Mags<br><br>Dh and I have decide we won't find out. Not sure if my local authority provide this service or not (don't have my 12 week scan 'til next week). Who knows, if they offer to tell us, we might not be able to resist?? <br><br>Tricky one! <br><br>Helen xx

That's fantastic news Sarah. It's amazing what you can get when you ask for it!!!!!!!!!<br><br>I was lucky too in that they were able to see heartbeats at 6 weeks - like Mags, it was an internal scan.<br><br>Hope your lucky day lasts all year!<br><br>Helen xx

Hi Emma<br><br>Try not to worry (easier said than done I know!)! <br><br>Luckily, they were able to pick up heartbeats at my 6 week scan (it worked out 6 weeks and one day). I think at this stage each day makes a difference and they did warn me that they might not be able to pick any up for a couple ...

Sarah<br><br>Fantastic news - congratultions!!!<br><br>My clinic (Oxford) give scans at 6 and 8 weeks as a matter of routine. Since being discharged from their care, my next scan is at 12 weeks (I'm 11 weeks today!!). I have to admit I think I too would go crazy waiting 'til 9 weeks. Maybe you could ...

Woppa<br><br>As I've said to you already, I am so desperately sorry for what you and Dougie have had to go through. To get so far and then have it snatched away - unbearable.<br><br>I think it's a lovely thing that you are doing with the service and tree - I hope it gives you the strength you need ...

Hi Emma<br><br>Congratulations on your postive result! I hope the OHSS settles down for you soon.<br><br>If you had ET on 7 April, I think that means that you are now 5 weeks pregnant! I think the way they work it out is: Add 2 weeks to date of ET (classed as last period date). So by the time you ...

Message from Emma Mortimer (who can't log in yet):<br> <br>Hope you don't mind but cant log on. <br>Can you post a message for me.<br>I had et on the 7th April, tested positive, but am suffering with OHSS, anyone else had this, any info would be great.<br>Been having scans every couple of days but ...

Hi All<br><br>It looks like the site's back up, yippee!!!! Unfortunately we've lost everything over the last couple of months. Shall we have a roll call??<br><br>Helen G - Preg with twins, EDD 17 November, 12 week scan due 7 May<br><br>I hope everyone is keeping well and bumps are blooming!!<br><br ...

Blimey Trace - it's never straightforward is it? Let me know how you get on Wednesday!<br><br>I'm doing good - had my first midwife appointment today where she asked where I wanted to give birth. I have a choice of 4 hospitals (didn't think you got choices on the NHS)!!. I can't have the babies at ...

Congratulations Emma - that's fantastic news!!<br><br>I hope the OHSS subsides quickly. Take care.<br><br>Helen xx

Hi Michell!!!!!!!!!!!! <br><br>Traci, do you do hair transplants as well for when Michell's pulled all of her hair out?? Maybe this season's look could be bald??<br><br>Helen xx

Hi everyone<br><br>We're back -yippee!!<br><br>Trace - sorry to hear about your blood tests! Is this something you had planned via Northampton? I'm not sure what it all means but keep me posted - I'm sure everything will be OK. Where was your holiday planned for in August? <br><br>Hope you are well ...

Tracey<br><br>I'm so sorry you're having to go through this. Nothing in this life is certain so don't give up hope!<br><br>Helen x

Hi Bex<br><br>As some of the others have said, I think you need to do what's right for you. I personally have only told a very few people. I only told a couple of close friends, the woman I work with and my brother that I was going through treatment. Even though my parents know that I need IVF, I ...

Hi All<br><br>I've finally had my paperwork through from the hospital and start sniffing on 23 January (2nd go). I know most of you have got going already and I can't wait to join you. If all goes accordingly to plan (which it did for me last time so I have to hope it will this time), I'll start ...