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Postby glendakim » Thu Dec 21, 2017 1:29 am

Hiii everyone! This is Bella; I'm thirty-six years old. I live in Texas, USA. I've been an infertile person for nearly a decade. Well, I always wanted to have a child of my own, but due to this STD. I am not able to conceive. I just want you all to give me suggestions. I and my DH have saved a lot of money for a surrogacy process. But, Its not enough as its too expensive in the USA. Some of my husband's colleagues are suggesting us to try India for surrogacy. But, I'm not sure about it as India is an underdeveloped country...I don't think they will have good enough standards. Another hot choice which I've is Ukraine. I need suggestion from people who are experienced. I only have got good reviews of India and Ukraine. My priority is of affordability with good standards...
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Re: Not able to conceive

Postby Ghost » Thu Dec 21, 2017 2:03 am

glendakim wrote:Hiii everyone! This is Bella; I'm thirty-six years old. I live in Texas, USA. I've been an infertile person for nearly a decade. Well, I always wanted to have a child of my own, but due to this STD. I am not able to conceive. I just want you all to give me suggestions. I and my DH have saved a lot of money for a surrogacy process. But, Its not enough as its too expensive in the USA. Some of my husband's colleagues are suggesting us to try India for surrogacy. But, I'm not sure about it as India is an underdeveloped country...I don't think they will have good enough standards. Another hot choice which I've is Ukraine. I need suggestion from people who are experienced. I only have got good reviews of India and Ukraine. My priority is of affordability with good standards...


You are 36 in this post, but 30 in another post you just made.

How much do they pay you to post here under sock accounts advertising surrogacy in the Ukraine? Are you the same person with all the other fake stories? Why does your employer need to advertise falsely?

One poster just posted she was about to start IVF, right after posting she was 34 weeks pregnant from IVF.
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Re: Not able to conceive

Postby Alyssa562 » Tue Jan 02, 2018 6:17 pm

Hi there. I would ask the obvious question. Why go abroad? Why not look for some way to fund surrogacy in USA? I'm sure there would be options for that. Some insurance policy etc, maybe. I personally, feel that the risk factor increases when you go abroad. Especial because of legal issues.
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Re: Not able to conceive

Postby Ghost » Tue Jan 02, 2018 9:49 pm

Alyssa562 wrote:Hi there. I would ask the obvious question. Why go abroad? Why not look for some way to fund surrogacy in USA? I'm sure there would be options for that. Some insurance policy etc, maybe. I personally, feel that the risk factor increases when you go abroad. Especial because of legal issues.


Good points, but the OP is just an advertiser using sock accounts pretending to be a patient.
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Re: Not able to conceive

Postby KattyH » Wed Jan 03, 2018 8:05 pm

Alyssa562 wrote:Hi there. I would ask the obvious question. Why go abroad? Why not look for some way to fund surrogacy in USA? I'm sure there would be options for that. Some insurance policy etc, maybe. I personally, feel that the risk factor increases when you go abroad. Especial because of legal issues.


Reproductive tourism just like medical tourism is on a boom and getting too popular too quickly - so I assume there must be some benefits after all. However, you made an excellent point about the legal part - as far as I've been reading the post in a number of forums about the rules. The worst part is every country has its own set of them. Pretty complex and confusing ones TBH to the point of being ridiculous - like India do not permit same-sex couples for surrogacy and Ukraine needs one of the parents to have a biological link. What's wrong to be same-sex parents, eh?? I haven't read in details but the child born to a surrogate in another country must have a US passport first to return to the US - that surely isn't a piece of cake.
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Re: Not able to conceive

Postby Ghost » Wed Jan 03, 2018 8:37 pm

KattyH wrote:
Alyssa562 wrote:Hi there. I would ask the obvious question. Why go abroad? Why not look for some way to fund surrogacy in USA? I'm sure there would be options for that. Some insurance policy etc, maybe. I personally, feel that the risk factor increases when you go abroad. Especial because of legal issues.


Reproductive tourism just like medical tourism is on a boom and getting too popular too quickly - so I assume there must be some benefits after all. However, you made an excellent point about the legal part - as far as I've been reading the post in a number of forums about the rules. The worst part is every country has its own set of them. Pretty complex and confusing ones TBH to the point of being ridiculous - like India do not permit same-sex couples for surrogacy and Ukraine needs one of the parents to have a biological link. What's wrong to be same-sex parents, eh?? I haven't read in details but the child born to a surrogate in another country must have a US passport first to return to the US - that surely isn't a piece of cake.


