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melmar
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Post by melmar » Wed Feb 04, 2009 1:08 am

Marina-
I have no words to convey just how sorry I am at your loss. I can only imagine the agony and nervous fright you are in right now. Remember, if you need to check on the other-go in and get that ultrasound-it will calm you, even if it is for the minute. You are in my thoughts and prayers-

Melissa

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Post by melmar » Wed Feb 04, 2009 1:22 am

Marina-
Was looking on the internet for information about the reduction and came across this site about losing one twin-it gave some information-check it out if you want:
http://www.multiplebirthsfamilies.com/a ... r_q14.html
Melissa

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Post by Jules614 » Wed Feb 04, 2009 4:59 am

Marina - I am sooo sorry for your loss. I don't check this site often but something told me to tonight.. my heart has dropped hearing your story. I remember when you lost your son this time last year.... How are you holding up...

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Post by Jules614 » Wed Feb 04, 2009 5:11 am

Wow, I am reading through everyone's post and can't tell you how much i feel for each of you - some facing the choice of reductions, fear of miscarriages, fear of a downs baby...

I had a scare when Kaitlyn was born that she was downs. My best friend thought she had downs after I delivered her and cried all the way home (she just told me this yesterday) Kaitlyn's ears are a little off and her face was sooooo flat right after I delivered her that there was questions.. he ears are still a little off but her face is round.. but I had so much thoughts in my head when downs was a possibility!

Sometimes life just isn't fear - and itt drives me crazy when people say something happens for a reason - but why is it, we go through soo much to get pregnant and some get pregnant who don't even deserve to have children -

I read everyone's posts and I feel for each of you - I have been there - the IVF, the IUI's, the Clomid, the fears and anxiety through pregnancy..

Julie

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Post by Marina_A » Wed Feb 04, 2009 4:32 pm

Hi girls,thank you all so much,your support means a lot to me.
We went today again to see the other baby-so far so good,he was very active, h/b 160 and he (or she) had a hicups...That was a relieve for now...until Friday,i think we'll go on Friday again.The nurses are so nice and caring there,I'm glad they have u/s in every room and trained to do that.

Beth,thanks hon on checking on me! Can you tell me what happened to your friend in details? I can't get the straight answer from them-what 's going to happen now with the other baby.You can pm or e-mail me,thank you!

Melissa,what's going on with you?Are you having reduction tomorrow?
It's kinda the same situation-what are they saying about the future?

Jamie,thanks for the web site,I'm going to check it right now.

Julie,good to hear from you-you don;t visit us anymore!

I hope everyone else is good!
IVF#1-BFP,but lost our angel at 16 weeks
IVF#2-BFN
IVF#3-BFP,started w/tiplets,lost one at 7 weeks,lost a second at 15 weeks
Praying for a miracle baby to stay with us!
It's a girl!

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Post by Jules614 » Wed Feb 04, 2009 9:36 pm

Hey Marina - Things have been busy here watching tow kids - samantha is always on my computer playing her pbs srout leaving me no time.. when I am on the computer, I am usually looking for a job. I am freaking out that my unemployment ends soon and I am hoping for an extension...

I am so glad to hear your baby is still strong. I cried whe I read your post yesterday.. I can't even imagine how you felt..

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Post by vw79girl » Wed Feb 04, 2009 9:43 pm

Marina,
I am thinking of you and sending you prayers and good thoughts. hugs
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Post by JamieP » Thu Feb 05, 2009 3:09 am

Marina I am so pleased to hear the baby is doing well. I am also pleased that they will let you go so often for an ultrasound at the moment - go as often as possible for your peace of mind. I am thinking of you and sending you lots of positive vibes!!

Jamie
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Post by natashamom » Thu Feb 05, 2009 6:08 am

Hello ladies,

I`d like to join you too!

Got my BFP 3 days ago,beta was 189,my first u/s is Feb`23rd.

For some reason I posted on the wrong thread and oh boy,I got terribly b** at by this NY4 girl,I never in my life heard hateful words like hers,oh well,I never meant to hurt anyone and she goes on saying I made ghost disapear and that I already have a child,what the f?!

Anyways,she`s not gonna ruin my thrill!

Natasha.

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Post by bdantonio » Thu Feb 05, 2009 1:38 pm

hey everyone Jenny from shared journeys called me last nite they are gonna induce her 2/13/09 if she does not have her little girl by then, but she is 3cm dialated and 70% efaced.. she wanted me to say hi forher she doesnt have internet right now.. She is sending lots of good thoughts.. and marina she asked about u i updated her and she said she will have you in her prayers...

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Post by JamieP » Fri Feb 06, 2009 4:04 pm

Hi Marina, Just stopping by to see how you are doing? Are you going for a scan today. Lots of positive vibes coming your way . . . . Jamie
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Post by Marina_A » Fri Feb 06, 2009 4:23 pm

Hi guys-thanks for thinking of me.
I did not go today,I think I felt some movement yesterday,so it was enough for me to know the baby still alive.I'll just go Monday to my official appt.
I wish these movements were regular now to keep me from going crazy.But this baby's placenta in front,so I don't think I'll be feeling a lot.

Beth say hi to Jenny,I can't believe she already having another baby,it's truly a miracle!
IVF#1-BFP,but lost our angel at 16 weeks
IVF#2-BFN
IVF#3-BFP,started w/tiplets,lost one at 7 weeks,lost a second at 15 weeks
Praying for a miracle baby to stay with us!
It's a girl!

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Post by bdantonio » Fri Feb 06, 2009 5:33 pm

i cant believe she is either.. she tried to hard to get pg with gabe then turns around with hime at 2mths and found out she was pg again its crazy

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Post by Lili » Fri Feb 06, 2009 10:09 pm

Marina,
Sorry about your loss girl. I will keep you in my prayers and that lil one. Have faith!

Lyly,
What have you find out?

bdantonio,
Wow so Jenny will be having her lil one next week that is great, wow can't beleive she is that close to having her other baby that is a miracle. So how is she doing? How is lil Gabriel doing? His not 1 yet right?

Lisa,
How are those precious twins doing? I enjoy seeing their pictures you sure are a great photographer :)
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Post by JasJulesBriellesMom » Fri Feb 06, 2009 10:17 pm

Hi everyone. The baby has been keeping me busy and I have not had time to post. I have been reading though.

Marina, I am so sorry for you and I pray that your little miracle makes it to term. You are very strong and I am so hopeful for you.

Lyly, I hope your decision what ever you decide will comfort you. If you do go for the amnio, I hope all comes out fine. If not, I know you will probably worry so try and not be too stressed out. You have wanted this baby for so long and I truly believe we never are given more than we can handle.

Jamie, you are getting so close girl. I hope the next weeks fly by.

Ronda, How is Cara? How is it being back to work? Has anyone heard from Jenny or Reshema?

Lisa-Hope the twins are well. Brielle was also born with a VSD and we are hoping at her 6 month check up it too has closed. Glad to hear that was the outcome for you.

AFM, Brielle is beautiful and getting so big. She is playing with toys now and has started to laugh. I am about to start her on some cereal next week. She seems to want more than just her bottle. She does not look under nourished though. Last weigh in she was 15lbs. SHe is such a happy pleasant baby. She is so patient and I think she somehow understands she has a brother and sister with very busy schedules :D

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