8dp5dt neg hpt this morn

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8dp5dt neg hpt this morn

Post by joyanna » Tue May 10, 2011 7:54 am

Sorry but this is the only place I can go and ask this question (even though I know in my heart that it is bad news). A negative hpt at 8dp5dt means it simply hasn't worked.....

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Re: 8dp5dt neg hpt this morn

Post by qita71 » Tue May 10, 2011 9:25 am

There are people who have posted on this board about getting negative hpts the same day they get a positive beta so hang on in there. When is your beta?
Me 39 DH 35
March 2010: m/c
IVF 1: Jan 2011- BFN
IVF 2: Feb 2011- cancelled
IVF 3: BFP! 14dpo- 65.5 (but residue of hcg booster), 16 dpo- 93, 20 dpo- 387, 23 dpo 1,236

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Re: 8dp5dt neg hpt this morn

Post by joyanna » Tue May 10, 2011 9:55 am

Hi qita71 huge congrats to you.....hope you keeping good. I have my beta on saturday but i just freaked out this morning, took the hpt......despite being told not to poas....... because i have lots of cramping and feel like I am getting AF. I just so wanted to see even the faintest line to calm me down!!! Nothing to do but wait.

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Re: 8dp5dt neg hpt this morn

Post by gina728 » Tue May 10, 2011 3:24 pm

same thing happened to me 8dp 5dt i had a neg test then 2 days later i had a positive test just try to keep positive i know this is hard but i will send u hugs & alot of baby dust...i had done 3 ivf & 6 iui before i had my son 7/22/09 so believe i know how u feel i was told i would never ever have a child with my dh & now we are pregnant with #2 hope everything works out for u

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Re: 8dp5dt neg hpt this morn

Post by joyanna » Tue May 10, 2011 4:28 pm

thanks Gina and congrats to you. Thanks for your inspiration!

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Re: 8dp5dt neg hpt this morn

Post by qita71 » Tue May 10, 2011 4:34 pm

joyanna wrote:Hi qita71 huge congrats to you.....hope you keeping good. I have my beta on saturday but i just freaked out this morning, took the hpt......despite being told not to poas....... because i have lots of cramping and feel like I am getting AF. I just so wanted to see even the faintest line to calm me down!!! Nothing to do but wait.
Honestly Joyanna I have been having AF feelings the whole time (still am) but think that it is impossible to differentitae bwteen your insides getting ready for pregnnacy and getting ready for AF. So, don't read too much into that. And see Gina's story :) 13 dpo is still pretty early for a HPT. You just cannot be sure of anything until Saturday ('only' 3 full days left) so grim though waiting is you just have to hang in there and try keep that PMA up. All the best.
Me 39 DH 35
March 2010: m/c
IVF 1: Jan 2011- BFN
IVF 2: Feb 2011- cancelled
IVF 3: BFP! 14dpo- 65.5 (but residue of hcg booster), 16 dpo- 93, 20 dpo- 387, 23 dpo 1,236

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Re: 8dp5dt neg hpt this morn

Post by qita71 » Fri May 13, 2011 1:10 pm

Joyanna- Just wanted to wish you luck for your beta tomorrow. Thinking of you and hoping for a nice fat number. x
Me 39 DH 35
March 2010: m/c
IVF 1: Jan 2011- BFN
IVF 2: Feb 2011- cancelled
IVF 3: BFP! 14dpo- 65.5 (but residue of hcg booster), 16 dpo- 93, 20 dpo- 387, 23 dpo 1,236

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Re: 8dp5dt neg hpt this morn

Post by jayne321 » Fri May 13, 2011 8:18 pm

I had so many menstrual cramps that I was convinced AF was coming any minute and I just got a positive test.

Hang in there.
Me38 DH41
M/c 21wks 12 oz DD
Jan 08 DS
IUIx3 all BFN
ClomidX2 1natural; 1IUI both BFN
IVF#1Apr 11 BFP OHSS Low hcg u/s 6w3d; blighted ovum:D&C.
IVF#2Nov BFN
IVF#3Apr 12 Failed ED cycle
IVF#4Beta30510dp5dt 62712dp5dt own eggs; 2 heartbeats

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Re: 8dp5dt neg hpt this morn

Post by joyanna » Sun May 15, 2011 1:46 pm

Hi jayne321, qita71 & gina728

Thank you so much for your words of inspiration and hope. I had a dreadful week last week, this ivf is tough going. No good news for me - bfn. Thank God I have a dd from ivf in 2006. We are just desperate to try and have a sibling for her but i think this is the end of the ivf road for us and we are counting our blessings. We have 1 frozen blast from this cycle and we will try an fet in November but we have to be realistic about the chances of the blast surviving the thaw and the fact that i have 3 failed fets!


Thanks again for your kind words. It really helped me and I wish you all a happy and healthy pregnancy x

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Re: 8dp5dt neg hpt this morn

Post by jayne321 » Sun May 15, 2011 4:11 pm

Dear Joyanna,

I am so sorry. I can understand how much you want a sibling for your daughter. I have a son who's three and he's the big reason why I have gone through so many hormones, shots, appts, etc. It is so time consuming and exhausting. Not to mention, it feels so unhealthy to push our bodies so much.

