Discussion forum for those particularly interested in infertility.
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I'll be honest with you. Sometimes I'm not positive at all. Sometimes I just want to stay in bed and cry. Other times I just want to totally give up. I have been ttc for 8 years! I had 6 m/c. I don't know what's worse, not being able to get pregnant, or getting pregnant but not being able to keep it. I just try to remind myself that I want a baby and I can't let anything stop me. I don't know if it's really staying positive that works for me or the attitude that I want it, so I'm going to get it. I don't say "if" I have a baby, I say "when" I have a baby. I know it will happen. I think I'm kind of brainwashing myself. I know how you feel about the anger/jealous thing. I'm right there with you. When that happens, I just tell myself, my time will come. Maybe this can work for you too. Best of luck to you. It will happen!
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Hey there. Hope you're good. I'm married before one year ago. I want to share my experience with you. I'm the daily visitor of this forum. This can help me alot. When, i'm suffering from infertility and doctors told that this is because of disorder of your tisuess. My husband can support me. Then, we search daily new clinics. But we can't find a good clinic. Then, my friends told me that there is Lotus Clinic. We visit next day this clinic. When, we visited this clinic, this clinic is so dirty and there is no chance of clean the dirtiness. Their apartments are so conjusted. Some of their patients are slep with other in one bad. Some food can give to all patients.
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AvaJae wrote:Surrogacy is really expensive in abroad. We cannot afford an expensive packages. Also, Our privacy is on stake. I am a famous player. I do not want to compromise on my privacy. I go married when I was just 25 years old. That time was peak of my career. So I proceed the career. Now I have also put some weight for getting pregnant. But nothing positive is happening. What should I do now? Please tell me a clinic which is best in keeping my privacy. Any guideline?
Firstly, people go abroad for surrogacy or as a part of medical tourism to get affordable high-end treatment... especially ones involving complicated surgeries, reconstruction procedure etc. and the facility now includes ART as well i.e. IVF and surrogacy. Any clinic that offers specialises in surrogacy and offer it as a part of reproductive tourism will keep up with your privacy requirement because the private clinic has to perfect their client servicing in order to stay in business. Also, legally you can ensure that by discussing a "No Disclosure" agreement between you and the clinic as well as with the surrogate. Technically the surrogate doesn't really have enough evidence ever to go for such a thing if they are enrolled by the clinic themselves. However, before you even begin your plans to explore surrogacy remember irrespective of the country you choose (obviously amongst the one that allows surrogacy services for foreigners) you need to make sure that you can absolutely prove the need for surrogacy. It either be the medical records and diagnostic details along with reports of failed IVF or the medical proof that if allowed a full-term gestation it might be fatal to you.... to suggest that surrogacy is perhaps your only option. Some even want a sure paperwork that your Husband or registered partner is totally fertile and be the biological father. There's absolutely no escaping this step. Good luck with finding a right clinic!
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jennifer128 wrote:Hey there. Hope you're good. I'm married before one year ago. I want to share my experience with you. I'm the daily visitor of this forum. This can help me alot. When, i'm suffering from infertility and doctors told that this is because of disorder of your tisuess. My husband can support me. Then, we search daily new clinics. But we can't find a good clinic. Then, my friends told me that there is Lotus Clinic. We visit next day this clinic. When, we visited this clinic, this clinic is so dirty and there is no chance of clean the dirtiness. Their apartments are so conjusted. Some of their patients are slep with other in one bad. Some food can give to all patients.
@Ghost haven't you been online lately? Looks like forum got shills again and I don't see your posts... not even genuine suggestion ones.
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I am sad for your misfortune dear, I wish it had not transpired. About Ukraine yes there are various great centers, however, please be careful with the phony ones like Adonis. Numerous individuals endeavored to get in touch with them through messages yet it appears as though they are not up for any sort of collaboration. Furthermore, their unhygienic condition and concealed charges likewise turn out to be a cheat. I have heard a similar story from a lot of other individuals also. They are simply playing with the sentiments of others, they have no clue how hard this circumstance could be for any ladies. It's my recommendation that before going for any further medications please ensure that you are in right hands, which Adonis is simply not. Have a go at looking for some other ripeness center I am certain you will locate the correct one.
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We have signed with an agency in Ukraine. It is called World Center of Baby.
I won't be sharing links here. But it is pretty easy to google it. They are great. Ukraine is an overall affordable country when it comes to fertility tx. And surrogacy is not an exception.
This is why we have chosen it in the first place. It is a great agency. We have not been disappointed so far. They even exceeded our expectations. However, what could've possible we expect? We did not know anything about surrogacy and went there without any prior experience. Now, we know a bit more. At least, how it works in this agency. No matter how universal the law is, every clinic is different from each other when it comes to minor stuff. But we think that there is no such thing as minor stuff when it comes to surrogacy. Everything is important. Especially, communication. It is the key to satisfied customers. it always has been and always will be.
So I would 100 per cent recommend you reaching out to them. I think that you won't be disappointed. They are not as famous as many other Ukrainian clinics but are quite successful. All of the other IPs I keep in touch with have their SM pregnant or only got into the program. But all of them are pretty happy with the choice.
Fingers crossed our surrogate gets pregnant. We are very excited. She has had her ET very quickly. We were surprised that she was matched so fast.
So go ahead and send them an email.
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Regarding surrogacy, I found a Ukrainian law translated into English. I advise anyone interested to read it.
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thank you for sharing. However, I recommend also checking up with a clinic to be sure everything will be prepared according to the law