Qita - what? That sucks sooooooo much! You can't freeze embryos in Dubai? Why not? Religious reasons? You should check and see if you can freeze eggs. Eggs don't freeze/thaw as well as embryos, but it's better than nothing. Does your doctor have any idea what the heck happened?
AFM - no, I haven't taken another pee stick yet. I'm waiting for tomorrow morning
I just wanted to say to all the BFN ladies and those waiting in the 2ww that I'm so sorry if my news is hurtful to you. I know how much it sucks when someone else gets that BFP and you don't. I'll keep posting here to keep y'all updated, but I'll try to obsess a little less. I wanted to apologize for my outbursts over the last few days - I was just so shocked and excited that I wanted to share my news and I didn't think much about how hard it is to hear. I'll keep things a bit calmer from now on.
Now for the next 2ww..... my clinic does a beta at 17dpo (or 16 for me this time since 17 would be a Friday and they are closed). Then they schedule an u/s for one week and two weeks after that (the first to check on how many embryos took and the second to check for a heartbeat). So hopefully, if all goes well, I'll have a beta this Thursday, and u/s the Thursdays after that. Thursday is my new favorite day!
Please DO NOT apologise!!! It's what we all want and we're so DELIGHTED when one of us gets it.... ENJOY, ENJOY, ENJOY my friend
Cannot freeze because apparently there are concerns as to the rightful embryos going to the rightful people- but you can freeze eggs and do IVF???!!!! WFT?! Spoken with my new LOVELY LOVELY RE (wife of the original doc) again who has given me her reasons for not proceeding- am as "happy" as I can be in the circumstances and I DO trust her/have faith in her. Will wait for my proper WFT appintment in a few days (hopefully when DH back) and see what we do next. In the meantime, pass the cork screw....
To keep you all amused, after normal ultra sound today they did another one to get a better picture... one where they use the contraptions to expand your bits (like a PAP smear but I deeper and wider) and then fill your uterus with saline water. So I have this lovely new doc that I've met for the first time today, am "lying back and thinking of England" with tears running down my cheeks from the bad news when doc asks me if I'm OK... I mean to say sowething to the effect of 'I've had better days' but instead say whilst she has probe and water squirter inside me "I've had better". OOOOPS