Seltzer - I have to laugh because shouldn't it be the women that relate best to each other and understand how we feel? Your partner needs a swift kick in the "you know what" to remind her that this whole IVF/pregnancy stuff is not easy!! It is such a crazy emotional roller coaster!!! But I bet you that once she gets back, she will change her attitude and be more understanding. Personally, I wouldn't want to be dealing with me right now. Sometimes I get on my own nerves!
I guess we have to stop and look at things from the other side and realize that it is tough on the other person, too. They sometimes don't know what to say or when to say it or how to say it. My husband is very understanding and sweet, but I know he doesn't get what I am going through. He just tells me not to worry and that everything will be fine. Which I hope it will be, but of course I continue to worry!! However, he did give me a ring yesterday that was under the tree and it said "From Me and Baby", so that was soooo sweet.
I am sorry about the loss of your twin. That is rough and I am sure creates a flood of emotions. It is so confusing going through all of this. I am sure your partner doesn't know what to say to comfort you. But hey - that is what we are all here for!
momma2be - it sounds like our husbands are very similar! My hubby has always been very sweet, but seeing how much he really wants to take care of me and protect me now is very endearing. He even bought a pack of onesies and put those under the tree as well. So sweet to think of him picking them out!
Anyway, welcome aboard and glad you could join us on our thread! I also have been through a couple of failed IUI's and got pregnant on my first IVF.
MBG/dancinnancy - how are my girls doing? It is sooo great that we were able to cross threads together and be over here "on the other side" now!!!! Hope you both had a wonderful Christmas!
sharishu - congrats on the u/s scan!!! You are right on track, girl! And to think we met on the thread "A down moment during the 2ww"!!! So excited you got to see the heartbeat!!!
Hope everyone else is doing well!!!