Firstly your account is fake so nothing of what you have said is true except to start a conversation in a infertility group, and then you use your other accounts to reply to yourself and pose as different names, I am sure if we ask admin to check out the names IP addresses I can give them that I have come across on this site that you are all from surrogacy clinics in the Ukraine.
Now, onto the subject of adoption, Adoption does not mean it is not your baby after you adopt it, when you adopt a baby into your life you become its parents, to love it as if you had given birth, I wanted to go that route with my second husband but I was classed as too old, so I had to go through the surrogacy route. but when I had an sm carry the baby its still wasn't mine genetically but is my husbands so it is our baby the same as if I had adopted it, in fact we do technically have to adopt as we had to go through Parental order with the court to become parents. ,,so please be very carful not to insult women who adopt a baby "im not against adoption but I thinks it important to have a child of our own"" ???
Now onto SHANK_D
are you for real?? promoting LOTUS and I see its December 2018 you joined, People, do not touch Lotus, check out channel 7 news in Australia and read what they have done to a couple and their twins, Lou & Dale Pitcher, how they left them to fend for themselves with NO medical care in the Ukraine in NICU where both babies were born premature, one was having seizures every day and the other needing two brain operations. the clinic LOTUS that this couple Lou and Dale Pitcher paid over $80.000 too never provided medical care for the babies at all so the couple paid out thousands and had to go ont a support group to get advice on finding Dr's who spoke English, medical supplies late at night to stop the seizures as it was not provided by the hospital so they paid out thousands extra for NICU. thankfully Lou & Dale spoke out about it all on social media and the news papers, I am very annoyed that other ips did not speak up in the past about this clinic to tell the truth about them but you wont read the bad reviews on their facebook page,, no they remove them and ips on other groups are afraid to post the bad stuff but will tell you in private message if you ask.. so stop advertising your clinic on this group, you were never an ip or in a situation of infertility to warrant you being able to take advantage of people like us.
As for me, yes, I had to use surrogacy, I had no choice because of infertility and I am glad I did it, if I could have adopted I would have definitely gone down that route, but sadly I couldn't, Ukraine, from what I can gather is a very corrupt country and the competition between the clinics is HUGE they will try anything to get back at each other, including putting up fake accounts, Would I recommend surrogacy if it were a last option for you? yes, I would, but do your research and don't believe fake reports, look at the language and how its worded, that should tell you .. best of luck to anyone who are on their ivf journey, baby dust and lots of hugs to you all