A bit of an update (if u can call it that!) I rung the clinic and spoke to the embryologist and she did state that they did only freeze grade 1 embryo's
When i explained about my concerns which are:
1: If all i had was a 4cell grade 2 embryo they would put it back and i would have a VERY good chance of a pregnancy - then why cant they freeze them to give them that extra chance (even if they dont make it - i would have tried) and not leave them to perish in a dish!
2: To me embryo's are babies from time of conception - when the sperm fertalizes the eggs, now weather these be grade 1, 2, 3 or even further down the line, they are still my babies, and i want to give them every chance they have got - after all i am their mother and i will fight tooth and nail for them.
3: We were willing to pay for the freezing, even if they are graded not so good. We arre fully aware that they might not make their grade, but to us - they are all grade 1. I explained also that we only fertalized 2 eggs the last time because of our concerns (and that we had to throw away 10 other eggs) and she agreed that this was cutting our chances way below the average, but it was a chance we was willing to take, cos we wernt prepared to leave our embies in a dish to perish!
She was very understanding and said that aslong as we were fully aware that the embryo's might not make the freeze, then she wouldnt have a problem freezing them
Wait - dont get too excited, she also stated that the DR's would also have to agree to it
So the bee all and end all of it is - im still none the wiser, but feel i have a better chance at this clinic than the last one! It is our last hope, so fingers crossed for me guys.....
Also i asked about the waiting list, and if i want to pay for 1st consultation, then i will get thru much quicker and find out my anwser. It being just after xmas, we are going to have to work out our finances b4 we decide - i will keep u all updated, thanks for being here for me and letting me rant about my concerns, u are all wonderful and i thank u xxxx