Thanks so much for thinking of me Sam. Of course I remember you. Hope you are doing okay too. Not sure where you are at the moment, between cycles?? Let me know how you are doing. I think I will be back at the Lister at some stage but just have n't been able to face it as yet. Have a lovely Christma...

I just wanted to come on here and wish all my friends a very Happy Christmas. Alison, am glad you are feeling okay, it is just so hard at this time of the year some days are okay and then you get the other days...... Are you waiting until the new year to try again? it has been hard on you these past...

Hi Traci Just wanted to say i really understand how scary it is coming on to this bit of the site. "Life after IVF" seems so final. I think you will find that all of us struggle with that bit. I think it is a slow process and not something that you can just decide and move on with very easily. I kno...

Dear Friends Long time no chat, it is a hard time of year for all of us. I have spent so many years thinking maybe this time next year, but to be honest I don't think like that any more. I do still enjoy Christmas though, don't know why, I just think I am a bit childish still, and there is something...

Oh Alice This news has cheered me up no end. You will remember we cycled together some time ago. Then last year on my last cycle you were so supportive of me. I really do remember all your kind and supportive words. I am so very pleased for you and your husband. It is truly wonderful news. I wish al...

Hi Girls Glad you had a good time when you met up just really sorry I was n't there. How is everyone? Special thoughts to Alison. hope everything is going as it should be. You are in my thoughts alot at the moment. All okay here really. I think it is a lovely idea to meet up before Christmas. The on...

It has been so lovely hearing from Luce and Lou. Do think of you all so often. Hope Jen is doing okay too. Really sorry as would have really loved to see you all but I can't make it this Friday. Just one of those things, but I am sure we will do it again as I have found the support from you girls so...

Dear Amanda I am so very sorry things did n't work out for you. I can imagine you must feel entirely wiped out. I do think it is lovely that you have a supportive family around you. If Darren is away it is exactly what you need. You certainly deserve a few g&ts after all you have been through. Even ...

Amanda Just wanted you to know you are in my thoughts. How did the test go on Sunday? It must be awful just waiting and waiting. I just hope that things are looking a bit better although I know you were n't hopeful. You have been through so much this year, I am wishing you and Darren the very best. ...

Congratulations Becky. Am delighted to hear your good news. It must be so exiting to think that this time next year you will be getting to meet your little daughter. Keep in touch as would love to hear how it all goes,
Love
Gracexx

Amanda Just want you to know that I am thinking of you during these days and very special thoughts with you for tomorrow. I know exactly what you mean about your dh and how unfair it all is, sometimes that seems almost the worst part of it ... thinking what a wonderful father they would make. Anyway...

Dear Kat Sorry you are having a hard time of it. It is all just so very difficult and as you say yourself there are no answers as such. I agree with Jjj in that it is always a good idea to just take some time out and try and pull yourself away from all of it for a while. I know this is hard as treat...

Hi Alison Welcome back, I am sure it must be really weird being home after seven weeks, bad enough after two. Delighted you had such a happy time together, it is so easy to go into our own little worlds during and after ivf. I can imagine a trip like that makes you really realise the importance of j...

Dear Kat I remember you very clearly Kat, I think we cycled around the same time last year. I am so sorry that this has happened. I don't know if you remember my story but I too have alot of failed attempts. Sometimes I have wondered why it has to be me? and why I have suffered so much through all o...

Dagny
I have n't been posting to you but have been willing this to work for you from afar. I am so, very sorry.
It just is n't fair, I wish I had something wise to say but I am afraid I don't. The main thing is you are not alone in your pain we all feel it with you.
Thinking of you both
Gracexx