Kynlee: im really glad you got some reassurance
You asked about donor embryos - cant do that in ireland. One clinic has a satellite clinic in the ukraine to get around the legal issue but ireland-ukraine is a really poor flight routing. Its possible but not easy. And it would cost over US15,000 dollars per cycle and having spent over US21,000 dollars on our previous three cycles in the past year we definitely cant afford that
Christy: I dont have hallmark movies but I can imagine it
Jane: how are you feeling? Is the improvement from ohs continuing?
Waiting kay: my mtg is on thurs. How did you get on today? I know there are numerous stages in this process for you in terms of interventions and you are completely understandably anxious about it all. This must be occupying your every waking moment. How are you bearing up?
Nicole: I understand - everything was lined up so well for you and you had some lovely dates. That can make things so much harder. And I know what you mean about never wishing this on anyone but valuing the support. Im really really sorry it didnt work out.
Leora: you asked about donor embryos being a possibility and i answered that above in my response to kynlee.
Pocos: Oh your situation is very hard with no family to supoort you. I dont know how psychologists and psychiatrists differ in the US but can I suggest a therapist to help? If you are depressed i think that woukd be totally understandable given all you have been through. Its scary I know but a good therapist should be able to help. Can I also suggest you do some relaxation every day and definately before bed - get a good cd or id you like i can email you one of mine. And make sure you are eating properly and drinking lots of water. Avoid sugary foods for your anxietyand eat protein - it also helps with anxiety. And finally - if you dont mind one more suggestion - could you start writing out some of your feelings? It might stop them going around and around in your head. Please go as gently as you can x
Ivf # 1 aug 2011 bfp. M/C 9 weeks
Ivf # 2 Mar 2012, beta Apr 12: Bfn
Ivf # 3 Aug 2012, another heart breaking bfn
Ivf # 4 Feb 2012