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- Joined: Mon Jan 16, 2017 11:15 am
Hi all! Just wanted to say Hello. I'm Agnete from Norway, already a mother of 4 yo toddler and an expectant mother through surrogacy. Why? It's a very sad that I prefer not to recall. The delivery and labor were very complicated with profound rapture and bleeding. I just remember waking up after anesthesia knowing that I have a healthy baby boy and no uterus anymore. This was the happiest and the saddest day in my life in meantime.
In any case, time healed. Hopefully, modern medical technologies still give me a chance to parent my own genetic baby, and for my son to have a sister, and for my DH - to have a desired daughter!
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- Joined: Tue Jan 31, 2017 5:54 pm
Hello hun! I'm so sorry to hear about your situation. You're not alone with this! I have no uterus and I have no chance to carry a baby. But I'm so grateful there are places and people who can help us with our problem. We became parents via surrogacy. Our daughter Kristine was born in May 2015. We love her so much! I didn't carry her but this fact changes nothing.
That was really hard to find good agency or clinic. There are so many scammers, who want to become rich, using poor people like us. There are even women, who pretend they want to be surrogates and then they get money and disappear. We faced such person. We thought we could save some money if we find sm. We’ve only wasted our time, nerves and money. So I would advise you look straight for a clinic.
We decided to concentrate mostly on Europe. Ultimately we chose Ukrainian clinic biotexcom. Reviews were mostly positive and this clinic has high success rates. Though we had some doubts about their medicine, we decided to go there and check everything. Our concerns faded away when we talk to our doctor and program coordinator. We saw many couples there from all over the world. We had a translator so there were no misunderstandings at all.
I liked that our clinic had fixed price for the procedure. We chose vip package for €49 900. There were also packages for lower prices. So we paid this only amount for everything. We were never asked to pay more. And also the sum was divided into 5 parts so we didn't have to pay the whole amount at once. In 2.5 months after our first visit our program coordinator contacted us and told us that they found surrogate mother for us. The clinic also helped us with documents for our daughter.