Cycling In 2012 Board (formerly Fall/Winter 2011-2012)

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Re: Fall/Winter Board Combined (Sept2011-Feb2012) This is it

Post by fvrogers » Sun Oct 16, 2011 2:15 am

WeHaveHope - You are breaking my heart. I am saying as many prayers as I can for you. Please remain hopeful. There are many things that cause bleeding and women go on to have successful pregnancies despite bleeding. I know this is scary but we must stay strong in prayer.
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Re: Fall/Winter Board Combined (Sept2011-Feb2012) This is it

Post by becca5m » Sun Oct 16, 2011 3:10 am

we, I'm praying with all my might. Please try to rest and try to remain positive.

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Re: Fall/Winter Board Combined (Sept2011-Feb2012) This is it

Post by Sunshine1576 » Sun Oct 16, 2011 3:55 am

WeHaveHope, please tell me everything is ok? I will be praying for you and dh tonight you have gotten this far and we will keep praying and together take it one day at a time. Much Love and Prayers, Christy
Married 13 yrs
36, unexplained
1 natural pg- m/c at 7 wks
(2010-2012) 4 IUIs, 2 IVFs
FET cycle 2/25/2013
Beta: 95, 390, 1361
3/27 HR 140
4/10 HR 184
4/17 Released from RE
6/21 Found out we are having a BOY!

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Re: Fall/Winter Board Combined (Sept2011-Feb2012) This is it

Post by blueeyedreamer » Sun Oct 16, 2011 4:29 am

We: Thinking of you and praying with all I've got.
Nicole 35, DH 42
IVF 1 BFN
FET 2 BFP twins, M/C 7 weeks.
FET 3 BFP, chemical beta high 81
IVF 4 BFP, chemical beta high 707
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Re: Fall/Winter Board Combined (Sept2011-Feb2012) This is it

Post by anton » Sun Oct 16, 2011 6:52 am

Wehavehope- Oh honey! I am sorry! :( I am thinking and praying for you hard! this is just a test from God so be strong! everything is going to be OK! Big ((((HUGS)))

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7 IVF's (incl.1 FET) only BFN's :(
IVF#8 coming soon..
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Re: Fall/Winter Board Combined (Sept2011-Feb2012) This is it

Post by Gina1976 » Sun Oct 16, 2011 8:10 am

We- Praying so hard for you and your Dh! Try to rest and take it easy but I know that isn't going to be easy.

I do think it's wonderful they are seeing you today. Seems like you have a wonderful RE!


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Re: Fall/Winter Board Combined (Sept2011-Feb2012) This is it

Post by Ninde » Sun Oct 16, 2011 8:20 am

We: I know by the time difference that you should be asleep and i hope you are getting some sleep. I woke so many times during the night thinking of you and i prayed for you each time. I am by no means a fanstical christian and i rage at God alot so im not trying to sound " holier than thou" but im really thinking of you all and praying hard

Ninde (Patricia)
Ivf # 1 aug 2011 bfp. M/C 9 weeks
Ivf # 2 Mar 2012, beta Apr 12: Bfn
Ivf # 3 Aug 2012, another heart breaking bfn
Ivf # 4 Feb 2012

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Re: Fall/Winter Board Combined (Sept2011-Feb2012) This is it

Post by tuffy4u » Sun Oct 16, 2011 8:31 am

We, I am at a loss for words. I'm so sorry you have to go through this stress. I hope you are not having cramping. I bled like crazy with my DD. It was at 11 weeks and I had to wear pads for over two months. So don't give up, I will hope that they are well when you get to your RE tomorrow. I wish I had a way to make your pain and worry go away.

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Me- 33 DH- 41
TTC since 2005
DD-3, DD-2
2011 4 Failed IUI cycles
9/24/11 IVF #2 two blasts transfered. 2 Frosties! 10/3 BFP! Beta 205, Twins!

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Re: Fall/Winter Board Combined (Sept2011-Feb2012) This is it

Post by Gina1976 » Sun Oct 16, 2011 9:40 am

We- I've been thinking of you all morning. Praying everything is just fine when you go to your appointment.

