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surrogacy can be the wonderful experience

Postby tatebrown » Wed Dec 20, 2017 9:22 pm

Hi everybody?surrogacy can be the wonderful experience but the journey requires both hard work and commitment.As a parent, it may easy to think about hold your child in your arms..but as a surrogate, it is easy to think solely of the incredible gift to your intended parents.But it's important to consider all of the challenges and sacrifices that both parties to face to realize these special moments. The final stages of the pregnancy and the childbirth delivery can involve bittersweet moments, as the intended parents are going to welcoming the new baby.Developing an emotional bond with a baby during pregnancy knowing that you will soon hand over to another woman can result in confusion, sadness, or even anger because I experience all these things and it's too difficult to bear up all these experiences in life. This journey takes time and determination to achieve the desired result.A little step may be the beginning of the great journey.stay alive and healthy."
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Re: surrogacy can be the wonderful experience

Postby Gia9 » Wed Feb 21, 2018 9:51 am

tatebrown wrote:Hi everybody?surrogacy can be the wonderful experience but the journey requires both hard work and commitment.As a parent, it may easy to think about hold your child in your arms..but as a surrogate, it is easy to think solely of the incredible gift to your intended parents.But it's important to consider all of the challenges and sacrifices that both parties to face to realize these special moments. The final stages of the pregnancy and the childbirth delivery can involve bittersweet moments, as the intended parents are going to welcoming the new baby.Developing an emotional bond with a baby during pregnancy knowing that you will soon hand over to another woman can result in confusion, sadness, or even anger because I experience all these things and it's too difficult to bear up all these experiences in life. This journey takes time and determination to achieve the desired result.A little step may be the beginning of the great journey.stay alive and healthy."


I guess you're a surrogate, as far as I figured from your post. Let me begin with thanking you for such a benevolent contribution to the society, to the parents craving for a child but cursed to not have one... I thank you on behalf of all of them. I haven't been a mom yet and had 2 failed transfers over my first IVF round... so never really got the chance to bond with a baby of my own so far. But I do know that it's not an easy thing to part with that little one you had been carrying in your womb.... it's a brave thing that you do. Maybe, I'll have to get there too if every attempt to have a baby fails. This post will certainly fill be up with more positivity about surrogacy because if the mother who carried the baby in her womb can part with it to help others... the other's should acknowledge this huge gift without questioning how this third party involvement can strain their relationship with the kid in later years. You have a child of your own when you raise one as your own and not when you just give birth. Thanks for everything!
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Re: surrogacy can be the wonderful experience

Postby Ghost » Wed Feb 21, 2018 2:54 pm

Gia9 wrote:
tatebrown wrote:Hi everybody?surrogacy can be the wonderful experience but the journey requires both hard work and commitment.As a parent, it may easy to think about hold your child in your arms..but as a surrogate, it is easy to think solely of the incredible gift to your intended parents.But it's important to consider all of the challenges and sacrifices that both parties to face to realize these special moments. The final stages of the pregnancy and the childbirth delivery can involve bittersweet moments, as the intended parents are going to welcoming the new baby.Developing an emotional bond with a baby during pregnancy knowing that you will soon hand over to another woman can result in confusion, sadness, or even anger because I experience all these things and it's too difficult to bear up all these experiences in life. This journey takes time and determination to achieve the desired result.A little step may be the beginning of the great journey.stay alive and healthy."


I guess you're a surrogate, as far as I figured from your post. Let me begin with thanking you for such a benevolent contribution to the society, to the parents craving for a child but cursed to not have one... I thank you on behalf of all of them. I haven't been a mom yet and had 2 failed transfers over my first IVF round... so never really got the chance to bond with a baby of my own so far. But I do know that it's not an easy thing to part with that little one you had been carrying in your womb.... it's a brave thing that you do. Maybe, I'll have to get there too if every attempt to have a baby fails. This post will certainly fill be up with more positivity about surrogacy because if the mother who carried the baby in her womb can part with it to help others... the other's should acknowledge this huge gift without questioning how this third party involvement can strain their relationship with the kid in later years. You have a child of your own when you raise one as your own and not when you just give birth. Thanks for everything!


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Re: surrogacy can be the wonderful experience

Postby Sabi52 » Mon Mar 19, 2018 9:23 am

I did this procedure In Ukraine. There are such surrogacy and IVF agencies as Biotexcom, Isida, Babyboom. When I was choosing to go for Surrogacy, I decided to visit Kiev first and to see all clinics. So we came, talked to all of them. Finally, we agreed to work with babyboom.
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Re: surrogacy can be the wonderful experience

Postby Sabi52 » Mon Mar 19, 2018 9:23 am

I did this procedure In Ukraine. There are such surrogacy and IVF agencies as Biotexcom, Isida, Babyboom. When I was choosing to go for Surrogacy, I decided to visit Kiev first and to see all clinics. So we came, talked to all of them. Finally, we agreed to work with babyboom.
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Re: surrogacy can be the wonderful experience

Postby hedw19 » Thu May 03, 2018 9:46 am

Sabi52 wrote:I did this procedure In Ukraine. There are such surrogacy and IVF agencies as Biotexcom, Isida, Babyboom. When I was choosing to go for Surrogacy, I decided to visit Kiev first and to see all clinics. So we came, talked to all of them. Finally, we agreed to work with babyboom.


hi Sabi. May I ask you what was the reason for choosing babyboom? I've just looked through its website. Well, I know a bit about isida, emailed manager Oleksandra who turned out to be extremely helpful and responsive lady and I haven't been waiting for the reply more than an hour. I like that Isida has its own maternity hospital but the price for surrogacy programs are more than we can afford. I've also contacted biotexcom and it took me a day then two to get reply. But manager Anastasia was very helpful as well. The services are just wonderful as lots of things are included and which is more importnant is that they provide unlimited number of attempts while isida only gives 3 for that price. I haven't heard about Babyboom and have kust looked through its website. The list of services is not that wide as biotexcom provides but conditions are not that good as isida has got. Only 2 transfers are included and only in case you have frozen embies left. Could you please share what made you stick with the agency?
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