tkat- They are going to test dh's sperm first. He has sperm analysis and bw on monday morning, then we consult on thursday, so should know more by then. I know how awful the 2ww is, but we are here for you, just hang in there! Jan. 23 is only 8 days away? Are you hpt'ing before?
prayin- glad you had fun in NY. Your also lucky to have gotten out before this miserable bitter chill. I bet it is nice and toasty warm where you are!
Shelley- I know how hard that must be for you. You can vent to us anytime. It is impossible for us to control what others do in their lives, but they could certainly be more sensitive about things. I am scheduled to be in my future sil's wedding in July. I told her we are going through ivf again and I may be pregnant. She didn;t seem very happy, probably because then attention might be on me and my bump instead of her...you think she could be somewhat happy considering what we have to go through, and it may not happen, and if it does work, I will only be like 4 months and probably not show. I didn;t show with my first until like 8 months, and I was a maid of honor then and everyone was thrilled....ugh, I guess I just vented and aired my dirty laundry too...feels so good to vent though!
lady j- sorry to hear about the bcp dilemma. I am glad your clinic gave you the ok though. I wouldn';t feel comfortable not asking them what to do, I wouldn';t want to risk anything for the cycle, so I am glad it is resolved.
I spoke to my clinic again today to make all my prelim appts. It looks like I will be driving out there at least twice a week for almost the next 2 months. I can not stand the drive, but I keep telling myself it will all be worth it in the end.
Keep warn ladies and have a great night!
Me- 28 DH- 33 Male Factor
1st IVF- 12/07- BFP! Ella Michele was born 8/26/8
2nd IVF- 04/09 - BFN
1st FET- 09/09 - Chemical
3rd IVF - 04/11 - Embies didn't make it to ET
4th IVF - Fall 2011??