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broken hand

Post by ogr1 » Sun Apr 17, 2005 4:26 pm

my typing is going to be shorter..
i just tried to post and the few that i did will
i am right haned and it is now broken..
so i am a lefty for now..

our son that has been stealing and looking at porn and chewing tabco had a huge blow up last night..
i had to restrane him..
this last for a couple of hours.. and i think we went four rounds..

mently i am drained and my hand hurts but my heart hurts worse.
i think that we are going to pull him out of the public school and home school him for a while..

but if you just see me post a smile you will know that i am there and that i am thinking of you...

i coulnt even cut up the garlic.for the roast for dinner tonight..

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Post by Sand » Sun Apr 17, 2005 4:56 pm

Hi Becky ... It sounds like you had a horrid night. I hope things have cooled down a little today .. ?

Have you actually broken your hand, or does it just hurt real bad ?

Sending you a big hug over the miles ...

Sandra x
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Post by LittleP » Sun Apr 17, 2005 5:05 pm

Becky

:shock: :shock: :shock:

Sending you loads of love, hugs and PMA - sounds like you need it in truck-loads at the moment.

Hope things get better for you.

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Post by me » Sun Apr 17, 2005 5:20 pm

Many smiles for you hope you are ok, its horrible when you have to restrain it is something I have to do quite frequently at work and it is extremely tiering as well as very emotional especially as they are only children, what ever they say or do they are still just children who need help and love and you seem to be the perfect lady to help and give that love.
Thinking of you.
:) :) :) :) :) :) :) :) :) :) :) :) :) :) :) :) :) :) :) :) :) :) :)
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Post by AliasR » Sun Apr 17, 2005 5:25 pm

Becky, so sorry to hear that!

Take good care now and sending you a

BIG FAT GREEN PORTUGUESE HUG


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Post by ogr1 » Sun Apr 17, 2005 6:09 pm

thank you..
and it is true the more angrery the child is the more hurt they are...
he has been threw alot.
the first time he was put in a mental ward he was only 2.. his birth mom said that he burned his little sisters fingers with a lighter and tired to cover it up by causing a fire in her closet..
i dont know how many 2 year olds could do that!!!!!!!!!!!!!!1
aaron came to us when he was 12. he was suposed to be adopted 2 different times but the people brought him back and the one person jjust adopted his little brother. we adopted aaron last year. he was sick a coule of years ago. that was right after we mc our twins.
he is now going threw puberity and sence he died and came back he his dealing with that to along with all of his abuse..

when i was reading my post i didnt want anyone to think that this is normal for adoption kids..
the children that we get have alot of problems and our 10 and up..
they have been to hell and back...i know i have been there myself as a child..
sometimes it is very hard on dh... he didnt come from that type of faamily.. i told him he was lucky cause he was adopted at birth..
he would never talk to his mom the way our boys talk to me when they are mad.. i but its not me that they are mad at.....
not for sure what we are going to do...
please keep us in your prayers..

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Post by LittleP » Sun Apr 17, 2005 7:08 pm

Becky

They're very lucky to have you - here's a big hug you deserve it.

H U G

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Post by me » Sun Apr 17, 2005 7:55 pm

Becky
I work with boys that are in care, they are some of the naughtest boys in the country they are violent and abusive physically as well as verbally and it is so hard when you see the damage there own familys have done to them it is also so hard to understand there fierce loyalty to there families who have hurt and damaged them so much. What you do for these children is such a wonderful thing you are there for them even though sometimes they can be horrible it is such a reward when you get a hug or you see real happiness.
You are a very special family to be able to give the children you adopted the love,warmth and support that they so often havent had before.
I wish you and your family all the courage to get through this together,you have so much to offer him.
My prayers are with you
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Post by AliasR » Mon Apr 18, 2005 12:02 am

dear Becky

as i was reading through your post i thought it must take a very special person to love and care those children so much, and to be able to understand them as you do. it's so much easier to look the other way...

I am very proud to have had the chance to "meet" you along my way. :D

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Post by ogr1 » Mon Apr 18, 2005 2:04 am

i did post a reply and it is gone.. it was a long one to.. is any one else missing post?
or am i finaly gone coco :?:

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Post by AliasR » Mon Apr 18, 2005 11:11 am

it happens... some of the girls have complained about that.
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Post by AliasR » Mon Apr 18, 2005 11:11 am

Going on 71! 29 to go! :D
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Post by Traci » Mon Apr 18, 2005 11:38 am

Becky You poor thing
I am thinking of you , Kids eh!!!!! would you like to swap him for my stepson???? or perhaps as they like fighting we should put them in a ring together and let them get some anger out !


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Post by Tessa » Mon Apr 18, 2005 2:52 pm

Hi Becky,

I can't believe how wonderful you are :shock: ! All your children are so lucky to have you..... it is right..... when you want a child so bad, it's for a reason..... only very special people are able to adopt. :P

I hope your hand is feeling better soon..... oh, and why are you cooking in your condition????????? :?:

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Post by ogr1 » Mon Apr 18, 2005 9:35 pm

thanks everyone..
went to have x ray today and it is still to swollen.
they put my hand in a blasted cast...

they asked how it happenend

i told them that i wrestled my son down to the ground and set on him!!!!
that pretty much is what happend!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

traci i am up for the boxing ring..
it might do them both some good!!!
if nothing else we could enjoy it :)

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