Help I don't know what's going on.....

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Help I don't know what's going on.....

Post by Dory » Tue Jan 16, 2007 1:22 am

I had my last FET on 17th Nov and had a BFN. My AF arrived the following Thurs and i haven't had another one since.
That AF was very light and there was traces of white tissue coming away.

My AF was due last Sunday so i am 9 days late if you include the Sunday.

I have done 2 HPT one last Thurs and then again Sat and they were both negitive.

I haven't really had sex in the past month as my DH Has ED, but we did have slight penatration one time duing the past month.....

Can anybody help? has anyone been through this?

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Post by AuntyPebbles » Tue Jan 16, 2007 1:57 am

Hi Dory
im sorry you are going through this i know how emotionally wrenching this can be i had a similar thing after my last IVF i had minimum spotting couldn't really call it AF then nothing for 7 weeks then a small AF then late again its taken ages for my body to get back to normal i was even late this time but more of a normal AF when it did arrive
saying this it would be wonderful for you to break the odds and get an old fashioned BFP...prayers your way

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Post by jeck » Tue Jan 16, 2007 3:43 am

Dory,

I just wanted you to know that I was thinking of you!!! I hope everything works out soon.

One can still hope that you are preggers!!

I know I was almost 2 weeks late this last time and we decided that if I was preggers that we would have to name the baby Jesus! Because it would be a miracle. But as I thought AF showed up with revenge!!

But from being on this site I know that miracles can and do happen, I will keep everything crossed for you!!!

Dang meds why do they have to mess with our bodies so!!!

Take care honey!!!

Jessica
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Post by meg12 » Tue Jan 16, 2007 4:26 am

I had my first IVF in November, also with a BFN. I got AF right on schedule in December, and it was nice and normal (maybe a little heavy?). However, that was 43 days ago and there's been nothing since. The longest I've gone since I've been keeping track is 42 days, so it's not excessively late, but still. You know how we are--any little hope :wink:
I'm sure that it's just the hormones messing with me, so I've refrained from taking an hpt. I made a deal with myself that I'd wait at least another week before jumping to that conclusion. Still, I'm dying to start FET, so if I'm not pregnant, (which I'm sure I'm not) I wish the old lady would show up already!!!!!

Anyway, thanks for the post Dory. It's nice to know someone else is going through this!
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Post by beachbaby » Tue Jan 16, 2007 1:23 pm

Hi Dory,
I had a FET early nov and got a chemical pregnancy, once i stopped the drugs AF was here within 2 days. However my december AF finally showed up 8 days late,I don't know why as i am always bang on time even after the fresh cycle no change. It must be something to do with the FET.Hope is always there though!
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Post by Dory » Tue Jan 16, 2007 3:58 pm

Thanks for the replies girls, you have put my mind at ease, I am pretty sure i'm not pregnant, and as Jessica says it would be named Jesus as it sure would have be a miracle!!!!!!

It's reassuring to know that this is pretty common after doing IVF. I did think that maybe it was the drugs messing up my system, as i usually am as regular as clockwork.

It's not nice being given false hope though, it's bad enough having all the disapointment from the IVF not working and then to get this, but knowing that it is happening to a few of you girls, has made it easier to cope with.

Thank again for all your support, wishing you all luck in the future, with whatever you do.
Jeck hows the adoption going? Hope it's all going to plan.

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Post by jeck » Tue Jan 16, 2007 4:24 pm

Dory!!

It really does suck that IVF still screws us months later!!! I am a 28 day down to the minute kind of girl. Even with my miscarriages I would get right back on schedule immediately after but then the next month would be screwy! This time I figured it was late because it took forever for my hcg to get to zero and when it did finally so up it was very clotty (sorry TMI) so I figured it was my body finally get rid of everything!!!

I am so ready for all these drugs to be out of my system and lose some weight!! LOL!! My last IVF was in October and I am just now starting to feel not so bloated. I figure it will take me 6 good months to get back to normal.

The adoption is going well. Our paper work should go to our agency this week and be ready to be sent to Guatemala to be translated and go thru their system!!!! That is when the real fun begins!!! We are going to meet our son on Feb 7th -12th! We are so excited, scared and nervous!!! Hello, First time parents here!! While we visit he will stay with us 24/7 and we said we were going to set him in the middle of the bed and poke at him!! LOL!! Because we will no idea what to do with him!! LOL!! I am sure he will help us figure it out quick!!!

Dory I hope that everything gets back on track for you soon and that you have found your peace!!! I know I have and I really didn't think I would ever be truely happy again. The real test of that came last week when I became a Great Aunt!!! I really was happy for them and even though I did shed a few tears of sadness and morn my loss some. I had more happy tears of celeabration of my great nephew arriving and of happiness of being on the path that I am on!!

Lots of love and prayers!!
Jessica
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Post by nicolamark » Tue Jan 16, 2007 8:20 pm

Oh dory, this is a worry for you, sorry i dont know what to say, it could be the drugs having an affect on your body, have u spoken to your DR, parhaps they could help ya.... stay strong!!!
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1st IVF cancelled OHSS 2006
2nd IVF 4 eggs all failed to fertilise 2009
3rd IVF successful 2010 pregnant Miscarried early
FET negative 2011
ADOPTED DAUGHTER 2014

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