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by sunseeker
Wed Nov 12, 2008 1:19 pm
Forum: General Forum
Topic: adoption
Replies: 3
Views: 962

adoption

Hi, After a lot of thought and soul searching we have decided not to try another donor cycle, I don't think I can handle another trip on that roller coaster ride again. We always said we would try 3 times and we have done that now, unfortunately without success. I realise this may not be the right p...
by sunseeker
Thu May 22, 2008 3:56 pm
Forum: General Forum
Topic: The Over 40 Crowd
Replies: 5470
Views: 707111

Sonia
So sorry, no words can really help, just know that we are all here for you and understand what you are going through.
Lol Ali x
by sunseeker
Sat May 17, 2008 4:12 pm
Forum: General Forum
Topic: adoption - to adopt or not?!
Replies: 9
Views: 1962

Jeck Thank you so much for sharing your lovely story, you were so unlucky and then became so lucky. You must have meant to become your little boys Mum & Dad, how old is your son now? We are still very much in a dilema but haven't got around to making any appointments to speak to either the clinic ab...
by sunseeker
Tue May 13, 2008 5:41 pm
Forum: General Forum
Topic: The Over 40 Crowd
Replies: 5470
Views: 707111

Hello again It's now stopped raining over here in sunny Spain - you guys in the UK have stolen our sun since last Thursday and we are now getting it back! Amy _ We are from the UK originally, we moved over to Mallorca to start a new life because we couldn't have a family but it still comes back to h...
by sunseeker
Fri May 09, 2008 3:48 pm
Forum: General Forum
Topic: The Over 40 Crowd
Replies: 5470
Views: 707111

Sorry I havent joined you for so long, I didn't even log on for about a year, sometimes its just too difficult which is daft because everybody here is going through the same thing and you all offer such great help and adivce, not to mention the PMA!! It's always so nice to hear of the successes in u...
by sunseeker
Thu May 08, 2008 7:22 am
Forum: General Forum
Topic: adoption - to adopt or not?!
Replies: 9
Views: 1962

Kristy I don't know what to say, I am so sorry for you, it must be absolutely heart breaking to lose the baby you longed for and thought you had at last. Life can be so cruel. I know exactly what you mean when you say how difficult it is to make a decision on what to do next. DH and I were talking l...
by sunseeker
Wed May 07, 2008 8:10 am
Forum: General Forum
Topic: adoption - to adopt or not?!
Replies: 9
Views: 1962

adoption - to adopt or not?!

Hi everyone Having just finished our third unsucessful attempt at IVF we are considering what to do next. Still feel pretty numb at the moment - really kept such a positive attitude convinced it would help so all feels a bit unreal at the moment. Can't sleep as you go over and over everything in you...
by sunseeker
Tue May 06, 2008 4:34 pm
Forum: Life after IVF
Topic: Anyone going through adoption right now?
Replies: 20
Views: 13447

Hi Guys It's been a long time since I have visite this site but I recognise a few names from before. We have just finished our third attempt, this one was with Frozen embies DE but received the dreaded call with a BFN yesterday. Feeling kind of numb today, been back to work but cried quite a lot, tr...
by sunseeker
Sun May 27, 2007 5:47 pm
Forum: General Forum
Topic: Ongoing 2ww "nut house" thread, welcome aboard!!!
Replies: 190
Views: 28722

hi guys Just checking in to see how you are all doing and really pleased to see so many BFP's - CONGRATLATIONS Jovigal ( how was bon jovi? and good luck on 1 June at your U/S), My2lnt, Tenny and Jane 22 you all give us hope to continue on this rocky road! So sorry to anyone who hasn't made it, yet, ...
by sunseeker
Sun May 27, 2007 5:31 pm
Forum: General Forum
Topic: The Over 40 Crowd
Replies: 5470
Views: 707111

Hi all Sonia - sounds like you had a really good, informative trip to Warsaw, at least they have checked everything before they even think about starting your treatment, that seems to make really good sense. Don't worry August will be here before you know it! Bev T - it must be a difficult decision ...
by sunseeker
Sun May 20, 2007 6:09 pm
Forum: General Forum
Topic: The Over 40 Crowd
Replies: 5470
Views: 707111

Hi Kat I know exactly how you feel about your friend at work who is pregnant but you kind of get used to it. We have just been out to lunch with our friends, one of whom is 5 months pregnant (it was an accident!) and we bumped into another friend who is also 5 months pregnant - it was the first time...
by sunseeker
Sat May 19, 2007 12:49 pm
Forum: General Forum
Topic: Ongoing 2ww "nut house" thread, welcome aboard!!!
Replies: 190
Views: 28722

Waiting - CONGRATULATIONS - has it sunk in yet??? I am really pleased for you, make sure you take it easy and look after that little one! Thanks for the info - I am going to try and write a list of questions to take next week so I don't forget anything when I'm there. Jovigal - good luck for Monday ...
by sunseeker
Sat May 19, 2007 12:42 pm
Forum: General Forum
Topic: The Over 40 Crowd
Replies: 5470
Views: 707111

Geckogirl - so sorry to see your news of BFN this morning - I know what you are going through but you sound like you are being positive and looking forward which is great. Good luck with whatever you decide. Jen - great news that you have found such a great GP - it was obviously meant to be, keep up...
by sunseeker
Thu May 17, 2007 5:02 pm
Forum: General Forum
Topic: Ongoing 2ww "nut house" thread, welcome aboard!!!
Replies: 190
Views: 28722

Hiya Waiting - we are going to see the specialist next week as he wants to talk to us and check me over, again. I need to write down a list of questions this time as I always seem to forget once I'm in there. I notice from everyone elses' posts that you all know how many cells and quality the little...
by sunseeker
Thu May 17, 2007 7:33 am
Forum: General Forum
Topic: The Over 40 Crowd
Replies: 5470
Views: 707111

Hi everyone Thank you all so much for your messages - it's so nice having you all there! I am feeling a little better now - you kind of come to terms with it and DH is being very supportive and just gives me lots of hugs which is just what I need right now. It's still really hard seeing people with ...