Traci's RESULT

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Post by Tracey S » Fri Nov 28, 2003 10:49 am

Traci has just sent me an email and can't log on to the site for some reason so here goes:<br>When I get on the site it wont let me go into messages!!! if you can could you do me the honours!!! and copy this to it.<br> <br>Well I did it !!!!<br> <br> <br>And it was a BF______________________________________________ Gutted , but as I thought . Will get thoroughly Trollied tonight , all I can say is "I haven't just found out I've got 6 months to live " I'm healthy and have a wonderful DH a great job and lots of nice friends which is more than I could wish for . I will have another go as I feel like its not time to give up yet, I know its going to work but not this time . Will try and get an appointment as soon as Poss to get a sight on what's next on the agenda.<br> <br>Throwing my Candle away!!!! I'm not using it for anyone else :(<br> <br>Love to you all and thanks for all your support, I will still watch how you are all doing and I expect lots of positives so I can have hope!<br> <br>Good luck everyone<br> <br>Trace x <br><br><br>TRACE - I am sending you (as well as athe email loads of love and special hugs - I don't know what to say and I am queen of the talk and shitty things happening to me) WIth all my love and support<br>Tracey<br>xxxx
ttc 9 years. 38 yrs old, dh 8 hrs younger!First IVF in Aug 2002 and had ectopic.2nd IVF neg.3rd FET and negative.4th FET and positive but sadly lost our little boy at 20 weeks.5th FET and Alice Isobel and Emily Charlotte born 5th Aug 2004!


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Post by Dagny » Fri Nov 28, 2003 11:10 am

Oh Traci<br><br>I am so sorry this has happened. It is so hard to take when you have spent so long wishing and hoping. I agree with what you said about your good health and fab DH and caring friends, sometimes we forget what good things we do have as we have focused so much on the tmt. But it will be your turn one day you and DH just need to spend some quality time together and remain positive for the next go. Don't throw your candle away, light it and pray for the embies and say good bye and let the candle go out when it gets to the end. Have a small ceremony with your DH. We did on our two un-successful attempts. I wish you loads of luck for your next go.<br><br>Take care love Dagny x
Me 38 DH 40
1st 2nd & 4th IVF/ICSI -ve
3rd +ve DD Katelyn born @ 24wks & sadly died
5th +ve m/c 9wks
6th +ve Twins Sadly DD Leah stillborn @20wks and DS Kieran born @22wks but sadly died too
7th +ve - DD Chloë Mae born @38wks our precious miracle

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Post by Nick » Fri Nov 28, 2003 11:20 am

Dear Traci,<br><br>Really disappointed for you, it really is s***t going through this, isn't it? But please don't forget that we are all with you and thinking of you too. And hey! I'll be joining you on Wed. It's funny but you just kinda know that it hasn't worked. Silent body.<br><br>Huge huggies, from my DH, doggie and one from me too, kiss kiss xx<br>Nickyxx<br><br>
1st IVF -ve. 2nd IVF abandoned 3rd IVF +ve but m/c at 8 wks. 4th IVF 1 embie - not looking good.5th IVF Short Protocol - more eggs er.. 5 actually - but -ve AGAIN. What now? Me 39 DDH 48. Unexplained

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Post by Jo Locker » Fri Nov 28, 2003 11:24 am

What is there to say? nothing except really sorry Traci cos you are so cut out to be a mum. It's so you to list the positives in your life and I know they're very real and we do have a lot of other things to be thankful for but it's so frustrating when you have to wait yet a little longer for your dream to come true.<br><br>I know there's nothing practical we can do but you know we all offer you our support and we are all gutted this weekend for you and your DH.<br><br>Lots of Love, Jo. XXXXX<br>

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Post by Dolly » Fri Nov 28, 2003 11:27 am

Hi Traci<br><br>I'm SO sorry it didn't work out for you this time. You really deserve for it to work and as Nicky said we are all thinking of you.<br><br>Love and millions of hugs<br><br>Dolly
Me 38 / DH 40. TTC 8 yrs
3 natural pg - 2 ectopics and 1 miscarriage
2nd IVF +ve but miscarried
1st, 3rd, 4th, 5th, 6th IVF all -ve
Moved to the ARGC.
Just started for the 7th time (!) Feb/March 2006.

