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Postby glendakim » Thu Dec 21, 2017 1:28 am

My experiences while trying to conceive in the first couple of years of my marriage were very tough. even though I have a very supportive husband, my in-laws were very eager for me to have a child, and I would often feel like I was disappointing them. I continued to try to get pregnant, I made my diet better, I also quit my job because it placed me in a lot of stress and tried to remove all tensions from my life so that my body could be healthier and I could have a child. but nothing worked. I got more and more disappointed and depressed we went to the doctor as well, to see if something was wrong, and they did not come back with good news. they said that the lining of my uterus was too thin to sustain a pregnancy and that's why I had never had a pregnancy. even if an embryo developed, my uterine lining was never thick enough to nurture it. I felt as though I could never be happy with myself again. I feel like there is something so wrong with me, and so broken, my husband tries to comfort me, but I feel so insecure about myself, and about my body. Recently we have been talking to the doctor about the possible treatments for me. she has been suggesting some sort of medicine that makes the lining of the uterus become thicker and stay thicker. she has also been suggesting that while we go through that treatment, we also look at options that involve fertilizing the egg and implanting the embreyo.it all seems so scary to me. I feel so lost about it, and so scared about what is to come. I hope there are people who understand the struggle I am facing.
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Re: Trying to conceive

Postby JennyKL2017 » Tue Dec 26, 2017 2:34 pm

I completely understand you, dear. I faced the problem of infertility many years ago. I was frustrated. I didn't know what to do. I know what you are feeling at the moment. The only option I had at that moment was adoption. That's why my first baby was adopted. We don't regret that we did it. He is an amazing kid. We love him so much. But in a couple of years we decided to have more kids. Our doctor offered us to try the surrogacy service. We were scared but we agreed to try it out. We desperately wanted to have our biological kids. That's how our twin boys were born. The surrogate mother helped us to make our dream come true. First of all, we found a great reproduction center. We were not allowed to choose the surrogate. I was worried but now I understand that I didn't have to. Our clinic has a big database of the surrogates. They all are strong and healthy.
You will have to go through different kinds of examinations. After that your doctor will find the most appropriate option for you. If you still have a chance to get pregnant, they will help you. I know a lot of women, who got pregnant with IVF. It is very popular nowadays. In this case you will be able to give birth on your own. Even if IVF doesn't work, there's no need to give up. As I said before, surrogacy works in 99% of cases. The embryo will be transferred to the surrogate. The baby born will be genetically related to your husband and you. You will be written as its biological parents. :)
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Re: Trying to conceive

Postby Ghost » Tue Dec 26, 2017 6:00 pm

JennyKL2017 wrote:As I said before, surrogacy works in 99% of cases.


That claim is plainly false.

There is currently no IVF option that works in 99% of cases. Few centers outside the USA can exceed 50% success rate in their best groups (most are lower than that), and even in the USA, the best methods at the top centers can sustain around 70-80% birth rates per transfer, and somewhat less per cycle start.
Avoid IVF and surrogacy in Ukraine. Ukrainian centers pay shills to post here under numerous sock accounts pretending to be patients in Ukraine. Centers using such deceptive advertising cannot be trusted and should be avoided.
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Re: Trying to conceive

Postby KattyH » Wed Jan 03, 2018 8:17 pm

I don't wanna sound mean or discouraging you - but no fertility assistance process comes with a guarantee as such. It has more or less equal chances of success and failures. Certain factor does add to improve the chances though, like more the number of embryos, heavy load transfer or multiple tries somewhat offer a higher chance of success but certainly not 99%. What's important is to not give up, not on hope neither on try. With some compromise here and there you won't have to give up on being a mother at least. For instance, if your eggs are not good then go for DE or if nothing works you can perhaps adopt. Hope you find a way to deal with your troubles and get past the childlessness soon. May the new year bring you good luck! :)
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Re: Trying to conceive

Postby Alyssa562 » Thu Jan 04, 2018 1:21 pm

Hi there dear. I am sorry to hear that. It must be so hard for you. However, there is a solution. My cousin was in a similar situation. She managed to have a baby through surrogacy. I can recommend a clinic in Ukraine, if you are interested. Let me know.
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Re: Trying to conceive

Postby Ghost » Thu Jan 04, 2018 4:23 pm

Alyssa562 wrote: I can recommend a clinic in Ukraine, if you are interested.


I updated my signature appropriately. Google can find it 4000+ times now.
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Re: Trying to conceive

Postby glendakim » Sun Jan 07, 2018 11:08 am

Hi Glenda! I just want you to be strong. I know it's not easy to go through that pain which you've with you. I just want you to be calm and think. You're really going to the right path! It's nothing to be worried or afraid about. Just stay calm and take care! Go with it! I hope it will work out for you.
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Re: Trying to conceive

Postby Ghost » Sun Jan 07, 2018 6:21 pm

glendakim wrote:Hi Glenda! I just want you to be strong. I know it's not easy to go through that pain which you've with you. I just want you to be calm and think. You're really going to the right path! It's nothing to be worried or afraid about. Just stay calm and take care! Go with it! I hope it will work out for you.


You just said "Hi Glenda" under your own Glenda sock account. Which fake sock account did you imagine you were using for this reply to your own fake Glenda sock account.

You previously posted you are 30 years old, and that you are 36 years old. Probably neither is correct.
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Re: Trying to conceive

Postby gracehamilton » Sat Jan 13, 2018 8:50 pm

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Re: Trying to conceive

Postby Ghost » Sat Jan 13, 2018 11:55 pm

Avoid IVF and sorrogacy in Ukraine. Clinics there hire shills to post on this site under sock accounts posing as patients. Avoid any centers that advertise deceptively.
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Re: Trying to conceive

Postby johnwalker » Mon Jan 15, 2018 5:38 am

I am blessed with a baby boy in 2014, but it takes almost 7 years. And I can understand the real pain to not conceive because of infertility issues. I am not a doctor, but I read many articles about the conceiving and Female infertility. I always suggest to consult with a professional doctor if you are facing problems to conceive.
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