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Post by PMApsy » Mon Oct 20, 2008 6:04 pm

HI everyone!

How are you guys doing? I'm doing okay. Lots of drama going on at work, and it's very unpleasant, but it will pass I hope. Tomorrow, I have to do a short presentation in front of doctors, their residents and externs as well (med students). Residents can be very arrogant and egotistic, doctors too, and I hope my presentation will be well-received. I hope I will excel in perspective management, it's the key!

I STOPPED THE MEDS yesterday evening! WOOHOO! I counted the doses, let me tell you! Now all I have to do is wane myself from the anti-ms meds, gradually. I'll start cutting down in a few days, when the extra hormones are out of my system. No bleeding yet, I'm keeping everything crossed!

Smiles,
I'm so sorry to hear that you're very sick!! Have you talked to your doc about it? The anti-ms meds I took are super safe, they are mostly minerals and vitamines and they are designed specifically for pregnant women. They made a HUGE difference and allowed me to have a normal life during my first trimester. Either way, I hope it goes away real soon...

Brooke,
Why wouldn't you take Tylenol for your headache? Advil isn't safe for pregnant women, but Tylenol is recommended. I sure had a whole day spoiled because I forgot my Tylenol at home and had a head-splitting headache! Do they occur often? I hope you're feeling better! *hugs* you're absolutely right; there's no reason you'd want to do further testing if the first prenatal tests (ultrasound and blood tests) are negative. I'm happy you didn't let that affect your mood. As for me, though, I reconsidered the start of my maternity leave. Knowing that studies show singleton pregnancies have higher risks for preterm delivery, I might stop working around 8 months instead of pushing it until a week or two before my due date. My MIL told me I may find it hard to travel by train and subway every day with a big belly, and then walk to and from the stations. I hope you had a great weekend!

Stacy,
I'm glad things are starting to pick up! You'll see, the fatigue really starts improving around weeks 10 and 11. Amazing what a single week can do! So, how was the in-laws' visit?? How did they react to the news? And how did you announce them? I hope it was a big fat nice Kodak moment, lol! :D Do you plan to tell them about IVF eventually?

Stefanie,
Hey, I didn't know you worked in the showbusiness!!! Are you a writer, a director? Congratulations on your opening night! Tell us how it went? What's the play about? You friend's theory seems good. I've been told the same thing for singletons, though. Given that implantation means that the embryo literally digs into your lining, it's normal to have some bleeding when the lining moves with the uterus' growth. Hehehe must be nice to have a belly already!!!

Okay, that's about it for me. Soon, I'll do some financial planning with my husband. It's hillarious; he's right on schedule with the "dad" section of the pregnancyabout.com weekly calendar! Now he's preoccupied with the financial aspects of the pregnancy and baby's arrival. So we'll sit down with the numbers and what it means to take a maternity leave of any given number of months. I'm aiming for a year, but it will depend on our budget. I'll be glad when we can define a plan, and I'm sure that will put his mind at ease too. He's not the type to worry, but he'll be bugged by that kind of practical issue, so we'd better adress it now. I was a bit disappointed when he said he may just take 5 days leave after the baby is born (the leave his company gives to new dads). He said it would depend on the situation, but I really hope I'll have help at home by then. First, he declared he's not interested in having my father and his wife move in with us for two weeks to help with the baby... at least he would be happy if his parents were there. But I'll admit I don't like the idea of being left alone at home with two dogs and a newborn barely a couple of days after we came back from the hospital! It would be insane! Ah, well... there will be plenty of occasions to discuss that!

Okay, gotta run! Take care ladies!

Sophie xxox
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Post by stefanie » Tue Oct 21, 2008 12:34 am

Hi.
I am a writer.
Brooke I get headaches almost every night. part sinus (how about this increase in mucus!?) and part is blood going to the belly. I get them after dinner.

I need to eat more veggies. It's awful. Aside from salad (and lettuce isn't that nutritious, I can't bear the stuff. (and it used to be what I lived on)
I did eat a plate of brussels sprouts last friday.

I'm eating salty foods too. so terrible.

show going well, taking it easy. I spend half of today on my bed w/ my feet up like a good girl.

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Post by slfleming1 » Tue Oct 21, 2008 4:12 am

Hey there!

The in-laws are coming in this weekend, so haven't seen them yet. I'm sure we'll tell them about IVF at that time since I'll want to show them the ultrasounds and the pictures are in little things that say "Fertility Centers of Illinois." I'm really excited!