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Post by SJ BROWN » Fri Nov 28, 2003 11:35 am

Hi Traci<br><br>I am really sorry you did not get the big fat +ve you so deserve.....<br>I have just been catching up over the previous weeks posts and see you have posted so much and been such a huge support to so many.......if anyone desrves to be a mum-you do and Im sure one day your dream will happen.....<br><br>You sound such a strong person and have so many good things in your life, try and focus on those precious things for now & i really wish you lots of luck for your next tmt(really glad you have not given up)<br><br>Take care<br>Sarah <br>xx

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Post by Faye » Fri Nov 28, 2003 11:42 am

Traci<br>I really feel gutted for you and DH, I'm so sorry it has'nt worked for you both this time. <br>Thinking of you both<br>love faye<br>xx

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Post by july ann » Fri Nov 28, 2003 11:49 am

oh no it is not fair....<br><br>i came back from holiday today and had to see how you were getting on.<br><br>i'm so so sorry and hope you have luck in the new year.<br><br>take care <br><br>love july ann
been in tmt for 4 years.Male factor. Have had 3 icsi, one ivf with donor sperm.Went for fet with 7 eggs but none made it to blastocyst. just had 5 DI. test date 27 july

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Post by beckym » Fri Nov 28, 2003 12:43 pm

Traci, so sorry to hear your news. What can I say. I'm gutted for you but glad that you are being so positive about it all and have decided to give it another shot. I know your dream will come true some day soon. all my love to you and dh, your buddy. beckym xxx

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Post by Alison » Fri Nov 28, 2003 1:20 pm

Oh Traci - that's just so not fair. I really hope that you are able to log on and at least read these messages - I felt so supported by the messages I received earlier in the week.<br><br>Glad to hear you sounding so full of determination to move on. You're right about counting your blessings - don't forget though that you're allowed to be upset and angry too! Love to your cousin too - she's a very special person.<br><br>Alison x

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Post by helenlouise » Fri Nov 28, 2003 1:39 pm

what can i say? nothing that hasn't been said already. Look after yourself and keep healthy for next time.<br>helen xx
me 33, DP 35
ICSI cycle Nov 2003, tested positive.

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Post by Lisa Ch » Fri Nov 28, 2003 2:44 pm

Traci<br><br>so sorry, get pi**ed with dh, stay strong and well and I hope and pray that next time is your turn. Thinking of you, keep in touch.<br><br>Love and hugs<br>Lisa xx

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Post by LORRAINE G » Fri Nov 28, 2003 3:37 pm

Just wanted to add my sympathies to the others,<br><br>Take care we are all thinking of you<br><br>Love Lorraine G

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Post by fiona_lk » Fri Nov 28, 2003 3:51 pm

I'm so sorry Traci that it wasn't this time for you - stay strong, glad to see you're already prepared to fight the fight again.<br><br>Am thinking of you, take care<br><br><br>Love Fiona xxx
Me:36 Dh:46, ttc 5+yrs, M/F (96% abnormal).
13 unsuccessful Txs From 2000 [4xClomid (NHS), 7xIUI(d)s & ICSI#1 (MFS), ICSI#2 (MFS) Oct 02 (ectopic)] Natural pg Jan 03 m/c 5.5wks
ICSI#3 (CARE) +ve boy (Xander) EDD 21/03/04 - so excited!!!!!!

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Post by Grace » Fri Nov 28, 2003 4:19 pm

Tracey<br><br>I am so very sorry that things have n't worked out. As always though am in awe of you determination and positivity. You are so right when things look bleak we have to try and remind ourselves of all the good things in our lives. I know it is hard to do sometimes.<br><br>Enjoy that drink tonight and good long soak in some expensive bubbles. These things don't take the pain away as you know but somehow take the edge off.<br><br>Will talk soon<br><br>Love<br>Gracexxx

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