I have just finished reading 2 books from opposite perspectives. You may recall the Carolyn Savage and Shannon Morrell embryo mix up. Both have written books...
http://www.bookdepository.co.uk/Misconc ... 1439193617
http://www.bookdepository.co.uk/Inconce ... 0062004635
I can highly recommend these books. They also put an end to the belief held by some that donor options don't feel like biological offspring....
Another great online site I have found is 40something and IVF. it has lots of relevance for younger women too....interesting if you want to track ivf developments overseas.