So, Sophie - my brother and his wife just had their first baby about a month ago. My brother took off Tuesday-Friday (the baby was born on Tuesday) and had to go back to work early because of crazy stuff at work. They had a night nurse and his wife still had a really tough first week at home. Her big shock was how difficult her recovery from the episiotomy was. She also had a few episodes of baby blues after being alone those first few days. So still lots of time for you and your DH to decide what to do, but I'm taking from her experience that having someone there to lean on during the day is so important. So if the DH can't take more time, he should have to deal with the in-laws ;)

It's really great that I have my SIL and her experiences to learn from! It's been a lot of fun! I'll be sure to pass along any other helpful advice I get.

Hey Stephanie - Don't feel bad about what you are eating right now. The prenatal vitamins give us excellent backup to our diets! BTW - those little fruits cups/applesauce cups have been my lifesaver. When I'm hungry/sick, I just have one of those because they are so easy and at least it is fruit!

Take care everyone,

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Post by toobee » Tue Oct 21, 2008 3:49 pm

Thanks Buddies :lol: :lol: :lol:
Thanks for all your support ladies. I think I am probably slipping into a worrisome and paranoid state. I hope I pull through this pregnancy but all these ER trips have really messed with PMA. Bleeedig is just scarey expecally when they dont know why! I went to sleep rigt after I wrote my update to you guys and slept for 12 hours. :shock: Anway, I am glad I oreders that fetal doppler, it should have been here already I hope its hows up today and works well. Maybe that will help with this insanity until my next u/s next week. BTW because fo this I will be getting u/s every week for awhile. I am happy about that. I am also taking off from work until all this settles down, I am exhausted and now feeling stressed, so I feel its important I lighten the load. :?

Wishing you luck today Val, I hope you have a posistive u/s! :D

Big Hugs to everyone and Ill write personals a bit later when Im not feeling so emotional :roll:

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Post by Anie » Fri Oct 24, 2008 1:19 pm

Hi Sophie.
How did you presentation go?
I hope it was all ok.

My appointment with midwife was ok.
Just filling some forms and book my 12 week scan which will be on 5th November.

My weight is now 53kg and the average before was 48kg but when i weighted at home it was showing 50kg...!!!! One of the scale must me wrong.

Apart from that nothing much.

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Post by PMApsy » Sun Oct 26, 2008 8:12 pm

Hello ladies!

How are you doing? How was your weekend?

Stefanie,
Congratulations on the show going well! Hehehe tell me about mucus! I've had a semi-runny nose for weeks now. I blew my nose so much that I actually have a boo-boo on the side of my left nostril and inside the right one. Hehehhe takes a lot of self-control not to scatch it all the time! Okay, okay, TMI! ;) I'm sorry about the headaches... I thought it was the hormone changes? I hope your doc gives you advice to make it better. As for the veggies, how does soup sound like? You could make several batches when you feel up to it and freeze them in individual portions. And what about V8 or Garden Cocktail?

Stacy,
Hi there! It's great to have news! So, how was the weekend with your in-laws? How did the announcement go? :D Your advice is definitely noted, and when we organize the post-delivery days, I'll remind him (I already told him what you said). To be honest, I don't know what would be best. I think most couple are really happy to have help from relatives during the first few days. But both my MIL and my father's wife didn't breastfeed, so they won't be able to help me with that. My mom isn't an option; she lives in the US and my DH definitely wouldn't be comfortable having her around (long story); I understand and respect that. My grandmas live hours from us... I'm sure I'll figure it out, though.

Toobee,
I hope the fetal doppler will reassure you, but don't be alarmed if you don't find the heartbeat right away. 10 weeks is awfully early, and it might mean nothing. I'm glad you're able to take some rest. Make sure you do pleasant things to change your mind; renting flicks for chicks helps me, that's for sure! How's the bleeding now?

Anie,
The presentation was okay, but it wasn't an easy crowd. Thanks for asking! :) I'm glad your apt went well! Did you get to hear the heartbeats? I'll update the list with your new apt. :D OTher than that, how are you doing? Don't worry about the weight, on both scales! ;) As long as your doc makes no comment, it means you're in the expected range.

