
Views: 10379

Re: What are the treatment options for infertility?

I'm so sorry about your situation. If you've been trying to get pregnant for a year without success it's time to get help. Your first stop should be at your regular gynecologist. Your partner may also want to see urologist. You don't need to go straight to a fertility clinic. In fact, most clinics p...
by JessicaJJ
Sun Feb 25, 2018 2:52 pm
Forum: In Vitro Fertilization (IVF)
Topic: Cast your vote people. IVF or IUI?
Replies: 5
Views: 4569

Re: Cast your vote people. IVF or IUI?

I’m sorry about your situation. You still can conceive through ivf. Of course all of us including me would prefer to conceive naturally. I wish I could to do so... Anyway I see nothing wrong with ivf. The most important is to get pregnant and give birth to a healthy child. If ivf is necessary to do ...
by JessicaJJ
Sun Feb 25, 2018 2:46 pm
Forum: Egg and embryo donation
Topic: ivf with donor egg, need help
Replies: 28
Views: 20806

Re: ivf with donor egg, need help

Hello dear OP! First of all I have to say that this thread was really helpful for me. I'm so sorry about your story. I'm glad you are moving forward. I'm 36 yo. I was diagnosed with premature menopause. Now I'm looking for information about ivf with donor eggs. How is your journey going? Any news? H...
by JessicaJJ
Sun Feb 25, 2018 2:33 pm
Forum: Infertility
Topic: Looking into using donor eggs
Replies: 13
Views: 11238

Re: Looking into using donor eggs

I feel exactly the same now as you did before the pregnancy. I hope with my whole heart everything will change for me as well. I want to finally start enjoying my life, feeling happy and making my husband happy. Sadness and hate inside me is just destroying me and my life. I'm tired to feel sorry fo...
by JessicaJJ
Sun Feb 25, 2018 2:14 pm
Forum: Infertility
Topic: Looking into using donor eggs
Replies: 13
Views: 11238

Re: Looking into using donor eggs

Hello everyone! Thank you for your kind responses. I was thinking about de for a really long time. Now I know that I really want to have de ivf. I'm comforted that you are feeling the same as I am. I really needed someone to listen to me and to hear me. Every single one of my close friends is pregna...
by JessicaJJ
Sun Feb 25, 2018 1:59 pm
Forum: Egg and embryo donation
Topic: de ivf, share your experience
Replies: 21
Views: 14118

Re: de ivf, share your experience

Scientists made 'amazing discovery' as it's revealed infertile mothers who use donor eggs DO pass their DNA to their children. This discovery was made only a year ago. I think that's amazing! It was previously believed that the fertilised egg used to make the embryo only had DNA from the father and...
by JessicaJJ
Sun Feb 25, 2018 1:58 pm
Forum: Egg and embryo donation
Topic: de ivf, share your experience
Replies: 21
Views: 14118

Re: de ivf, share your experience

Hello Jessica! This's very interesting information I should say! Thank you for sharing it with us. I'm pregnant and I used donor eggs. I know what doubts you're talking about. I had them too. I think all women who choose de ivf as an option have doubts and uncertainty. It took me more than a year t...