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Post by jen babes » Sat Mar 08, 2008 10:41 pm

gail Lisa and Julie...glad you enjoyed your 2nd and 1st mothers day...lovely x x x

julie can you not dream feed William???? as in what the "Baby whisperer" does to young uns??? My friend did this and it helped her get a full night sleep. hope that you get help with hungry fast growing and certinaly not lazy boy!!!!

Hi everyone else hope your having a good weekend...

We had a lovely night with NIcki an Mark on thursday...we went for a meal in inverness. it was a great night and the boys i think would have liked to carry on drinking with a night on the tiles :shock: The time just flew by....and it was lovely to meet up again and see them.

2ww goin ok been bloated and had cramps for 3 days now as well as shooting pains in boobs and womb...On my last cycle i had implantation bleeding on 'this day' and none this cycle so dont know what to think????? I have been preggers 3 times before and on all 3 i bled a week before test date .... so :roll: it is all in the hands of Him above we just gotta wait and see. The pessaries always make me look preggers and make me feel sick so i really am none the wiser. :? just tired and a bit emotional trying not to think about the last time ivf ... acu helped me on friday tho :D

Its our aniversary tomorrow...1 year married wow the year has just flown by...we went ou to the pics tonight to see 'Vantage Point' ...its a great movie really enjoyed it...

off now for pessarie time and sleep

catch ya all soon
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Post by Julie2039 » Mon Mar 10, 2008 9:39 am


JEN - HAPPY ANNIVERSARY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!


Hope you had a lovely time with Adam. Yes, the year has flown by! Sendign you positive vibes by the bucket load hun. Keep resting. Not long to go now til your BFP. Can't wait!!

I have dream fed William in the past but I am an early to bed - William normally gone by 8/830 and I am always in bed for 10. Am going to try and stay up longer this week and feed him around 1130.


LIS - William had his jabs at 8 weeks. Due his next lot in a fortnight. He was good. I cried more than he did!

Hope everyone else is ok and had a good weekend. I had my first proper drink on Saturday night. Justin was on night feed duty until 10am Sunday. Not sure was worth it as I still woke up with William and was totally knackered!!!

Hope you all survive the storms without any damage. XXXXXXXX
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Post by jen babes » Tue Mar 11, 2008 1:05 pm

Julie the photos of william are lovely...especially the one where he is smiling up at his dad...bless his little cotton socks...he is so cute...
how are things going with feeding him later at night? how are you surviving with staying up later??? x x x

hi everyone else..you are all so buzy and the boards are so quiet....

i am hanging in there...have cramps and backache ...but not focusing on it being 1 or the other...keep thinking of little pheonix katie being a FET and look at her now!!!

have PIL up wed late til satuday but will try and log in and post as soon as i hear the news ...although bloods getting taken thursday (i1 day early) they will not come back until late friday test day so expect 5pm-6pm for my results like last time...

hoping so much that this is the 9mth one...
love jen
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Post by Julie2039 » Wed Mar 12, 2008 12:35 pm

Best of luck and PMA to you Jen XXXXXX

How is everyone else? Hope all well and no damage over the past few stormy days. Was very bad here last night and electricity cutting off all the time!

I visited work yesterday - more determined than ever I am not going back. Banks only lend 70 - 80% of business value andf as I am potless I think a new job is the preferred choice. Hope to get admin job in school or college as dont want legal work anymore and would love the school holidays off with William! The little monkey is still up twice in night.......

love to all xxxxxx
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Post by jen babes » Wed Mar 12, 2008 5:16 pm

THANKS to you both Kate and Julie for your lovely test threads x x x had tears in my eyes ...hoping this one is THE one x x x

Jules good luck in looking for a new part time job where you can still see loads of William...

Kate how are you ??? and work??? still busy busy...

Its been windy here but not as bad as everyone else..just the wheelie bin been blowing around. we have been lucky.

have PIL due tomorrow ...so Adam home early to help me clean ...Bless

so will sign off and catch ya all Friday with the result x x x

love jen
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Post by Lis » Thu Mar 13, 2008 8:52 pm

Hi everyone :)

Jen - thinking of you honey and praying for you this is the 9 month one as you say. Keeping arms, legs, fingers, toes crossed .. :shock: ! Hope not too stressful with PIL staying with you. Glad you and Nicki had a lovely time together. Still hope you and I will meet at Mc Arthur Glen sometime with you and your morning sickness and me trying to keep Mia happy! xxx

Julie - how did you get on speaking to clinic re milk? I also found Hungry baby made no difference at all. Still use it now just incase on some level it does help even tho my wee mucher is on solids! Mia still talke big feed last thing - 12 oz and that's an hour after having porridge and banana! Was thinking that one reason why he is waking twice is because he is down so early. 8/8 30 is brill for his age. Mia didn't go downatl that time until 16 weeks old. As you are getting longer stretch overnight all in all ?poss why he need fed twice. Sorry your venture is a no go - new job sounds like a plan :lol: Keep us updated xxx

Nicki - would love to hear more about your trip and what you thought of areas etc and how is house sale going?? Glad you had lovely meal with Jen xxx

Kate - how long now til Sweden? How's your work going?

Big hello's to Gail &Katie and all other lovely phoenixes :D

Mia's cold is much better now but with the lighter mornings she has been waking an hour early and having a good old chat to herself! My black out blind obviosly isn't working! The 2 of us went to Ayr last week to visit Grandma on her birthday - went out for lunch and thankfully Mia was good as gold .. and she got spoiled by my mum!