I gathered some info last week about maternity and paternity leaves. That new law that passed in Quebec a couple of years ago is really amazing. With that public insurance, plus what I'll get from work, I'll have 93% of my salary during the first 21 weeks! It's pretty incredible... my husband will have 5 weeks of paternity leave at 70% of his salary. In addition to that, I'll have 4 weeks at 70% and 25 weeks at 55%. And those percentages are calculated on your salary *before* the deductions! The last thing I have to check, though, is how much taxes we'll pay on all that. Because it's ridiculous... in that 70% phase, I would actually earn more than when I'm working! :lol: (my deductions are over 30%).

So that's very reassuring. I now feel more comfortable with the idea of leaving 1 month before my due date. I'll spend that time relaxing, cooking and filling the freezer, getting the house ready and, if I can, helping my best friend with her new baby (her due date is on April 10th). With those 5 weeks, my husband will be able to take either one week in addition to the 5 days work gives him, plus 4 weeks when I'm ready to go back to work. My father's wife told me it makes a HUGE difference. The daddy feels more confident with the baby because he's known him/her for so many months, and the mommy feels FAR better leaving her baby to her husband than to a day care or a nanny.

The other advice she gave me was to make it crystal clear with the people who would come help me that they're there to take care of all the household things I don't have time to do. But that I'm the one taking care of the baby. She heard so many of her patients complain about that misunderstanding... about well-intentioned MIL or mothers who took care of the baby while they were cooking, doing the laundry and washing the dishes... as if they were taking care of their visitors instead of taking care of themselves and their newborn. I don't want to have that kind of regrets. I already told my MIL and she understood.

Okay! Break over! Time to do some Halloween decorations! YIPPEE!

Take care y'all!

Sophie xxox
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Post by PMApsy » Sun Oct 26, 2008 8:18 pm

ImageDue dates Image

ImageSophie is due on May 2nd! One healthy heartbeat! :D Image
ImageStefanie is due on May 3rd! TWINS ALERT! :D:DImage
ImageBrooke is due on May 8th! One healthy heartbeat! :D Image
ImageSmiles2IVF is due on May 10th! One healthy heartbeat! :D Image
ImageToobee is due on May 14th! TWINS ALERT! :D:D Image
ImageAmanda is due on May 16th! TWINS ALERT! :D:D Image
ImageAnie is due on May 17th! TWINS ALERT! :D:D Image
ImageStacy is due on May 17th! One healthy heartbeat! :DImage
ImageAmy is due on May 24th! Image

ImageUltrasounds and medical appointments Image

ImageSophie prenatal tests on October 27th! Image
ImageSmiles2IVF prenatal tests on October 27th! Image
ImageStefanie ultrasound on October 30th! Image
ImageToobee ultrasound on October ??! Image
ImageBrooke prenatal tests on October ??! Image
ImageStacy prenatal tests on November 3rd! Image
ImageAnie ultrasound on November 5th! Image

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ImageValerie, we are sorry for your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you, dear friend.
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Post by PMApsy » Mon Oct 27, 2008 6:54 pm

Hi guys!

How are you doing?

Smiles2IVF
How did your test go? Can't wait to have news and update the list!

Okay, well I had my prenatal tests done this morning. I was a bit nervous! I had the blood test and we'll have the results on Wednesday afternoon if our risk is low or moderate (if it's high, they send them to your doc and your doc calls you). I was a bit disappointed by the service... my best friend, who paid the same amount (380$!!!), left with a DVD and several 3D pics of her baby. The ultrasound specialist spent a good 20 minutes with her and gave her lots of explanations. Now that I think of it, I wonder if it was because she's a doctor... anyway.

Our ultrasound lasted 10 minutes max. And because my friend told me all she was told, I knew what questions to ask. Geez, I had to ask about the nuchal measurements, because she wasn't even going to tell me!!!! But here are the good news.

The baby seems healthy and normal. We saw the brain, the spine is perfect. We have a nasal bone, which is a good sign that we're not dealing with Down Syndrome. The nuchal test was below 3mm, which is also a very good sign. The heartbeat was 155, it's what we expected (the heartbeat decreases a bit around this time).

The baby was completely hyper! LOL! :D:D I think he/she was a bit disturbed by the moves of the ultrasound machine on my belly. You should have seen that baby move! Wow! The technician even had trouble taking measurements! One second we had a profile view and a heartbeat later, the baby was facing us! The baby seemed to have a lot of fun keeping his/her legs straight and his/her feet against my uterus wall... and many times, it pushed on it and swinged! At the beginning of the exam, we saw him/her drink amniotic fluids with big gulps, it was SO CUTE! We have nice pics, even if they're not 3D. We have the baby's face (looks like an alien!!!!), we have a foot (with all toes!) we have several profile views (on two, it looks like it's about to suck its thumb).

