jbird.... obviously i'm not an expert, but i really think your body did NOT reject being pg. most m/c's go like this- they develop fine/ perfectly, then -boom- they hit the developmental milestone that they are destined to die at, and then they die. just like that.
i had an u/s at 6.5 weeks the first time i was pg. it measured perfectly. had a h/b. 2 weeks later- it died. then it stayed in me til week 12, so i didn't even know til then. and i've since had a child.
if your body was going to reject a pregnancy, it's more than likely that your pre-IVF tests would have shown that, and the RE's would have told you.
this is so hard, i'm so so sorry for your loss.
and kynlee- how are you these days? i remember that m/c i had oh too well.. i either sat like a zombie staring off into space (really freaked out my DH once, sitting on the bathroom floor doing that.).. or i just cried uncontrollably. seriously- the only thing that got me through it was knowing that i had gotten PG once, so maybe i could do it again.. we were given such a poor prognosis for having our own children, that although my pregnancy resulted in m/c, it also brought so much hope that it COULD happen for us. that hope, and this forum, were what got me through. it wasn't friends or family, cause all i did was avoid them cause they didn't get it.
and yes, i'm looking forward to a new year with new promises... and in the mean time, i seriously need to work on my patience.. it is lacking ! super, big, warm, loving hugs to you ladies
38 yrs. DOR, TTC since '04, recommended DE but didn't listen
3 IVF's & 1 FET:
1 cancellation, 1 m/c @ 12 wks, 1 chemical, 1 miracle boy
& miracle 'natural' PG right now while waiting to cycle (WTF?)
feb 21 hb 154