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woppa
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Post by woppa » Fri Jan 10, 2003 9:01 pm

A FEW WORDS OF INSPIRATION <br><br>There are women that become mothers without effort, and though they are good mothers and love their children, I know that I will be better. <br><br>I will be a better mother not because of genetics, or money or that I have read better books. But because I have struggled and toiled for this child. I have longed and waited. <br><br>I have endured and planned over and over again. Like most things in life, the people who truly have appreciation are those who have struggled to attain their dreams. <br><br>I will notice everything about my child. I will take the time to watch my child sleep, explore and discover. I will marvel at this miracle everyday for the rest of my life. <br><br>I will be happy when I wake in the middle of the night to the sound of my child, knowing that I can comfort, hold and feed and that I am not waking to give myself another injection of profasi and cry tears of a broken dream - my dream will be crying for me. <br><br>I count myself as lucky in this sense, that God has given me this insight, this special vision with which I will look upon my child that my friends will not see. <br><br>Whether I parent a child I give birth to or a child God leads me to..... I will not be careless with my love. I will be a better mother for all that I have endured <br><br><br>ORIGINS UNKNOWN

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Post by heather » Fri Jan 10, 2003 10:06 pm

Wow....what more is there to say?????
Got pregnant with IUI triplets in March 04. One triplet stopped growing at 9 weeks. Gave birth to twin boys in Sep 04, Ciaran sadly lost his fight. Brennan's thriving.Looking to give Brennan a sibling soon.
http://www.babiesonline.com/babies/b/brennan

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Post by DEBORAH » Fri Jan 10, 2003 10:20 pm

That is fantastic - never a truer word said.

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Post by Lisa C » Sat Jan 11, 2003 10:18 am

Lovely, had a cry then printed it off to put with my growing collection. Thanks

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Post by Eve_ » Sat Jan 11, 2003 10:36 am

Woppa,<br><br>Thankyou so much!<br><br>Showed this to DH last night - brought tears to his eyes too!<br><br>That's why we do all this and more for our special miracles.<br><br>Eve<br>xx

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Post by laura » Sat Jan 11, 2003 2:22 pm

How very true.<br>Thanks for that Woppa,<br>Love Laura

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Post by Susi » Sun Jan 12, 2003 8:40 pm

How true. No one who has gone thru what we all go thru will appreciate a child that we will hopefully have. <br>I lost a pregnancy last year ( ectopic) that was completely unexpected but oh so welcome. I pray and hope that my next cycle returns that joy and elation again.

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Post by ogr1 » Thu Feb 24, 2005 12:34 am

thought soem might like this,
hope no one minds..
i am trying to find my first old post from the first time that i regesterd.
i have come across some neat things to read and know a lot of them women are holding there babies in there arms so please dont ever give up...
becky
we werent blessed with our babies to raise here but we our blessed with our grandaughter
and all of our many adopted and foster children that touch our lives
and i am glad to add that our 6th grandchild will be born this spring!!!!

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Post by suki » Thu Feb 24, 2005 3:14 am

Whoppa,

That is the most beautiful thing I have read in a long time. It brought me to tears....just so touching. Thank you for sharing it with us.

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Post by nicolamark » Thu Feb 24, 2005 5:47 pm

:D That's great! I have thought that so many times. It's so very true!!
IUI using donor in 2005
1st IVF cancelled OHSS 2006
2nd IVF 4 eggs all failed to fertilise 2009
3rd IVF successful 2010 pregnant Miscarried early
FET negative 2011
ADOPTED DAUGHTER 2014

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Post by ogr1 » Thu Feb 24, 2005 6:39 pm

woppa is a great women.. i miss her...

when we had our mc she would e-mail me some wonderful poems.. they helped alot...

i have some poems that i printed out and they stay nerx to my computer.
and keep one in my bible for the real hard days..

becky
we werent blessed with our babies to raise here but we our blessed with our grandaughter
and all of our many adopted and foster children that touch our lives
and i am glad to add that our 6th grandchild will be born this spring!!!!

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Post by CC » Thu Feb 24, 2005 11:35 pm

Made me cry too and summed up how I feel. For all the pain, it is a special gift to truly know how much we and or partners yearn for our little ones. Others may never know - it just happens and life carries on but do they ever really appreciate properly? I know I always will and in a strange way I am grateful for that. Thanks for sharing, Cherylx
Third ICSI July 2005 BFP and praying it continues!! 6, 8, 12, 13(Nuchal) 20, 25 and 28 week scans successful! Emily Ann Cane born 8.4.06 - more beautiful than we could have imagined

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