From head to bottom, the baby measures 7cms. So my official due date is now May 2nd. We crossed my doctor on our way out and we showed him the pictures, he seemed really happy. I called my grandma and she was super happy, and I can't wait to scan the pictures and send them to family members!

The clinic made us an offer... with what we already paid (insurances cover it, phew!), we could have a 4D ultrasound for something like 100$. You leave with a DVD, it's done around week 26th and it's just for the fun of seeing baby. We have 7 days to give an answer (if not, the ultrasound is 165$). Do you guys think it's worth it? My DH's reaction was the same as mine... will we really look at that DVD again?

Okay, enough babbling! I have to write a report and then I'm headed home to scan those nice pictures! Oh, I think it's finally sinking in! I'm going to be a mommy! :D

Take care ladies,

Sophie xxox
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Post by kerpupples » Mon Oct 27, 2008 10:20 pm

Sophie - fun stuff with all the prenatal tests! Can't wait to see that level of detail with our little one. If it were me I would probably do the 4D u/s. Better be careful describing that maternity pay to us American girls though unless you want us to die of envy. Our benefits are nowhere near the same league even with the best employers. A typical good plan is 12 weeks off with 66% - 100% pay, and anything beyond that is entirely unpaid. If the father is lucky he will get a week or two paid.

toobee - how are the emotions hon?

stefanie - Congratulations on the play! I'm envious. I love to write and keep meaning to sit down and bang out a novel or a screenplay. How's your bleeding? Hopefully still just brown goo.

smiles and Brooke, how did your tests go?

Really crossing our fingers for our 10 wk u/s tomorrow. Hoping to see limbs, fingers, and toes! We've taken to calling the baby Drumstick since I had a FET and we don't know the gender yet. I am THRILLED to have come off progesterone and estrogen yesterday. The little morning sickness I had seems to be subsiding - another plus.

Has anybody else had their weight fluctuate? I've been weighing in at anywhere from 1 to 4 pounds above my prepregnancy weight in the last week.

Cheers,
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Post by slfleming1 » Tue Oct 28, 2008 2:39 am

Yay Sophie on the US!!! Great news!!! I have my next US next Monday and my blood work from the genetic testing will be complete by then as well. I'm a little bummed DH can't be there on Monday after hearing your description of how active the little one is compared to earlier US! As for the 3-D US, I'd probably skip it...but I may change my opinion after my next US!

It was fun surprising the in-laws with the news over the weekend! I'm glad we waited to tell them - they are thrilled. I'll be glad when the next test is done. I've planned a trip to NYC for 3 weeks from now to tell my friends out there the news. If the US and testing look questionable, I'll cancel my trip and reschedule after an amnio.

Good luck with the US Amy! FYI - my weight has pretty much stayed the same...which is amazing considering how much bigger my boobs are :) Today had to buy a couple of new bras in a bigger size!!! Must admit DH is thrilled ;)

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Post by smiles2IVF » Tue Oct 28, 2008 4:45 pm

Hello Everyone-
I had my prenatal test yesterday and everything went well. My DH was there with me and he got to see the baby move all around...I kept laughing and then the baby would move dthey gave my lots of pics...I was there for about 1 hour...heartbeat was 163 so they say is perfect..My next appt is Nov.24...Hope everyone is having a good pregnancy...
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BETA # 2=6174
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Post by PMApsy » Tue Oct 28, 2008 6:17 pm

Hi guys!

Amy!
Hi there hun! It's great to have news! :D Oooooooh I don't want you to die of envy... but... ahem... next time you want to make fun of those frogs from Quebec... remember that! :lol: Seriously, I'm sorry your plans are so limited... what have you planned for your maternity leave? As for the weight fluctuations, don't worry. I've lost a staggering five pounds in three weeks and I couldn't be happier. But I know it may be water retention that's gone, the fact I stopped the meds, the exercise... so many things might be responsible, who knows? Might be the same for you. If your doc isn't worried, then you shouldn't be! ;) I'm really happy that you stopped the meds too (yay!) and that your ms is almost gone! Yippee!

Stacy,
Hi ther luv! I'm so happy that the announcement went well with your in-laws! Awwww it must have been a great weekend! That trip idea sound super nice! My best friend and I wanted to go to NYC during the fall, but we changed our mind... we might go during the winter, though, to see Equus on Broadway! LOL about the boobs... DH is thrilled too, even if I didn't have to buy new bras! ;) Too bad DH can't be there for the ultrasound... can't you get them to record it and burn you a CD? That way DH could see everything...

