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Help keeping it interesting and exciting?

Postby sillysqrrl » Thu Sep 25, 2008 5:15 pm

Ok so I need some ideas to help stimulate my hubby into having sex more often so we can start training ourselves for the "big event" lol

we have become pretty slack over the years, we are down to once and maybe twice a week at being intimate, but we need to amp that up to get the most out of our money so to speak.

Last time we tried getting preggers, the doc said to try and have sex every other day during ovulation...that failed miserable the last time, the pressure was just too much for hubby.

I am very sexual and my husband is very reserved...he had/has very low self esteem and when he was growing up, convinced himself of some weird ideas when it comes to sex...over the years we have worked on it, and his attitude is much better, but his drive is low

well not sure if it is really his drive, or still his ideals that keep us down to once a week or not

anyway we both know we need to change that and have agreed to work on it, but i know what that means, it means it is up to me to do all the work and ingenuity to get this ball rolling

so any ideas that can help would be welcome...i am open to trying anything, but i need enough ideas to keep tricking him lol

sexy email messages, sexy phone calls during the middle of the work day, porn...those are some of my ideas...have any more?

thanks!
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Postby gina1234 » Thu Sep 25, 2008 6:41 pm

hey i will send u a message i have alot of ideas...chat with u soon
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Postby sillysqrrl » Thu Sep 25, 2008 6:53 pm

oh thank you! I could use them...how do you send people messages on this thing anyway?
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hello

Postby gina1234 » Mon Sep 29, 2008 2:28 pm

to send a message u have to go to were the end of the message is & you will see something that has ( profile, pm & report ) then hit pm & u send a private message...

sending alot of baby dust your way

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