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Postby Mandy » Fri Aug 23, 2002 6:45 am

Well it's all over for a 2nd time!!!!!<br><br>I was so sure it had worked this time as AF was no where in site, even though I had the -ive test earlier this week I still had hope, but now it is all gone.<br><br>Life is so SH@*.<br><br>Poor DH is devistated also but has to put a brave face on and go to work, but he will be home at lunch time.<br><br>I now have the unenviable task of telling everyone it hasn't worked, that is so hard. I said to DH I don't think we will tell anyone on our next attempt.<br><br>We have 4 frozen embies, so I plan to go again asap as I feel time is marching on.<br><br>Not much else to say, except I feel numb at the moment, thank god for this site, it is a real life line.<br><br>TTFN Mandy.xxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
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Postby Sandra » Fri Aug 23, 2002 7:42 am

So Sorry Mandy<br><br>Just wanted you to know I was thinking of you.<br><br>Don't give up.<br><br>Sandraxx
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Postby mao » Fri Aug 23, 2002 9:42 am

Sorry Mandy<br><br>I'm sorry to learn of your -ve result and can't express in words how gutting & desperate that feeling is having been there several times.<br><br>My thoughts are with you and your DH. <br><br>mao
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Postby maggie » Fri Aug 23, 2002 10:15 am

Oh Mandy,<br><br>I logged on this morning to check if you were testing today because I wasn't 100% sure if it was today and saw your terrible news.<br><br>I'm so sorry that this cycle didn't work, I was really hoping and wishing that this was the one for you.<br><br>You and dh take good care of eachother, my heart goes out to you both.<br><br>Sending you a big big hug.<br><br>Love Maggie.xx<br>
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Postby Tee » Fri Aug 23, 2002 3:06 pm

Hi Mandy and Mr Mandy,<br>I'm really sorry about your result. You're right, it is shit, I'm right with you there. Just a little less polite.<br>It's obviously worse the second time, but the only consolation is that you already know you can survive this and move on to the next one or whatever. It's great that you've got 4 frosties, that's got to help.<br>I'm sending you a big hug, to both of you. Not much else I can say.<br>Lots of love Tee xxx
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Postby Barbs » Fri Aug 23, 2002 3:17 pm

Hi Mandy<br><br>What can I say! I am so sorry for you - I can imagine how hard it must be on the second time round. It's bad enough on the first.<br>No human being should have to go through what we couples on IVF have to go through. It is so cruel especially when the medication mimics the signs of pregnancy.<br>I send you and your DH lots of love and hugs. My DH said that he does not know if he wants to put me through it again because it upsets him so much - especially when he saw the state of me yesterday.<br>I said we can talk about it later as I feel it is early days and emotions are very high at the moment.<br>Take care and talk to you soon.<br><br>Love Barbs xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
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Postby Jules » Sat Aug 24, 2002 9:35 am

Very sorry Mandy. Thinking of you and your dh and sending you a big hug.<br><br>Love Jules x
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Postby Jules » Sat Aug 24, 2002 10:13 am

Very sorry Mandy. Thinking of you and your dh and sending you a big hug.<br><br>Love Jules x
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Postby Loonpants » Sat Aug 24, 2002 11:12 am

Mandy<br><br>Just wanted to let you know that I am thinking of you and hubby. Don't forget we are all here if you need us. <br><br>Lisa (Loonpants)
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