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Postby ogr1 » Sun Apr 03, 2005 8:24 pm

i just wanted to say thank you for doing this marcus..
i am amzed that no one else has been on..



i am in the states and i had my first mc 22 years ago christmas day.
i had left my ex.
been married to my wonderful husband for almost 15 years now.
it will be in may.
we did 1 ifv and something happend to all of our embies so we had to start all over again.

we had gotten pregnant with our twins our son and daughter. couldnt have been happier but we went in the day before chritsmas had we had no hart beats. had just gone in the wk before and everything was great.
went back the day after christmas and they did a d& c.
which i do regret. i would so much love to have my son and daughter out in the island with our son. who we got pregnant with on march 18..
but we mc on july . just before my birthday..
i miss all of my children so much.
we have in total adopted 5 children 4 boys and one girl..
i would still love to have a baby adopted or by birth.
it is pretty doubtful that i will ever beable to carry a baby to full term.
we run a foster home. all boys..
they have all been amazing and i am very thankful for each and everyone of them...
there ages are 10 to 19. our oldest is 23 and he is dou on the 13 to have a daughter.
and our daughter is 22 . our youngest just turned 11.

i am still wishing for a miracle eather i wake up one day and i am pregnant or one day heavenly father will lead a way for just the right baby to be in my arms..
but i do know that no matter what i am not alone and that i am very much loved...
and that i have also found some one wonderful lifetime firends..
and i wouldnt trade that for anything,..

:) :)
we werent blessed with our babies to raise here but we our blessed with our grandaughter
and all of our many adopted and foster children that touch our lives
and i am glad to add that our 6th grandchild will be born this spring!!!!
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Postby bubblymichelle » Mon Apr 04, 2005 5:11 am

Hi Becky

Its great that Marcus has done this for us, I was just going to post to say that I had a email from him and that he said one of the boards I had requested would be in force. I did ask for an Inbetween Cycle one too but I am not sure if this one will be available so will have to see.

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Postby AliasR » Mon Apr 04, 2005 10:24 pm

hi becky.

i feel kinda silly replying, you being a veteran on these things. i don't really know what to say but i was feeling gloomy and read your post and decided i had to say sthg - that's the puropose of these things isn't it?

I'm starting classes tomorrow - English teacher - and feeling i don't really feel like going cause there's a colleague who's very pg and it's hard for me being around her. i fear people will notice me staring at her growing belly and think i'm some kind of a weirdo or sth.

after reading your post i thought here's a winner and an inspiration. thanks for that.

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Postby taylorjools » Tue Apr 05, 2005 5:40 pm

Hi Becky,

I didn't realise your story before, it's an inspiring one. You must be so proud to have helped so many young souls find their way, you and dh are truly angels :lol:

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Postby LittleP » Tue Apr 05, 2005 7:54 pm

Hi Becky

:shock: :shock:

You're an inspiration to us all. Like Big J I had no idea what you had been through - thank you for sharing :D

Bless you for your support here :!:

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Postby ogr1 » Wed Apr 06, 2005 6:00 am

we werent blessed with our babies to raise here but we our blessed with our grandaughter
and all of our many adopted and foster children that touch our lives
and i am glad to add that our 6th grandchild will be born this spring!!!!
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Postby taylorjools » Wed Apr 06, 2005 6:27 pm

Becky, sorry :oops: ,
were you upset that I hadn't picked up your story??? :oops: :oops:

so sorry, I had kind of read between the lines but as relative newbie hadn't seen the whole picture. You are one amazing lady and a true inspiration, thank you from the bottom of my heart :lol:

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Postby nicolamark » Sat Apr 09, 2005 9:46 pm

Hey becky!!
I saw ur post, and thought hey your'e not new!!!!
Guess u are trying to be top dog huh???

But yes, this is truely good....intro's forum is good idea! Hats off to michelle & Marcus.
TTC 9yrs...lots of IUIs all BFN
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2nd IVF 4 eggs all failed to fertilise
3rd IVF down regging now, EC expected 1st wk of sept.
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Postby ogr1 » Sun Apr 10, 2005 6:27 am

it is great not to hae to re type all of the info..


bj you lost me.. and am not even hormornal anymore..

i think that all of us are amazing women and that we do all have so much to be proud of..
it takes a very strong loving ,caring person to be here..

my hat is off to all of you
wonderful women..
thank you :)
we werent blessed with our babies to raise here but we our blessed with our grandaughter
and all of our many adopted and foster children that touch our lives
and i am glad to add that our 6th grandchild will be born this spring!!!!
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Postby bubblymichelle » Sun Apr 10, 2005 7:29 am

HI NicolaMark

I was so touched with what you put at the end of the post saying thank you to me also. I know we wouldn't have this forum if it wasn't for me because I sorted it with Marcus, that really has touched me and gone a long way so I just wanted to say thank you for mentioning me.

Love
Shell.
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Postby nicolamark » Sun Apr 10, 2005 7:47 am

Your welcome, Michelle!! :D
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Postby hlloyd » Fri Apr 15, 2005 9:46 am

Becky

I know it's a bit late but just wanted to say CONGRATULATIONS on becoming a grandmother! How did it all go? I'll bet she's adorable.

Best wishes to you all.

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Postby hlloyd » Fri Apr 15, 2005 9:54 am

Hi Becky

Just wanted to say CONGRATULATIONS and welcome to grandmotherhood!

How did it all go? I'll bet she's adorable.
Best wishes to you and your family.

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Postby Tessa » Sat Apr 16, 2005 3:38 pm

Hi Becky,

I've just read your story and I think you are amazing! I struggle to get through and when I read stories like yours...... I just can't believe how people can get through this! It is also comforting to know that you still think about those children and wish you could have a baby one day..... I am often told I have to get over it and move on...... I tell myself that somethings you never get over. :cry: and it is no shame to sometimes just cry or get angry :evil: .

I do thank my lucky stars everyday that I have recovered from my OHS and I have been given another chance. I should be greatful, rather than bitter and stressed :!:

Thank you for that!!!!!!! :)
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Postby me » Sat Apr 16, 2005 5:43 pm

Becky
Reading your story made me realise how hard and unpredictable life can be but also how strong and brave we can all be you are an inspiration to us all and even though we dont know what is going to happen in the future we are ALL strong brave women who have already battled against the odds and we are all still fighting.
Much happiness, love and bravery to you all.
Me (Kerry)



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