Devastating News

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Post by Sarah30 » Fri Jan 03, 2003 3:52 pm

Had our 12 weeks scan today and baby's heart has stopped beating, probably a few weeks ago now.<br><br>Don't know what else to say, just feel totally devastated and can't believe it's happened<br><br>Am so sad, I can't even begin to tell you, can hardly see for tears<br><br>Don't know what to do<br><br>Will log on again when feeling better<br><br>Sarah


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Post by beck » Fri Jan 03, 2003 4:00 pm

sah<br>oh my god !! im so sorry.are you around for a chat??<br>im on line now and will be tonight for a chat.<br>dont know what to say.....its brought tears to my eyes to.<br>please stay intouch we are all here to help and support you.<br>lots of love to you and hubbie.<br>beck xx

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Post by woppa » Fri Jan 03, 2003 4:02 pm

Oh my god sarah --I am so sorry for that terrible news. Christ this is all so terrible. I won't say I know what you are going through as this is the last thing you need to hear. When it happened to us I was ready to smack the next person who said that. <br>I'm sure I speak on behalf of all the girls to say we are so sorry to hear about that and are hear for you whenever you are ready to talk <br>lots of love and hugs<br>woppa<br>xxxxxxxxxxx

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Post by fiona_lk » Fri Jan 03, 2003 4:14 pm

Oh Sarah,<br><br>I am so sorry to read your news - it is such a shock. I can only guess after my experience that it'll take a long time to feel normal again so remember we are here to support you - take as long a break from normality as you need to and concentrate on looking after yourself and your dh.<br><br>I'm so sorry again and will be thinking of you.<br><br><br>Love Fiona xxx<br><br>
Me:36 Dh:46, ttc 5+yrs, M/F (96% abnormal).
13 unsuccessful Txs From 2000 [4xClomid (NHS), 7xIUI(d)s & ICSI#1 (MFS), ICSI#2 (MFS) Oct 02 (ectopic)] Natural pg Jan 03 m/c 5.5wks
ICSI#3 (CARE) +ve boy (Xander) EDD 21/03/04 - so excited!!!!!!

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Post by laura » Fri Jan 03, 2003 4:29 pm

Sarah,<br>I am so sorry to hear your news. What a terrible shock. I will be thinking of you. <br>Love Laura

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Post by Loonpants » Fri Jan 03, 2003 4:29 pm

Sarah<br><br>I am so sorry. I feel some of your pain but I know that doesn't really help at the moment. When you are ready we are all here for you so don't forget to lean on us. If anybody understands or can be of comfort it will be us. <br><br>Make sure you and hubby have some together time, you need each other more than ever.<br><br>Thinking of you.<br><br>Lisa(Loonpants)<br>xxxxx

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Post by sammy » Fri Jan 03, 2003 4:41 pm

dear sarah and hubby,<br>so sorry to hear this,im thinking of you both<br>love sammyxxxxxx

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Post by Alison » Fri Jan 03, 2003 5:38 pm

Oh my God Sarah I've just read your news - I'm so, so, sorry. I can't begin to imagine what its like to have that hope and excitement taken away when you'd got so far. Look after yourself and as others have said we're here when you need us.<br><br>Much love<br><br>Alison x

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Post by fi » Fri Jan 03, 2003 5:45 pm

thinking of you, look after each other at this time.<br>Fiona (Fi)

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Post by RLV » Fri Jan 03, 2003 6:15 pm

Hi Sarah<br><br>Sorry to read your bad news - I know exactly how you feel as the same happened to me at my 11 wk scan at end of August.<br><br>It's just not fair when this happens after going through all the treatment. <br><br>Are you having an evacuation or don't you know yet? I went in day after my scan for an evac under general anaesthetic and these were the worst 2 days of my life.<br><br>I know you won't believe me, but you will find a way to cope with this loss and in time you'll pick yourself up and try again, as we are doing now.<br><br>Take time out to pamper yourself and grieve. <br><br>Luv Rachel X<br><br>

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Post by MichelleS » Fri Jan 03, 2003 7:43 pm

I don't know what to say - just that I am so sorry for you and your husband. My thoughts are with you both at this terrible time. <br><br>Take care,<br><br>Michelle

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Post by Julie Louise » Fri Jan 03, 2003 11:34 pm

Hi Sarah, you dont know me, Im new on the web, I was so sorry to read about your baby, you poor thing, you must be so down, this also happend to me, at 17 weeks, my baby died in the womb and I had to give birth to him, he was so tiny but lovely, I called him Jack.<br>It really isnt fair,I hope you can start to feel better soon,I know that talking always helps, your baby will always be with you in heart and mind,I know mine is. God bless, Julie Louise.

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Post by mands » Sat Jan 04, 2003 9:42 am

Hi Sarah<br><br>What a horrible thing to have happened to you, look after yourself.<br><br>Thinking of you <br><br>Mandsx

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Post by suzannemorris » Sat Jan 04, 2003 1:39 pm

Sarah,<br><br>I can only reiterate what has already been said by the others. I'm so sorry and will be thinking of you and your DH at this very sad time.<br><br>Best wishes,<br>Suzanne.x

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Post by Wicked Lady » Sat Jan 04, 2003 2:47 pm

I'm so sorry to hear your devastating news.<br><br>We are hear for you whenever you are ready.Sending you and your dh lots of love. Nicola

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