In the USA, surrogacy laws vary tremendously among states. California is excellent, but New York is awful for surrogacy, as some examples.
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Re: Not able to conceive

Postby Alyssa562 » Thu Jan 04, 2018 1:20 pm

Hi there. That sure is unfortunate. I am glad to see you are trying to find a solution though. Many couples just give up. I read about a case where a woman tried to commit suicide because of this. She was infertile. Fortunately, now there are solutions are available. People don't need to be so hopeless. I have heard good things about surrogacy. In fact, even IVF has had a pretty decent success rate. I'm afraid I have no experience with either of the locations you mentioned. However, I do know that India no longer allows foreigners to avail their surrogacy services. So, that option is off the table I'm afraid. Do keep me updated. I would love to hear from you.
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Re: Not able to conceive

Postby gracehamilton » Fri Jan 12, 2018 6:03 am

Ivf means In Vitro Fertilization. It is a process by which an egg is extracted, a sperm sample retrieved and then combined them manually in a laboratory dish for fertilization. Then the embryo is transferred to the uterus. This gives a chance to every woman who may not be able to handle fertilization to be pregnant. However, there is a need for this to be done by professionals and people who have explored and have experience in it. There is a certain clinic my wife attended. they gave her a quality service. Below is a video that will explain them. https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC3wkbg ... xTYJhtR0rA
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Re: Not able to conceive

Postby riley129 » Fri Jan 12, 2018 6:15 am

Well Bella, according to my opinion Ukraine is the best option. As you have money and all the resources, then why don't you go for best option. One of my colleagues had a very wonderful experience with that clinic. Last year she had her surrogacy done from that clinic and now she is the mother of adorable twins. All the procedure went so smoothly at reasonable price. But when you get the dream of your life, price does not matter. So, go for it you will be successful. Good luck.
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Re: Not able to conceive

Postby kierrajack » Fri Jan 12, 2018 6:26 am

Hi there. How are you? You must go to Ukraine for the fertility treatment. I heard very positive reviews about surrogacy in Ukraine. They take good care of surrogate mothers. I wish you all the best. Take care of your health and diet.
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Re: Not able to conceive

Postby Ghost » Fri Jan 12, 2018 3:12 pm

Avoid IVF and sorrogacy in Ukraine. Clinics there hire shills to post on this site under sock accounts posing as patients. Avoid any centers that advertise deceptively.
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Re: Not able to conceive

Postby gracehamilton » Sat Jan 13, 2018 8:49 pm

Though am new here I wish to share my story. I was married at very young age. I was on my teenage. This was because of the ill-treatment I used to receive from my mother in law. My husband suggested that I may stay in his house rather than being treated that way and all that I could get was just a chunk of food. We didn't planned for any relationship. But with time, Our inner being became closer without our concepts. After we finally concluded to get married, we have tried to have a baby but failed. I have been recommended a hospital in Ukraine for ivf and I wish to know if there is anyone with its where about. This is a video which I have been told to watch.https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCg15WU ... lq45hP0NXQ. Please direct me accordingly
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Re: Not able to conceive

Postby Ghost » Sat Jan 13, 2018 11:55 pm

Avoid IVF and sorrogacy in Ukraine. Clinics there hire shills to post on this site under sock accounts posing as patients. Avoid any centers that advertise deceptively.
Avoid IVF and surrogacy in Ukraine. Ukrainian centers pay shills to post here under numerous sock accounts pretending to be patients in Ukraine. Centers using such deceptive advertising cannot be trusted and should be avoided.
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Re: Not able to conceive

Postby JennyKL2017 » Wed Jan 17, 2018 8:19 pm

As for me surrogacy is a great option for infertile couples. I still don't understand why people are so surprised when they hear about this service. It is getting really popular around the world. If infertile couple doesn't want to adopt, do they have other options to become parents? No, they don't. So, why don't they use their only chance to make their dream come true? No one can judge them. It is absolutely normal. Kids, born by the surrogates do not differ from other kids.
The main task of the couple is to choose a good medical center. Instead of reading reviews I recommend to visit different clinics to choose the best one. Prices are really different. As far as I know, the highest price doesn't mean the best service. So, it's up to you. Try to make the right choice.
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Re: Not able to conceive

Postby Ghost » Wed Jan 17, 2018 9:31 pm

JennyKL2017 wrote:As for me surrogacy is a great option for infertile couples. I still don't understand why people are so surprised when they hear about this service. It is getting really popular around the world. If infertile couple doesn't want to adopt, do they have other options to become parents? No, they don't.


Incorrect. They have many options besides surrogacy. Surrogacy is used only in a small minority of cases, although I agree that minority is growing.
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