Thanks for the words of encouragement....I woke up yesterday feeling a lot better. I've decided not to take my consultant too seriously especially when its obvious he's guessing!
If there's one thing I've learnt, is that it is unpredictable and there's a lot they dont know.
gabriella - did you do the test eventually? I did mine early and although it was a bad thing to do, and it could have really worked against me, it prepared me for the dissappointment on the official day. I felt devastated when it was negative, but held on to some hope it was wrong.....but it definately softened the blow. I wouldnt do it again though!
Good luck tomorrow Gabriella and Joanna!! will be holding thumbs!!!May this be the one for both of you
sorry 2 hear your news Eminde - stay positive and remember the time will go quickly until your FET.
With regards to talking to people and my DH, I find it best to get him as involved as possible. I think men can feel quite disconnected from it all and when its a BFN, I think some subconscious anger can come up for them - which you may pick up on.
If they feel the problem is shared though, I think it can be easier on both of you. But of course its different for every couple, and as long as you're comfy in your groove then all is good.