I am deeply saddened by your negative result.

Praying for a surprise positive in nov.

Jayne
Me38 DH41
M/c 21wks 12 oz DD
Jan 08 DS
IUIx3 all BFN
ClomidX2 1natural; 1IUI both BFN
IVF#1Apr 11 BFP OHSS Low hcg u/s 6w3d; blighted ovum:D&C.
IVF#2Nov BFN
IVF#3Apr 12 Failed ED cycle
IVF#4Beta30510dp5dt 62712dp5dt own eggs; 2 heartbeats

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Re: 8dp5dt neg hpt this morn

Post by jayne321 » Sun May 15, 2011 4:14 pm

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Me38 DH41
M/c 21wks 12 oz DD
Jan 08 DS
IUIx3 all BFN
ClomidX2 1natural; 1IUI both BFN
IVF#1Apr 11 BFP OHSS Low hcg u/s 6w3d; blighted ovum:D&C.
IVF#2Nov BFN
IVF#3Apr 12 Failed ED cycle
IVF#4Beta30510dp5dt 62712dp5dt own eggs; 2 heartbeats

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Re: 8dp5dt neg hpt this morn

Post by qita71 » Sat May 21, 2011 2:35 pm

joyanna wrote:Hi jayne321, qita71 & gina728

Thank you so much for your words of inspiration and hope. I had a dreadful week last week, this ivf is tough going. No good news for me - bfn. Thank God I have a dd from ivf in 2006. We are just desperate to try and have a sibling for her but i think this is the end of the ivf road for us and we are counting our blessings. We have 1 frozen blast from this cycle and we will try an fet in November but we have to be realistic about the chances of the blast surviving the thaw and the fact that i have 3 failed fets!


Thanks again for your kind words. It really helped me and I wish you all a happy and healthy pregnancy x
Dear Joyanna

I am really sorry to hear your hurtful news. I really hope that you are bearing up OK and getting lots of cuddles from your little one and other half. I wish you loads of luck for November. In the meantime take care of yourself.

x
Me 39 DH 35
March 2010: m/c
IVF 1: Jan 2011- BFN
IVF 2: Feb 2011- cancelled
IVF 3: BFP! 14dpo- 65.5 (but residue of hcg booster), 16 dpo- 93, 20 dpo- 387, 23 dpo 1,236

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Re: 8dp5dt neg hpt this morn

Post by Boodle44 » Sat May 28, 2011 8:54 pm

Hello All,

I am new to this forum and this is my first post. I'm posting out of a bit of desperation (and also bc I think I finally figured out what all of the abbreviations mean!) Can't tell you how long it took me to figure out POAS! Today is 8dp 5dt on a FET. My beta was supposed to be for tomorrow but due to the Holiday, I have to wait til Tuesday. I have taken 6 hpt between day 5 and today and ALL ARE NEGATIVE. Is it AT ALL possible that there is hope for us or should we start thinking about next steps?

PS. I've been feeling that AF is coming any second and I'm pretty in touch with my bod. I also think the Progeterone suppositories and estrogen (estradiol) pills are causing a little nausea. Sore bb's to the touch (but that is due to progesterone I've been told).

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Re: 8dp5dt neg hpt this morn

Post by qita71 » Sun May 29, 2011 4:58 pm

Yes, 13 dpo is still early. You are not out of the game yet so don't give up hope. You will also find stories from ladies on here that had a negative HPT the same day as getting a positive beta. You also can't read too much into AF symptoms as they are too hard to distinguish from implantation feelings. Hang on in there and wishing you lots of luck.
Me 39 DH 35
March 2010: m/c
IVF 1: Jan 2011- BFN
IVF 2: Feb 2011- cancelled
IVF 3: BFP! 14dpo- 65.5 (but residue of hcg booster), 16 dpo- 93, 20 dpo- 387, 23 dpo 1,236

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Re: 8dp5dt neg hpt this morn

Post by Boodle44 » Mon May 30, 2011 8:14 pm

Hello again. I am officially 10 dp FET. We have had 1 fresh cycle and transferred only 1 embryo bc I had slight OHSS symptoms. BFN. During the 2ww for my fresh cycle I felt absolutely NOTHING. Not one symptom. Nada!
This time, (for my FET) we transferred 2 embryo's. I've had a prolonged 2ww bc of the Memorial Day holiday. UGH! I've taken 9 hpt's EVERY ONE BFN.
At 5dp FET I started to feel a slight nausea and have been having feelings inside as if AF is around the corner since 8dp.
I'm so convinced she is on her way that I am always surprised when I go to the bathroom that she isn't here yet.

Do any of these symptoms sound familiar to anyone? Do they mean it's over for us or is there hope? Beta test is tomorrow morning bright and early and I am dreading the following phone call to say it's a "no go"

Any advise SUPER helpful!

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