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by Sunshine1576 » Fri Sep 28, 2012 4:02 pm
Nicole- I'm thinking of you this morning and hoping the MS flare goes away soon. Any updates from the doctor for possible upcoming Laproscopic surgery?
Patricia- How are you feeling today? Really would it cost 65,000 to adopt internationally from Florida, where did you come up with amount? There has to be another agency to look into plus I'm gathering international is more complicated then domestic. I wish I could ship my pg coworker's baby to Ireland. You know in a heartbeat I would in a heartbeat if I could. Seriously my boss, the coworker and I were chatting the other day and my boss said soon I'm going to have to hire someone to replace you for the holidays looking right at my pg coworker.
She said but I'll be coming back in 4 months (we have a 4 month maturity leave but since she's part-time there is no compensation.) Later I asked her who's going to keep the baby when you come back to work, she said I haven't figured that part out yet. I honestly don't know how she's going to do it, they moved in with her boyfriend's mom last month to save money and a decent daycare cost around $125 a week! I know she'll ultimately have financial government assistance, but it's still not right. The other night she stayed out until 2:30 am with 5 of her friends and she had to be back at work at 8:30 that morning...She said they had free concert tickets and this might be her last opportunity to go out before the baby comes. Her friends she kept telling her to call out but she got told them no they don't understand she needs this job. She got to work dressed and on time so I couldn't say a whole lot but in my mind I was thinking her priorities are so messed up and when this baby comes she's going to be in a huge reality shock but that's her troubles not mine. We hear these stories and realize their whole life is completely turned upside down. It doesn't bring us to a happier place but we know it's not the life they planned out either. Here I know when it finally happens to us we'll have far more gratitude and well be far more prepared for this life changing event.
Pocos- I will keep praying with you, just remember take it one day at a time. One thing I've learned about this journey is after a while you become stronger and do things you never thought possible. I remember self-administrating my first ever injection while dh was away, it was the Ganelrex shot to get me from ovulating. Seriously I was chatting with someone at the clinic about how I would be willing to pay someone $10 to give me a shot, that's how terrified I was! After it was over I thought why did I create a big fuss over a tiny needle but I say that now right?
AFM: Not sure what to do with my off day maybe take an afternoon nap. Need to find something to wear to my cousin's upcoming wedding. We're very close from when she was a newborn I got to be there to welcome her home. She's not so little anymore at 23 and beautiful inside and out. They're having a garden wedding near a barn just down the street from my in-laws house AND I'm begging dh to come with me but he's not sure if he can get off from work next Saturday. I really hope so for two reasons he could see alot of his family and mine but not only that he could take care of my injections...we shall see! Working on getting the meds ordered now. Turns out I will be on a long lupron cycle too Pocos. When I called my new insurance company I found out they need the medical diagnosis code to check to see if my meds would be partially covered. They said LUPRON is used for breast cancer treatment to treat fibriods as well as endometri... but for ART treatment or insemination it wouldn't be covered. I think when I told the guy all about the out of pocket cost he was being nice to tell me I could call back with a medical diagnosis code. It's not right how insurance in the state of Florida see fertility treatment as an option just because we are the 3rd largest state in the U.S doesn't mean we still struggle with this. Oh well that's my rant! Just received a phone call from dh telling me he's coming to Alabama next weekend for the wedding so that made my day! Meds should be coming to my doorstep tomorrow afternoon...
Married 13 yrs
36, unexplained
1 natural pg- m/c at 7 wks
(2010-2012) 4 IUIs, 2 IVFs
FET cycle 2/25/2013
Beta: 95, 390, 1361
3/27 HR 140
4/10 HR 184
4/17 Released from RE
6/21 Found out we are having a BOY!