NEED ADVICE!

[Hopeful84]

I am starting Lupron tonight for my first IVF cycle. After 5 failed IUIs, we are really hoping this works. We are scheduled to have a FET on 3/21. Right now, we have the huge task of deciding 1 or 2 embryos. My husband and I are not on the same page and I need some advice about what to do? I would love healthy normal twins, but I know there are so many risks involved with multiples. My dr said our odds are better with 2, but he suggests to all his patients that they only transfer 1 at a time. My husband is concerned about all aspects of potential twins, so he only wants to transfer 1. I have a week before we HAVE to decide. For those who are going through it now or have done it, what were your thoughts? What did you take in consideration when trying to make this decision? I am really stressing out about this, I want to make the right choice. All the research I've done makes having twins sound like the worst idea ever. It sounds so scary. HELP!