we have known since 03 about no sperm, and back then
DH was scared about losing a child to another man, who might come knocking wanting his kid back, but now we have investigated it... i doesnt work like that, and we know
DH would be the daddy, just not the father...we see it as a daddy loves & cares for the child and a father just makes it!!!
so yes our baby if we ever get 1 will have daddy & father as 2 men, but honestly now
dh is cool about it, and hasnt had issues. we had counselling too, but we had chatted it togther and found the cousellor annoying, but honestly if you and
dh are close you'll over come it..
dh is still sad he had no sperm and worries constantly about me having affair to get preggers, but like i say if your relationship is strong you'll come through it ok.
Dh suffers panic attacks so going thro an operation wouldnt ever happen, we dont know why? but its been the same since 03, so its not a passing phase. Some men just arent born with it, so we tell ourselves this is the reason, although we dont actually know
Good luck babe. xxx