CarolynB Testing 12th needs our support and prayers

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Post by jackoa21 » Sat Dec 09, 2006 3:29 pm

Carolyn
Please dont give up.. Spotting even full on spotting happens for loads of ladies and they get a BFP.. I will be crossing fingers and toes and saying all my prayers.. We are all all thinking of you..

love and hugs
Your April/May Buddy
Jackie
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Post by gbnut » Sat Dec 09, 2006 4:38 pm

Carolyn please keep postive we are all here for you

Susan x
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Post by luby » Sat Dec 09, 2006 4:40 pm

Hi Carolyn

Wishing you all the best for a BFP..

Please keep positive, although I know its hard..

Lucy
Me 26, DP 36. 1st IVF - June 05 - +ve - m/c at 5 wks
2nd IVF - Nov 05 - +ve - m/c at 8.5 weeks
3rd IVF -May 06 - BFN
4th IVF - Oct 06 -BFN
5th IVF - May 07 - BFN

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Post by Xrayem » Sun Dec 10, 2006 6:17 am

Hi Carolyn,

Wishing you loads of PMA. Don't worry about the spotting, it might be implantation bleeding. We are all here for you,

Lots of love Em
TTC 5yrs - Unexplained Infertility
3xIUI's (April, June & Aug 06) - BFN,s
1st IVF - Oct 06 - Jasper & Finlay born 07/06/07
Natural preg - Addison Grace born 15/10/08

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Post by CarolynB » Sun Dec 10, 2006 11:22 am

Thank you all. Not sure how I would survive if I did not have the support from all of you.

No fairytale for me I'm afraid. Just the same as last time. Spotting has pretty much turned into full on bleed for me. Hard for me to say but AF here on Day 12 as last cycle. I shall go for the blood test on Tuesday as my clinic will not book me in for follow up until I have attended. Follow up is at least 2 weeks later so will be after Xmas now. Dh and I are going to try to get a last minute holiday to somewhere sunny as we don't want to put a downer on Xmas for the rest of the family or pretend that everything is alright when it is not. After 2 cycles and 2 ops in the last 8 months, we need some time out together as well. Dh will not talk yet about what next but we have snow babies from my cycle 1 so could try a FET. My clinic makes you wait at least 3AFs so guess the earliest that I could cycle again would be February whether we go for a FET or another Fresh cycle.

I may take some time out from the boards over the Xmas period. It does not mean that I am not thinking of you all, each and everyday. Because I am & I will be. Nobody deserves to have to go through this.

Love to you all.
Carolyn xxx
Me 42, DH 52 IVF #1, #2, #3 ICSI #4 - 10.05.2006, 12.12.2006, 10.03.2007, 27.07.2007 ICSI/DE/TESA #5, #6 PGD/IVIG #7 - 24.11.2007, 27.02.2008, 23.05.2008 - 7 BFNs
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Post by Smita » Sun Dec 10, 2006 5:18 pm

Many hugs Carolyn-
thats all I can offer.
much love,
smita
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Post by Dory » Sun Dec 10, 2006 6:05 pm

Carolyn hunny,

I'm so sorry for your sad news, as you say no one deserves to go through all this....
You are in my thoughts and prayers. I'm not going to say hold in there, it may still be ok, as i've said before we all know our bodies and know when it's all over.

I do wish you all the luck in the future with IVF or any other way you choose to go.

I know how you feel about taking time away, it will do you good to take time out for yourself and DH and i know how hard it is going to be, but try and enjoy the holidays......

Good luck sweetie
Take care
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Post by Macca8 » Sun Dec 10, 2006 9:14 pm

Oh Carolyn,

I am so sorry sweetie. I really hope it is just spotting. Lots of people get their periods and are still pregnant. My mum was bleeding all the way through her pregnancy on me and only because she got a big belly at 5 months and she is tiny normally, I might have popped out and scared the life out of her.

You are in my thoughts and prayers.

Love Lisa XXX
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Post by mom20 » Mon Dec 11, 2006 6:51 pm

keep postive you never know it might still be ok sending you lots of hugs mom20

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Post by CarolynB » Tue Dec 12, 2006 1:54 pm

Thanks you all the support.

As expected, it is another BFN for me.

Dh & I are going to go on holiday and forget about 2006.

Review just scheduled for Jan 10th so with Xmas hopefully not too far away. Will see then whether we go for another Fresh cycle or use the snow babies from cycle 1.

Hugs to you all.
Carolyn xxxx
Me 42, DH 52 IVF #1, #2, #3 ICSI #4 - 10.05.2006, 12.12.2006, 10.03.2007, 27.07.2007 ICSI/DE/TESA #5, #6 PGD/IVIG #7 - 24.11.2007, 27.02.2008, 23.05.2008 - 7 BFNs
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Post by AuntyPebbles » Tue Dec 12, 2006 2:06 pm

Carolyn im so sorry
i hope you enjoy your break away and wish you wonderful things in the new year..

hugs Aunty
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Post by lara312 » Tue Dec 12, 2006 2:14 pm

Carolyn i'm so sorry sending massive hugs for you and dh i hope you have a fab hoilday relaxing and chilling out .I hope 2007 answers all your prayers
love Rachel x x
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Post by gbnut » Tue Dec 12, 2006 2:22 pm

Carolyn Please take care. Have a good holiday and come back all refreshed for 2007.

"2007 will be a better year

Susan x
ME 32 DH 31 Severe endo tubes blocked
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3 FET 2 BFN May 07 FET BFP sadly M/C 7 weeks.4th FET july[img]http://tickers.TickerFactory.com/ezt/d/4;10718;121/st/20070723/e/HCG+blood+test/dt/5/k/7a17/event.png[/img]

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Post by Fed7281 » Tue Dec 12, 2006 2:23 pm

Carolyn, I am so sorry for you and DH. I am praying that 2007 gives you everything you want!

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HI

Post by WISCONSINGAL » Wed Dec 13, 2006 6:40 pm

SO SORRY TO HEAR ABOUT YOUR NEWS.......MY THOUGHTS AND PRAYERS ARE WITH YOU BOTH AND I WISH YOU REST & PEACE OVER THE HOLIDAYS!
2 FAILED IUI'S
NOV. IVF 2006, CANCELLED NO FERTILIZATION
2ND IVF JAN. 2007, GOT BFP
M/C @ 11 WEEKS

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