Thank you everyone for your responses and support! I have so much love for all of you amazing woman!!
Nicole- Thank you for the links. I will totally check them out. I only had a lap done when I was diagnosed with stage 4 endo. I was told I had 3 options if I wanted children (which is why I ended up having the lap done in the first place..because I wasn't getting pregnant.)
Option 1- I could have full on surgery and have as much of the endo removed as possible, and then start 6 months of lupron depot to keep it from coming back, and then ttc naturally. This option did not work for me at the time because I couldn't take that much time off from work to have the surgery.
Option 2- Skip surgery and go right into IVF- again at the time I thought that this would be hard, but was also told that I would most likely get pregnant by the 2nd try...5 years later...not so much.
Option 3- adopt.
Although I can't get pregnant no matter what I try...I really don't have to many symptoms from my endo. I think I may have worse cramps from the average woman, but it's all I've even known, so it doesn't bother me. I get some pains when I ovulate, and I have really huge clots when AF comes, but I never thought it was abnormal. If I never wanted to have children I would've never known about my endo.
That being said, I wouldn't be using the lupron depot to "cure" my endo, but I have read studies that say taking LD for a few months, and then going right into an FET cycle helps woman with endo who have had multiple failed cycles because a lot of woman with endo are missing something called Beta-3 integrin, that is believed to kill the embryos before they have a chance to implant.
Again, I just found this info from googling, and I am looking for anyone who tried this with success.
Chris- I did see your link! Thank you! I don't see why I wouldn't try the heprin too, along with the intralipids again too. I still haven't talked to DH or RE, but I'm trying to get a plan together, and like you said "throw everything at this try" and that's including the darn kitchen sink too!!!
Seriously, where is ghost??