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Postby Jen1d » Mon Feb 11, 2008 3:05 pm

me 38 dh 38, ttc for 6yrs,
HSG - Tubes Damaged
Bilateral Salpingectomy, 16th Aug 06,
Hysteroscopy - 30th Oct 07
4 IVF - BFN, 3 ED - BFN
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Postby Welshgirl38 » Mon Feb 11, 2008 3:10 pm


I dont know what to say hun - im so sad for you :cry:

IVF is not fair, its not fair to keep getting the disapointment time and time again, i hope that the adoption process will finally give u some peace ... u so deserve it, im so so sorry hun :cry: hugz ...

Becky Xxx

1 IVF=BFN 2 IVF=BFN 3 IVF=BFP :) m/c @ 8 wks :( 4 IVF=BFN
We must now let go of the life we had planned, to live the life waiting for us..


Adoption course starts March 19th
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Postby Hope644 » Mon Feb 11, 2008 3:17 pm

Jen -

I'm so sorry, sweetie. We so hoped your lack of AF signs was going to be the big difference in this cycle for you.

Thinking of you today... you're in my prayers.

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Postby lara312 » Mon Feb 11, 2008 3:46 pm

Jen i'm so sorry this is so unfair sending huge hugs to you and dh
lots of love Rachel x x
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Postby nic4 » Mon Feb 11, 2008 3:48 pm

Ohhhh Jen,

Im so so sorry that you keep getting negs,iv my fingers crossed in case bloods say differently :cry: :cry: ...

I had hoped after your earlier good news,u were on a roll.

I hope the adoption route gives u and DP,the baby u both so deserve.

My love and hugs..Nicola..xxx
1st ivf,jan 2006(bfn) 2nd ivf,april 2006(bfn) 1st FET,july 2006(bfn) 3rd fresh ivf,nov 2006 (BFP) by the grace of god..1 baby due end July 2007..Jack born 24th july 2007..
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Postby stephjim » Mon Feb 11, 2008 4:00 pm

I am so sorry for your bad news. Hopefully the blood will show differently. I can't imagine going through as much as you have already. This is such a hard road to go down time and time again. Please let me know if you want to talk.
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Postby Angel505 » Mon Feb 11, 2008 4:03 pm



This IF process is so unfair and there is no reason for anything. :( I'm still praying for you - I do so hope with all my heart that the blood test proves your HPT wrong.
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Postby AuntyPebbles » Mon Feb 11, 2008 5:40 pm

AWWW Jen im sorry this didnt work out for you it really sucks.... if the test is neg then you know there is a baby out there that needs you (welcome to the adoption option) we are going to make great parents

thinking of you.....loads of hugs Aunty
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Postby nimble » Mon Feb 11, 2008 6:56 pm

jen - I'm so sorry, lost for words, really thought this one was the one - I really hope the bloods prove the HPT wrong.

big hugs
nims xx
1st IVF - Sep 06 - +ve lost at 7wks
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Postby Lucy12 » Mon Feb 11, 2008 7:30 pm

Jen I am soo sorry its really not fair. I really thought you were going to have 3 positve results today.

Glade you passed the interview, lets hope the adoption process hurrys along.

Sending you lots of hugs.


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Postby tennisgurl » Tue Feb 12, 2008 1:24 am

I am sorry....I will pray for you
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Postby Kiwi expat » Tue Feb 12, 2008 1:47 am

Jen - Life can be a real B#tch sometimes!! I'm so sorry. Thought we might be both celebrating our BFPs today but I guess it's not our time. :cry:

Thanks for being a fab cycle buddy with me this month. You've made me laugh alot and we can all relate to so many things...

On the bright side, it's great news on the adoption front - At least thats a sure thing - I know you WILL get your baby one day!

Chat to you more on the other thread.

Big hugs,

4 rollercoaster yrs of IVF using own eggs, then -

1st IVF (DE fresh) Jan 2008 - BFN
2nd IVF (DE frosties) May 2008 - cancelled
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Postby jen babes » Tue Feb 12, 2008 8:34 am

Sending you much love jen....
this is such a hard time for you, but you are strong...
and we are here for you if you need to talk

love jen
2 natural preg,both ectopics.
3 IVF's 2005/6 all BFNs
4th Nov07- BFP! lost @ 5wks 6d
5th FET-Feb08 BFN
In my dreams...May 2010 DE Athens

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Postby AMck » Tue Feb 12, 2008 8:42 am

Jen sweetheart, words fail me................. I am so so sorry. This is too unfair. Wish I could take away the pain for you.

You will be a mum one day, it's just going to take a little longer, which is cruel as you have been through so much already. BUT don't you dare give up. There is a baby out there waiting for you and you will be the most fantastic mum.

Please please take care of yourself and DH. Am here if you need me.
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7 cancelled IVF cycles during 2005/6
ED tmt at IM June 06 BFN
ED tmt at IM July 06 BFP
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Postby Jen1d » Tue Feb 12, 2008 4:19 pm


I'm struggling and dont know how i come to terms with never being able to experience pregnancy or having my own child but i am grateful i have the chance to adopt.

Thank you girls for keeping me going

Love Jen x
me 38 dh 38, ttc for 6yrs,
HSG - Tubes Damaged
Bilateral Salpingectomy, 16th Aug 06,
Hysteroscopy - 30th Oct 07
4 IVF - BFN, 3 ED - BFN
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