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Unsaid words

Postby SheilaMuse » Sat Aug 05, 2017 6:26 pm

Let's talk about infertility. Let us focus on an ailment that is much regarded as abnormality. Let us talk about ourselves, the "different women".
When we were young, we were raised to believe that one of our major purposes in life is to become mothers. The shock and grief that follows the discovery that we cannot be that is unspeakable. Oh, the many days of locking yourself up.
We are the ones that get sneered, jeered and insulted. We lose friends along the way. We get cast out by our very own relatives. Some of our governments offer no refuge. Procedures like IVF are illegal in some countries.
We are the ones who wish for tantrums every passing moment. I dare say we are the strongest women on earth!!
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Re: Unsaid words

Postby CeciliaD » Mon Aug 07, 2017 9:27 pm

Very well said Sheila. Yor piece touches on every aspect of our infertile live. No one should ever be subjected to what we are subjected to. All governments ought to know our plight and help us. Have you got any help for your situation? I am on my forst trimester thanks to Biotexcom in Kiev. If you still have not got any help, consider visiting this clinic. It is one of the best. Plus infertility treatments are more advanced in Ukraine..
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Re: Unsaid words

Postby SarahS » Thu Aug 10, 2017 7:39 am

Awesome sentiments. All are true observations. It saddens me that we have no support from majority of the people around us. They should know that we are not half human. We are fully human and we have emotions. Our feelings are barely put into considerations. We are not girls, not yet women. Owing to this we have no one to associate with aside from those who have walked in our shoes and the few sympathetic. As you said, our challenges have made us the strongest people alive. Thanks to science, we can now be mothers.
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Re: Unsaid words

Postby AdaSam » Fri Sep 22, 2017 2:49 pm

I can understand the situation of infertility. I am a new member here. I am worried about my infertility. I am the mother of 3 children. My husband wants a big family for us. This is the reason we have to go for a fourth child now. I was declared infertile after my last delivery. I have a problem with the uterus also. My husband knows all the situation. I love him a lot. What should we do now? We do not want an adopted child. Please tell me about surrogacy.
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