Smiles,
Way to go sweetie! Congratulations on your beautiful and healthy baby! Wow, ONE HOUR! You lucky girl, I got 10 minutes! :D So, what kind of apt will you have on the 24th? Ultrasound? medical? Let me know so I can update the list.

Okay, gotta run! Take care ladies, and have fun!

Sophie xxox
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Post by kerpupples » Tue Oct 28, 2008 8:20 pm

It's official - I'm released to my OB! :D

The US was so much more interesting today. The baby has arms, legs, fingers, toes, and was squirming around and even flipped over! Kept trying to put hands in his/her mouth - the doctor warned us we could have a thumbsucker on our hands. The doctor also saw the baby hiccup and said that is a great sign because it means the neurological system has developed. HR was 162 and length is still right on track.

Now on to the next scary step - the genetic screening.

Sophie - I have a friend in Vancouver with the same benefits. The making fun of frogs I'll leave to my DH's English family. ;) Haven't decided what to do about my leave yet - I'm hoping to be able to take at least my entire 12 paid weeks. I'm hoping that my bloating continues to lessen now that I'm off the meds and that helps with my weight. I'm already 20 pounds overweight so I'll just have that much harder to work after the baby is born.

Stacy - my boobs are bigger too! And I was a D cup to start with. But my DH is still thrilled too - I guess they can never be too big for a man.

smiles - Congrats on the tests! It is so exciting to see the baby moving. Glad DH got to see it too.
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Post by stefanie » Wed Oct 29, 2008 7:55 am

HI !
I'm back - nice to see everyone is doing well.
I got my CVS results - all normal, and I'm having 2 BOYS!!! really excited.

Other than that I have allergies which is annoying w/ no meds and am just taking it easy.
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Post by PMApsy » Wed Oct 29, 2008 2:58 pm

Hi ladies!

Hey, it's nice to see this thread active again! People are finally emerging from the first trimester aches and pains it seems! Good for us! :D

Stefanie,
I was absolutely THRILLED and so touched to read about your CVS results! WOOHOO!!! Two healthy boys! Oh my, you're going to be a busy mom! Dad must be thrilled! :D:D Have you guys thought about names yet? Sorry about the allergies... a real bummer, especially with your headaches... no change on that front?

Amy,
Congrats on entering the joys of normal preggie health care! :D You'll see, it's totally weird when your apts become so far apart. You feel like they'll take forever to arrive, but time will fly I promise! Your ultrasound sounded lovely, I'm sure it was emotional! Awwwwww a thumbsucker! ;) Looks like you have a healthy and active baby! Amazing, isn't it, that so much action is going on inside your belly and you can't feel anything? You'll see, stopping the meds really helps with the bloating. I think it even made me lose weight; I'm 5 pounds lighter than I was at 10 weeks. Your ob should help you with your weight; maybe refer you to a nutritionist? I've heard that many people can lose weight during their whole pregnancy with the right program (it doesn't mean crazy or painful diets!!!). In fact, they can even benefit from the baby's growth to maximize their weight loss, if necessary. If you're interested and motivated to do something now, you should really get more info about it from your doctor instead of waiting until the baby is born (fatigue, being busy, and so on). If not, hey, you're going to be a beautiful and happy mommy no matter what your figure looks like, I'm sure of that! :) I'm just saying all this because I know that I will have a hard time exercising a lot and being on a diet after my baby is born.

Hey, I didn't know the Brits made fun of us... I had no idea; I thought the frog thing came from Americans! Ah, I'm not lucky. In Europe, people have a lot of preconceived ideas about Belgians. There are the european Newfies. And I'm 50% quebecker and 50% belgian, so I'm considered an idiot on both sides of the Atlantic! :lol: No kidding; we went on a trip to Egypt on our honeymoon. It was an organized trip and most people there were from France. I swear, when someone learned I was part belgian, his face dropped and he said it changed everything. He said he was so enthusiastic about me being from Quebec, and that I shouldn't have told him I was part belgian. Can you believe this guy???? Racism is everywhere... :evil:

Okay, not much to report on my side. The clinic called yesterday with our results and they are super. We have low risks for Down Syndrome (1/32000) and 18 Trisomy (1/100 000). We couldn't be happier, and we're really starting to get excited!

Take care and have a great week!

Sophie xxox
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