Hello ladies - hope you all survived Black Friday! Heard some pretty scary reports on it over here in terms of stampeding, etc!
Nac: I hope you sorted things out with your dh. Its all dh and I seem to do at the moment.
Jen: I'm sure it must be really tough waiting for the U/S. I really hope it goes well for you.
Christy: thats a tough call to make and I know what you mean about taking a break from fertility treatment for a while and trying naturally. Whats great is that you can try in between cycles and wouldn't that be just wonderful if it worked? Honestly - you are doing all the right stuff so hopefully it will happen and I would definately suggest accupuncture. The more I've looked into it the more I've read about people who succeed with its support. And wasn't that so lovely that Belles left you the card for Valentine's Day. I often hear in my work with clients how particular adults made such a difference in their life - I'm sure you will be one of those people who Belles tells people about. Your kindness can't but touch her deeply.
Maria: I prayed for you yesterday and I continue to do so. Your post was heart breaking and I wish you strength and courage x
Tess: I really hope tomorrow's beta gives you a BFP.
Felicia: So nice to hear from you. Sorry about your haematoma, no wonder you are on edge about it. Its lovely to hear you have your second trimester appointment though
Neffi: that shopping sounds hard and I hope you were ok
Bodie: After your houseful of guests I think you are entitled to a day on the couch!!! I really enjoyed Friends with Benefits and thought Cowboys and Aliens was fun. HOwever, now totally distracted by season 4 of true blood (thanks Leorira!) and seeing Eric Northman in various states of undress!
LauraN: Thats great about the U/S!! And I laughed about your hair appointment! Thats just one of the things I learned from last time - get the hair done before the ER!!!!
Anton: Did you find the cards?!!
Gina: I'm really glad the service was nice and thats lovely that photos were with her
Hopethisworks: Thats absolutely wonderful - congratulations on the heart beat
Moorebaby: Lovely to hear from you. I hope things are going well for you. It is hard sometimes not to think that you and I would have been due around the same time but I'm really delighted for you. I'm doing good, planning to get going again in January and probably ER around end of Feb and our transfer is 2/3 days so either very end Feb or early March.
Blessed: Totally understand what you mean. I'm really glad your U/S is this Friday and I can't wait to hear how it goes
Blue: I'm so sorry about your dh's Mum. And I know this will further complicate them taking in whats happened with your baby. I'm really sorry.
Afm: Just had my second personal training session. Warned him I could not do the step up s on the bench today as my legs would not stretch that far! So he just increased the number of bloody lunges! However, I was clever and got into the jaccuzzi afterwards which should help.
Another big row with my dh. There are times when I find his multiple sclerosis harder than others and this is one of them. One of the reasons its hard is because if we have a normal row inevitably it turns into how his life isn't good because of the MS. I utterly understand that, I really do. But it means I always seem to have to back down or off because he is sick. It frustrates me and what frustrates me even more is that he won't do things to help himself in terms of working with support groups, doing some exercise, having accupuncture or reflexology, meeting up with friends. And I won't even get started on the no sex! I'm sorry if I sound harsh but 10 years of this is really taking its toll.
Ivf # 1 aug 2011 bfp. M/C 9 weeks
Ivf # 2 Mar 2012, beta Apr 12: Bfn
Ivf # 3 Aug 2012, another heart breaking bfn
Ivf # 4 Feb 2012