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by kira099
Mon Sep 02, 2019 1:13 am
Forum: Infertility
Topic: I might never become a mom...
Replies: 8
Views: 3746

Re: I might never become a mom...

I think you have all said exactly how I feel, 24/7. I have 5 friends who had now announced their pregnancies this year. My partner and I have been together 10 years, TTC for 5 years. We are now awaiting IVF with de treatment due to unexplained infertility. Everyday gets harder and harder. I currentl...
by kira099
Wed Jul 31, 2019 9:02 pm
Forum: Infertility
Topic: ttc rude comments, let's have a little rant
Replies: 7
Views: 13382

Re: ttc rude comments, let's have a little rant

'I'm worried I'll be infertile' said to me several times by so called best friend while she was planning her wedding (and planning to ttc as soon after the wedding as possible). She knew my history and wasn't really supportive. Two years on and she's pg with baby #2. Another friend joking about how ...
by kira099
Sun Apr 14, 2019 9:21 pm
Forum: Infertility
Topic: I'm so jealous!!!
Replies: 11
Views: 3887

Re: I'm so jealous!!!

Hi all! Thank you for all ur support and encouragement. It just gets so hard sometimes… As much as your family and friends try to be there, they just don’t understand. It’s almost like they tip toe round you. I’m sick of people asking me when I’m going to have kids. It’s always people that haven’t s...
by kira099
Mon Mar 04, 2019 1:22 am
Forum: Infertility
Topic: I'm so jealous!!!
Replies: 11
Views: 3887

I'm so jealous!!!

Hi girls! How have you been? Sorry but I really REALLY need to vent! I hope some of you can relate! Because I feel so bad about how I feel… I’ve just found out that my cousin and his wife are expecting their 2nd baby. Don’t get me wrong! I am happy for them! But every time I hear that someone is pre...
by kira099
Thu Jan 31, 2019 11:52 pm
Forum: Infertility
Topic: not pregnant...again
Replies: 6
Views: 2575

Re: not pregnant...again

Thank all of you ladies for your support. It means the world to me. When I need someone to talk to, or someone to let me cry on their shoulder. Even though you’re not here with me. You’re more here than anyone else... I don’t know any of you but I love all of you. I would feel so alone without you g...
by kira099
Thu Jan 31, 2019 10:45 pm
Forum: Infertility
Topic: not pregnant...again
Replies: 6
Views: 2575

not pregnant...again

I thought for sure I was pregnant this time. Just felt so different… So when af showed up it was a big letdown. I’ve been crying off and on for three days now. I think I’m suffering from depression. I’m crying just typing this… I’m so scared that I’ll never get pregnant. I’m afraid we’ll have to use...
by kira099
Sun Jan 27, 2019 10:01 pm
Forum: Infertility
Topic: how do you cope with others pregnancies?
Replies: 7
Views: 3330

Re: how do you cope with others pregnancies?

I know how you feel and I'm glad we can all vent here and support each other. It's comforting to know that I'm not the only one going through this. Esp. when everyone around me seems to get pregnant from drinking the water! I had a meltdown this morning too. With all the ttcing and routine it's just...
by kira099
Wed Jun 27, 2018 9:44 pm
Forum: General Forum
Topic: need to vent! very bad day
Replies: 4
Views: 3262

need to vent! very bad day

I did not get much sleep last night. I was very tired. Then I got my periods this morning… I was actually ok because I had been expecting it to come, but still each time it sucks. Then I got to work to find my co-worker just beaming, and she said she was pregnant AGAIN and it was a total unplanned s...
by kira099
Wed Jun 27, 2018 9:42 pm
Forum: Infertility
Topic: cannot even give him a baby
Replies: 10
Views: 7209

Re: cannot even give him a baby

I'm so sorry. It is very hard, and the majority of women who are fertile just do not understand. Like you, I long for a child. Right now it is just DH and me. And every day we pray for children. I always say I would be so happy if I could just have one, but really I know I want 2. Ironically, I thin...
by kira099
Wed Jun 27, 2018 9:40 pm
Forum: General Forum
Topic: how do you keep positive?
Replies: 14
Views: 8365

Re: how do you keep positive?

I have been TTC for 2 years. I totally understand what you are going through. It's hard when many of your friends are bragging about their kids. It’s even harder when people announcing news like, "I'm pregnant and we weren't even trying!!" That happened to me last week. This is so frustrating when e...