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So Upset..

Post by mrshang » Tue Dec 09, 2008 10:06 pm

Hey ladies... well my husband && I just found out today that IVF is our ONLY option to get pregnant. We found out that only 1% of my husband's sperm is NORMAL out of 100%... and that i also have MTHFR ..so his sperm and that has been making me miscarry.. we are starting the process next month on my next period,...please wish us luck and keep us in your prayers... BABY DUST TO YOU ALL.. YOUR IN MY PRAYERS!!
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Re: So Upset..

Post by mrshang » Tue Dec 09, 2008 10:11 pm

mrshang wrote:Hey ladies... well my husband && I just found out today that IVF is our ONLY option to get pregnant. We found out that only 1% of my husband's sperm is NORMAL out of 100%... and that i also have MTHFR ..so his sperm and that has been making me miscarry.. we are starting the process next month on my next period,...please wish us luck and keep us in your prayers... BABY DUST TO YOU ALL.. YOUR IN MY PRAYERS!!
Also we have been TTC for 2 years && I have Endometriosis...&& we are JUST now finding out about his sperm... so that 2 years kinda seems like a waste of time with him not having normal sperm...i really need some support..
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Post by appy » Tue Dec 09, 2008 10:19 pm

mrshang,don't be so disappointed. You will find many ladies here who share ur pain and are in similar situations.
I too have IVF as my only option,since I have no fallopian tubes,Morever have only one right ovary........Have been TTC for 4.5 yrs now.Have just started my first IVF.Just stay positive.......I'm sure it will all work out well for U.All the very best to you........take care :)

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Post by mrshang » Tue Dec 09, 2008 10:28 pm

[quote="appy"]mrshang,don't be so disappointed. You will find many ladies here who share ur pain and are in similar situations.
I too have IVF as my only option,since I have no fallopian tubes,Morever have only one right ovary........Have been TTC for 4.5 yrs now.Have just started my first IVF.Just stay positive.......I'm sure it will all work out well for U.All the very best to you........take care :)[/quote]


Thanks hon...I'm trying..I'm just a very emontional person at the moment..
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Post by Marynaz » Tue Dec 09, 2008 10:43 pm

mrshang,
Don't be upset. IVF works well for poor morphology my husband just had %4 normal sperm and we are now pregnant on our second IVF.
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2nd IUI-4/08 BFN
1st IVF-July 2008 BFN So hard :0
2nd IVF-Nov 2008 BFP Beta 167 (Twins!!!!!!!!! )Thank you God

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Post by mrshang » Tue Dec 09, 2008 10:53 pm

[quote="Marynaz"]mrshang,
Don't be upset. IVF works well for poor morphology my husband just had %4 normal sperm and we are now pregnant on our second IVF.
Gool Luck to you[/quote]

oooh yay!! CONGRATS GIRL!!! i'm really happy for you. i'm trying..just hard i'm sure you know that though
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Post by Kuny » Wed Dec 10, 2008 4:13 am

Hi,
please do not feel bad. At least we have the technology to do it. My husband has the same problems with his sperm. A few things he is been working on such as eating healthy, herb, clomid. Friday is big day for us with the IVF. it would be nice christmas gift if we hear good news. Please check my website and tell me what you think. I am not done yet. Website is just a way to express my emotion and I try to cover everything. Good luck with your IVF. Again make sure to ask your doctor as many questions as possible. example for me before I take a shot I would numb area first with bag of ice so that way I won't feel the shot. again good luck with your IVF. Please if you have any questions let us know.

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Post by SilverAngel679 » Sun Dec 14, 2008 6:16 am

My husband and I also have male factor issues and here we are now, almost 6 months preggers with twin boys. In another day and age, they would never be alive but here they are, kicking me as I write this. Have hope that everything will be fine and be thankful that all of us live in a time where these things matter very little.
My grandmother had fetility issues that led to my dad being adopted and every time I think about my problems and how hard they where I think about my grandma who went through the same thing but had NO HOPE of ever being pregnant. God, what that must have been like for her.
I'll be hearing soon that your bean is on the way and I promise I'll be the first to congradulate you!!
Me: Liz, 29 (Healthy)DH: Tom, 28 (Male factor)
IVF#1: BFN
IVF#2: BFP (m/c @ 14weeks)
IVF#3: BFP Twin Boys, born 3/23/09
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Post by esperanza » Sun Dec 14, 2008 7:01 am

I understand your feelings. I was there right where you are about a year and a half ago. It's ok to feel that way, but like the other ladies have said, it's good that we all have this option.

Two advices:

(1) take one step at a time so you don't feel too overwhelm with the whole process...soon you will feel like an expert just like the rest of the wonderful ladies in this forum (you came to the right place, by the way...I don't know what I would do without this website).

(2) keep hope alive...just don't give up on hope.

Sending you lots of luv.
me: 33 dh: 40
2 miscarriages (natural pregs. #1 Aug 2006, #2 May 2010)
IVF # 1 jan 08 BFN
FET #1 March 08 BFN
FET #2 July 08 BFP (DD born on April 2009)
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