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Re: Surrogacy Abroad

Postby Estellla » Mon Dec 04, 2017 11:18 pm

Hello dear! I'm really sorry you have to go through such pain. I know that this is really hard to be strong in such situation. I had 6 miscarriages and I completely understand the reason why you chose such method to stop feeling the pain. We have been trying to conceive for 8 years. These years were a nightmare for us. I am very lucky I have supportive husband. But his and mine parents make the situation worse. They can't stop asking when we will give them grandchildren. They can't stop blaming me in inability to have children. They can't stop turning my life into a nightmare. In such situation it is very hard not to give up and stop trying. I've changed so many doctors, so many hospitals. I've tried literally everything to get pregnant and the most important to save the pregnancy. Unfortunately nothing worked for me. We wasted so much money and nerves and got nothing in result. After the pain we went through I'm actually surprised that we still have tiny bit of hope. We are thinking about the surrogacy option. This is our last chance and we want to use it. Dear I wish you all the best! I hope you will find answers to your questions. I wish you to find an option which will help you to become a mother!
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Re: Surrogacy Abroad

Postby Estellla » Mon Jun 18, 2018 7:42 pm

I'll be honest with you. Sometimes I'm not positive at all. Sometimes I just want to stay in bed and cry. Other times I just want to totally give up. I have been ttc for 8 years! I had 6 m/c. I don't know what's worse, not being able to get pregnant, or getting pregnant but not being able to keep it. I just try to remind myself that I want a baby and I can't let anything stop me. I don't know if it's really staying positive that works for me or the attitude that I want it, so I'm going to get it. I don't say "if" I have a baby, I say "when" I have a baby. I know it will happen. I think I'm kind of brainwashing myself. I know how you feel about the anger/jealous thing. I'm right there with you. When that happens, I just tell myself, my time will come. Maybe this can work for you too. Best of luck to you. It will happen!
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Re: Surrogacy Abroad

Postby jennifer128 » Mon Jul 09, 2018 6:11 pm

Hey there. Hope you're good. I'm married before one year ago. I want to share my experience with you. I'm the daily visitor of this forum. This can help me alot. When, i'm suffering from infertility and doctors told that this is because of disorder of your tisuess. My husband can support me. Then, we search daily new clinics. But we can't find a good clinic. Then, my friends told me that there is Lotus Clinic. We visit next day this clinic. When, we visited this clinic, this clinic is so dirty and there is no chance of clean the dirtiness. Their apartments are so conjusted. Some of their patients are slep with other in one bad. Some food can give to all patients.
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Re: Surrogacy Abroad

Postby KattyH » Mon Aug 13, 2018 1:06 pm

AvaJae wrote:Surrogacy is really expensive in abroad. We cannot afford an expensive packages. Also, Our privacy is on stake. I am a famous player. I do not want to compromise on my privacy. I go married when I was just 25 years old. That time was peak of my career. So I proceed the career. Now I have also put some weight for getting pregnant. But nothing positive is happening. What should I do now? Please tell me a clinic which is best in keeping my privacy. Any guideline?


Firstly, people go abroad for surrogacy or as a part of medical tourism to get affordable high-end treatment... especially ones involving complicated surgeries, reconstruction procedure etc. and the facility now includes ART as well i.e. IVF and surrogacy. Any clinic that offers specialises in surrogacy and offer it as a part of reproductive tourism will keep up with your privacy requirement because the private clinic has to perfect their client servicing in order to stay in business. Also, legally you can ensure that by discussing a "No Disclosure" agreement between you and the clinic as well as with the surrogate. Technically the surrogate doesn't really have enough evidence ever to go for such a thing if they are enrolled by the clinic themselves. However, before you even begin your plans to explore surrogacy remember irrespective of the country you choose (obviously amongst the one that allows surrogacy services for foreigners) you need to make sure that you can absolutely prove the need for surrogacy. It either be the medical records and diagnostic details along with reports of failed IVF or the medical proof that if allowed a full-term gestation it might be fatal to you.... to suggest that surrogacy is perhaps your only option. Some even want a sure paperwork that your Husband or registered partner is totally fertile and be the biological father. There's absolutely no escaping this step. Good luck with finding a right clinic!
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Re: Surrogacy Abroad

Postby KattyH » Mon Aug 13, 2018 1:11 pm

jennifer128 wrote:Hey there. Hope you're good. I'm married before one year ago. I want to share my experience with you. I'm the daily visitor of this forum. This can help me alot. When, i'm suffering from infertility and doctors told that this is because of disorder of your tisuess. My husband can support me. Then, we search daily new clinics. But we can't find a good clinic. Then, my friends told me that there is Lotus Clinic. We visit next day this clinic. When, we visited this clinic, this clinic is so dirty and there is no chance of clean the dirtiness. Their apartments are so conjusted. Some of their patients are slep with other in one bad. Some food can give to all patients.


@Ghost haven't you been online lately? Looks like forum got shills again and I don't see your posts... not even genuine suggestion ones.
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Re: Surrogacy Abroad

Postby Kylie » Mon Aug 27, 2018 10:12 pm

I am sad for your misfortune dear, I wish it had not transpired. About Ukraine yes there are various great centers, however, please be careful with the phony ones like Adonis. Numerous individuals endeavored to get in touch with them through messages yet it appears as though they are not up for any sort of collaboration. Furthermore, their unhygienic condition and concealed charges likewise turn out to be a cheat. I have heard a similar story from a lot of other individuals also. They are simply playing with the sentiments of others, they have no clue how hard this circumstance could be for any ladies. It's my recommendation that before going for any further medications please ensure that you are in right hands, which Adonis is simply not. Have a go at looking for some other ripeness center I am certain you will locate the correct one.
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