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A sad ending

Postby fiona_lk » Fri Nov 08, 2002 3:50 pm

Hi all,<br><br>Well, it just wasn't meant to be this time after all.<br><br>Having been called in for a scan about 11, this showed no sac in the uterus, never mind no heartbeat.<br><br>We saw a doc - (Dr Poulson - isn't that your doc Julie?) who explained that the symptoms I've been having over the last few weeks indicates an ectopic. They took another blood sample, and depending on the results of the hCG levels they get tomorrow will give me an injection to stop the pregnancy - better than an op, I suppose.<br><br>So, we're a bit shell shocked - prefer a definite -ve from the beginning, but the doc says we must take away the fact that I can at least get pg.<br><br>Thanks to everyone whos been there with us and we'll have no doubts that we'll be cycling again in the New Year - and with lots of cycle buddies it seems.<br><br>Thanks again and good luck to everyone.<br><br><br>Love Fiona xxx
Me:36 Dh:46, ttc 5+yrs, M/F (96% abnormal).
13 unsuccessful Txs From 2000 [4xClomid (NHS), 7xIUI(d)s & ICSI#1 (MFS), ICSI#2 (MFS) Oct 02 (ectopic)] Natural pg Jan 03 m/c 5.5wks
ICSI#3 (CARE) +ve boy (Xander) EDD 21/03/04 - so excited!!!!!!
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Postby woppa » Fri Nov 08, 2002 4:03 pm

Oh my god I am so shocked !!! I defo thought this was the time for you !!! I am so sorry and our thoughts are with you. Hope you both are ok and Dougie and I are thinking of you<br>lots of love<br>Elaine<br>xxxxxxxxx
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Postby JC » Fri Nov 08, 2002 4:05 pm

I'm so sorry that you have to go through this Fiona, it is just so awful. My thoughts are with you both and sending you love and strength to get you through it.<br>Julie x
Julie, age 35. Married 12 years, ttc for 10 years, 2 ectopic pregnancies, lost both tubes so tried IVF. 7 unsuccessful attempts and have reached the end of the road so not sure where I belong !!
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Postby bibby » Fri Nov 08, 2002 4:08 pm

Fiona<br><br>So sorry for you and your hubby. Take care of yourself.<br><br>lots of love<br>Bibby
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Postby Michelle » Fri Nov 08, 2002 4:28 pm

Fiona, <br>How horrible for you and DH. I'm really very sorry.<br>Thinking of you and sending you much love.<br>Michelle x
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Postby tshepher » Fri Nov 08, 2002 4:55 pm

Fiona and Hubby<br>I am SO sorry this hasn't worked out for you after the roller-coaster you've already been through.<br>Thinking of you both and sending loads of love your way.<br>Terri<br>xxxxx
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Postby sammy » Fri Nov 08, 2002 5:37 pm

so sorry.thinking of you both.<br>take care.<br>sammyxxxxxxx
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Postby beck » Fri Nov 08, 2002 6:59 pm

fiona.......ive just logged on !!!<br>hunnie im so sorry!! never dreamed this would happen to you . i thought you was sailing through it.<br>can i say we are here for you and if ever you need a chat im here.<br>lots of love <br>beck x
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Postby becky » Fri Nov 08, 2002 7:04 pm

so sorry to hear your sad news Fiona..speechless really!!<br><br>Take care of yourself and hubby..<br><br>Love Becky B
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Postby lisa » Fri Nov 08, 2002 7:43 pm

I am shocked, so awful after all that you have been through already. Take care and thinking of you.<br><br>Love<br>lisa xxx
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Postby Alison » Fri Nov 08, 2002 7:59 pm

Oh Fiona that's desperately sad news. After all you'd been through in the last few weeks I'd thought and been hoping that your tale at least would have a happy ending. God this process is so cruel. My thoughts are with you and your partner as you grieve for what might have been.<br><br>With much love<br><br>Alison x
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Postby Lissa » Fri Nov 08, 2002 8:38 pm

Fiona I am so so sorry to hear you news.<br>Hope you get through this time and regroup for 2003.<br>Thinking of you both.<br>Lol<br>Lissa<br>xxx
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Postby MichelleS » Fri Nov 08, 2002 8:55 pm

Fiona and hubby,<br><br>I am so sorry to hear your news. Take this time to look after yourselves and give both of yourselves extra tlc.<br><br>Wishing you all the best for the future,<br><br>Michelle xx
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Postby pru » Fri Nov 08, 2002 10:35 pm

Sorry to hear your news Fiona, but don't give up. It is amazing what faith can do.
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Postby breezer » Sat Nov 09, 2002 12:06 am

fiona and d/h<br>so sorry to hear your news.<br>love to you both<br>breezer<br>xx<br>
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