Tell you all a secret here, I stopped my last cycle not just because my DH was not encouraging, it was mostly cos "I" was afraid of having twins - this would be worse than BFN to us at the moment.
I want to share something else here also w all over 40 ladies here who are feeling old each day - u in fact almost can predict which cycle will work for you. If u feel calm, confident, accepting, understanding ivf isn't the only way to become a mother, you will have your chanes even you are getting older,... when the moment comes, you can feel it, because it comes when the outcome of THAT PARTICULAR cycle won't put u in desperation, because you are already ready for the next step mentally, whatever the next step will be, such as another cycle, using DEs, or adoption, ... then this is the bfp one!
I mean everything in life works the same way, getting a job, getting a boyfriend, getting a husband, keeping friendship, keeping a job, blah, blah, blah...
I know everyone here who is trying will become a mother, you are all almost there, I just know!!!
Winter is here, thanksgiving holiday is always a ski vacation for us. Eloise will see snow for the first time ... will check with everyone's progress when we will be back ...
All the best,
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on Fri Nov 16, 2007 8:59 pm, edited 1 time in total.
Me, 50 DH, 40
IVF, 11/05, 19 embryos(e), no ET, OHSS
FET, 02/06, cancelled, dominant egg
FET, 04/06, 4e, BFN
FET, 06/06, 6e, DD born 02/07
FET, 05/08, 5e, DS born 01/09