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Re: Fall/Winter Board Combined (Sept2011-Feb2012) This is it

Post by WeHaveHope » Sun Oct 16, 2011 10:43 am

Friends,

I want to thank you all for your prayers. Unfortunately, I had pretty bad cramping all last night and woke up this morning to very heavy bleeding with blood clots. Last time I MC I had been asked by the nurse if I had collected any of the bloidcclots for pathology purposes. I had not done so that time but remembered somehow today, and did so this time. It was one of the hardest things I've ever had to do. I think i have resigned myself to another lost pregnancy. I'm heartbroken beyond belief and so is DH. Truthfuly, last time I was convinced immediately that I wanted to and needed to do this again. I'm not so sure my heart can take anothervblow. I've put in a call to my RE this morning to see if they even want me to come in. I can't imagine with all of the bleeding, blood clots, and cramping that there is any possible way there is still a viable pregnancy. I don't think I want to drive an hour to find out what my heart already knows.
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DS14pr mrg
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IUI 12/10 BFN
IVF 1/11 OHSS
FET 5/11 BFN
FET 7/11 MC
FET 9/11 MC46 XY
FET 12-30-11 BFP 15dpo=266,17dpo=727,22dpo=7125,25dpo=19076,1-20 u/s 2HB's. Our 2 little miracles born on 8-15-12@35w/3d
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Re: Fall/Winter Board Combined (Sept2011-Feb2012) This is it

Post by bodie1011 » Sun Oct 16, 2011 11:35 am

We - my heart is breaking. I would definitely still go in to see the RE, don't give up hope yet. Praying for you!
Me 37, DH 35, TTC 4 YR, MC x3
FET 10/7 10/16 beta 248 BFP, 10/25 u/s twins!
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Re: Fall/Winter Board Combined (Sept2011-Feb2012) This is it

Post by anton » Sun Oct 16, 2011 12:00 pm

Wehavehope- Oh honey!! :( I am SO sorry this is happening to you! you are breaking my heart! please be strong and don't give up yet! we have heard SO many stories in these boards with women with heavy bleeding and still they deliver beautiful healthy babies. please GO and see your RE! Don't you give up! GO! there is a BIG chance your babies are fine! I wish I was there to hold your hand during this difficult time. my thoughts and prayers are with you. :cry: (((HUGS)))

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Re: Fall/Winter Board Combined (Sept2011-Feb2012) This is it

Post by Gina1976 » Sun Oct 16, 2011 12:14 pm

We- I am so sorry this is happening to you and your DH!! I agree though, I'd go in because like others have said, some have had bleeding throughout their pregnant and everything is fine! Thinking of you and praying for you! (((LOTS OF HUGS)))

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Re: Fall/Winter Board Combined (Sept2011-Feb2012) This is it

Post by Ninde » Sun Oct 16, 2011 12:16 pm

We: oh dear God I'm so sorry. But please, I know its a long drive but go in to your re. Every woman on this board is supporting you with prayers and thought. I'm lighting a candle for you immediately x

Ninde
Ivf # 1 aug 2011 bfp. M/C 9 weeks
Ivf # 2 Mar 2012, beta Apr 12: Bfn
Ivf # 3 Aug 2012, another heart breaking bfn
Ivf # 4 Feb 2012

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Re: Fall/Winter Board Combined (Sept2011-Feb2012) This is it

Post by rosie84 » Sun Oct 16, 2011 12:22 pm

Hi guys, with the holidays here in Israel, I seem to have fallen behind…I am looking forward to catching up now! I just finished a great book - "Still Alice." It is about a 50-year-old linguistics professor at Harvard who is diagnosed with early onset Alzheimer's. The whole story is told from her perspective as she deteriorates over time. It was a really sad book, but one of the best ones I've read recently. I am stopping BCPs at the end of this week and with the horrible migraines, it can't come soon enough!

We - Sending you so many thoughts and prayers right now. I am so so sorry. I do think you should still touch base with the clinic and go in - there is always the possibility that it is something like a SCH and not a miscarriage. ((((hugs))))

blessed - Congratulations on starting your estrogen. Nov 3 will be here before you know it!

tufty - So exciting about your scan! Thoughts and prayers that both little beans keep growing and thriving.

Lauren - Sorry you are feeling blue:( Thinking of you. (((hugs)))

Ninde - I would definitely not worry about getting too much folic acid. It's really not a danger…you will just pee out whatever excess your body doesn't use.

Anton - Lots of continued good vibes to you for great news come Tuesday!

Bodie - Congratulations on your BFP - wonderful news!

Leora - Feel better! I hope you are on the mend. Re: DH - I would say it is totally not in his place to decide how and from whom you receive support, but perhaps discussing the board with him less or even not at all for a little while will get him off your case. And yeah, of course you are obsessed with all of this - it is so emotionally, physically, and intellectually consuming, how could you not be? Of course, taking a step back between cycles can always be refreshing and help you to recharge and recenter yourself, but I know that with all of the planning and anticipation that goes into each cycle, it is always there to some extent. I hope you are having a great time with your family.
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IUIs #1-6 = 5 BFNs and 1 loss
#1 IVF = BFN
#2 FET = BFN
#3 FET = BFN
#4 IVF = BFP, Naava and Aminadav, born and died @19w5d on 3/7/12 due to pPROM
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