Just had my first IVF experience which I decided to try in the interest of saving time to get pg. Had my DD at 40 naturally.

Then got pg naturally again at 41 but miscarried at 8 weeks. My Re recommended IVF as the most aggressive way to try and get a sib for my daughter since time is running out.

Stimmed for 10 days after 1 month of bcps, 300 gonal, 150 menopur (3 days), then dropped to 150 gonal f with same menopur. My E2 was rising great but I only had 5 follicles.

On retrieval day, they got 4 eggs- all fertilized but 2 abnormally. On day 3 I had (1) 8 cell and (1) 7 cell. Decided to go to day 5 to make sure they were strong and both made it to blasts but had no inner cell structure, hence so embryo. I'm glad I waited until day 5 since I would have miscarried obviously.

My question is, should I continue with IVF to stay aggressive or just try naturally? My insurance covers nothing.

Btw, My fsh bounces around between 8-10 but my amh is very low= .43. Dh counts are all very high.

Thanks.