Things are busy as ever with dh's never ending form filling for jobs. We also went looking at several nurseries last week as like it or not, I will be returning to work until dh secures a job! We are hoping to be on the move by end of the year and after doing some networking back home am pretty sure there's a permanent job in the hospital I want to work in by then :D Going in to work next week to discuss my return to current work. At mo looks like I will be working 3 and a half days. dh will look after Mia one day during week and she will go to nursery for the other 2 and a half. [img] Will cost us 400 quid a month on nursery fees just for 2 and a half days!!! :shock:

Well off for tea now as dh still not home from work. Left at 7 this morning so had Mia all day to myself. Thankfully sleeping now.

Jen will check in to hear your good news xxxx[/img]
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Post by jen babes » Fri Mar 14, 2008 9:41 am

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all for your lovely wishes ....am hoping with all my heart the beta comes back high...

will let you know as soon as we know the results ( about 6pm tonight i presume)

love jen xxxxxxxxxxxxx
[b]2 natural preg,both ectopics.
3 IVF's 2005/6 all BFNs
4th Nov07- BFP! lost @ 5wks 6d
5th FET-Feb08 BFN
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Post by Julie2039 » Fri Mar 14, 2008 12:32 pm

Hi all

Hope all is well with you all

Lis - Health visitor said yesterday to up William to Hungry Baby. Will see if makes any difference. Had good night last night - woke at 3.50 and 7.50!! Busy bee now - go to clubs on Thursday and Friday and starting baby yoga on 7 April and baby massage 31 March. Also taking him swimming for the first time next week as Justin is off all week. William is more alert and awake a lot more in the day so may become more settled real soon. Cuddles to Mia. xxx


CAN'T WAIT TO HEAR JEN. BEST OF LUCK TO YA. XXXXXXXX
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ICSI - Canc 01/07
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Post by jen babes » Fri Mar 14, 2008 5:17 pm

...sorry everyone i am still waiting....

i am pacing the floor here still waiting on my Gp calling and it s totally getting to me... Have a raging headache ( hormones) cramps and feel sick to my tummy with nerves.... hoping and paying we hear some good news x x speak soon x x x

love jen
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[b]2 natural preg,both ectopics.
3 IVF's 2005/6 all BFNs
4th Nov07- BFP! lost @ 5wks 6d
5th FET-Feb08 BFN
In my dreams...May 2010 DE Athens[/b]
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Post by Julie2039 » Fri Mar 14, 2008 6:51 pm

OMG!!!! HOPE YOU ARE FEELING OK JEN AND THEY RING TODAY with your good news!!!!
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ICSI - Canc 01/07
FET 04/07 - BFP!!!
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Post by jen babes » Fri Mar 14, 2008 6:53 pm

$#$%%^^&&* we eventualy or our results back...

sad to say it's a BFN........

thanks everyone for all your valuable support....

life sucks at the moment
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[b]2 natural preg,both ectopics.
3 IVF's 2005/6 all BFNs
4th Nov07- BFP! lost @ 5wks 6d
5th FET-Feb08 BFN
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Post by Julie2039 » Fri Mar 14, 2008 6:54 pm

Just read your result on other post. I am so so sorry. Nothing more I can say at the moment apart from that Jen. Keep strong xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
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ICSI - Canc 01/07
FET 04/07 - BFP!!!
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Post by Kate21 » Sat Mar 15, 2008 12:06 pm

Jen,

Just seen your news am so sorry - not much more I can say apart from I am thinking of you and Adam.

Kate x
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3# FET all BFN 4# BFP - no heartbeat @7wks - about to start the journey again!!

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Post by Lis » Sun Mar 16, 2008 9:00 am

Jen

I am so so sorry and thinking of you and Adam at this time. xxxxxx
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5 failed donor inseminations July- Nov '06
6th DI Jan '07 ...... finally ..... OMG BFP!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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Post by nicolamark » Sun Mar 16, 2008 2:54 pm

Firstly, hugs to Jen. I am so sorry to hear that it was BFN. Hv posted on other threads. I am here for ya. It's crap this life of wanting a baby. I totally understand xx

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Hi everyone!! I am back home in rainy windy suffolk!!!
Doing washing ironing and ctaching up on stuff..... Oh joy!!!
Thanks for your txt's julie and Kate whilst i was away. I did pop into internet cafe, and read posts, but nothing more.
Lisa. I hope you're ok, thinking of you. I know life is hard right now with stew's job and wanting to move, i know how you feel. you jus want to settle down, thats how i feel. i just wanna move and get going now, then parhaps i can move on......
Still think about ttc often, even though im on the pill, i still get saddened by it all. It's hard!!
Been on pill 21 days, stopped on friday so was expecting Af today. nothing!!! I thought AF came 2 days after stopping pill on the 7 day break. heck it was 7 yrs since i was last on Ive forgotten!!!
Bet it comes 2moro when im @ wrk. Arghhhh!!!Oh well, at least it'll be less painful (or should be anyway!!!!)
We have found a B&B we love, Am going to contact solicitor in morning to 'note interest' as we havent sold, thats all we can do right now!!!!
Its lovely!!! We want it!!! However it's all dependant on when we sell.... This isnt gonna be eaasy!!!I'll keep you posted anyways!!!

No news from Lucy?? Has anyone heard frm Souris?
Gail, and MLG are you guys and babies all ok??? We miss you're posts!!! xxxAnd our pheonix in pheonix where are you???

Love & hugs to all....
Especially Jen xxx
IUI using donor in 2005
1st IVF cancelled OHSS 2006
2nd IVF 4 eggs all failed to fertilise 2009
3rd IVF successful 2010 pregnant Miscarried early
FET negative 2011
ADOPTED DAUGHTER 2014

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