DM - I was afraid after not seeing you on the board for a few days that you had a BFN. I am so sorry for you and I can relate to your hours of research. As soon as I had my first BFN, I made an appt at an accupunturist, read a bunch of books and changed a lot in my life. If you are taking some time off before your next round - I suggest you look into the book "Fully Fertile". It is a 12 week program to increasing your fertility through diet, yoga, relaxation, breathing, meditation, accupuncture, etc. It was actually co-written by my accupuncturist and if nothing else - it has really helped me stay relaxed and feeling good this cycle. Plus, it is a $25 book full of stuff you can do yourself (i.e. low out of pocket cost).
I think I'll keep practicing the stuff in the book even after our journey here - because I just feel better in general, both mentally and physically.
I've never heard of IVF insurance - is this a special insurance just for IVF? I'm in Illinois and we are lucky that IVF is by law covered by our health insurance - but not indefinitely and I do think we will run out of coverage soon.
All my best to you and DH. My final word of advice is that I rushed into this 2nd cycle after my BFN and I wish I had given my body time to rest. Had a couple 'normal cycles' without meds and just let my body heal itself. It takes about 120 days from germination to get to a mature egg - so if you can really focus on yourself for a while - your eggs should be healthier for it.